CALLING OUT TO ALL ADVOCATES! NCP MOM AND DAUGHTER IN DANGER!
Help me stop any more damage to my family! Do not call police there involved!
Dupage Court is now a drive -in for Orders of Protection!
I have been on the phone since 3:00 pm today asking for help from all over.
I need to reach Lisa Madigan from the Illinois State Attorney Office. I have to talk to her myself and can only give her my information that needs to get to Dupage States Attorney.
This is a 7 year DV situation that been ongoing now to criminal actions done by ex and his wife to keep me away from them and my daughter. This is now criminal and just recently the false arrest set up for one phone call that I was accused of making in
October turns into my ex filing over month later OP.
This order of protection was written by ex's wife and setup, filed to keep me away from seeing my daughter in December until Jan when next hearing was continued. I have been in front of 3 Judges for this crime they say I committed.
One phone call on October 11, 2006 and ex was able to get another Judge and State Attorney to talk without me present. The 3rd time this is continued show proof of the evidence that papers are invalid, false, written by ex's wife, filed to dismiss my case to prevent ex charged with contempt of court. They tried to get 2 year plenary with my daughter. This Judge who signed this 2 year does not have any information or facts of this case that he would need to see.
I can't leave my house now without fearing for my life.
My ex, his sister and brother in law has assisted and continue to intimidate me in Court by appearing everytime I go to Court. I
now have records with them removing information and trying to talk to state's attorney behind closed doors. I am meeting with advocate from the family domestic violence Service's. I have the criminal evidence of information that has to be given to the States Attorney Office.
The Police are involved in this situation and do not know they are involved. They have not helped me at all and even have declined to assist getting me to my daughter.
I have not seen or talked to her since July 8, 2006.
She live's 7 minutes away from me. My ex since Feb 9, 2006 when plenary order was fraud signed has called daughter's school and canceled IEP meeting last month. He did that after receiving copy of letter sent to school regarding my rights to be present for anything to do with my daughter's education and meetings.
The school now knows why I did not attend last year and the reason being I was being withheld by my ex husband. I informed
them of ex's wife signing IEP as mother. I called and requested that another IEP meeting be set up regardless of whether my ex can come or not. To not wait to hear from him to reschedule and they have set up for March 5, 2006.
Since Feb 9, 2006 I cant reach anybody to talk or see my daughter.
I get no answer when I have called my daughter since Feb. 9 2006. I have not seen her and left message for ex's wife to bring her to me to visit. No response, no reply, nothing. I leave messages for my daughter to call me. She never has called me back. I don't believe she is getting to hear these messages.
My daughter has not seen my family in 2 years. She has not seen her sister and brother's.
This is where my ex's wife has done her illegal acts, has used her job as an employee for Village Park District. Village Police Dept she has contacts that have been made to make unknown statements as my ex husband told me . I just found out the
police thought I did not have custody or any rights to my daughter until I gave them copy of divorce and joint custody order and what to see my daughter.
My ex and his wife have been slandering me all over my community. I have threat letters from ex telling me I better watch out because his wife knows people and has contacts in the Police Department. Her brother who is manager within the Village district departments. This is her happy community of making sure I have good reputation where I have live for 14 years. What do I need watch out for?? Why should I have cared if my ex has contacts with the Police Dept or anybody?? Never could understand all these years why he would even make those statements. I saved those letters and now I know why??
My family lives out of State and does not know what the heck is going on here. I called them Christmas Day my mother upset because she gets call from my ex's wife telling her I am trying to kill my husband
and will not stop giving threats to my ex, daughter and her. I have not talked to my daughter since July 8, 2006.
There is information that my ex's wife wrote up herself and got into the Court system to have it passed on now to and in front of 3 other Judges.
I have the proof of many documents to prove beyond a reasonable doubt that all recent actions done by my ex and his wife is now criminal and contents that are facts to be able to show.
They have gone as low to want to see me out of same town community I have lived for 14 years. They get me falsely arrested hoping I would have spent Christmas in jail. That did not work so they make false report for order of protection to stay away from my daughter and ex husband for 2 year plenary order.
There false report of a phone call did not make them happy to see I still am here.
Now this order of protection turns into another Judge making a Order against me for a 2
year plenary final Order.
This Judge knows nothing that has been going on for 5 years. I have been unable to make any moves forward or in front of Judge to give them facts of documents to show who is doing what.
This order of protection my ex husband filed was 14 mins before my ex was to appear in Court with the Judge to hear on 40 pages of extreme contempt's my ex has not followed. In four years i have seen my daughter who lives 7 minutes from me 5 times. That is all 5 times in last 4 years. I am not crazy. I have done nothing wrong. My ex has the history of abuse. this is all content of DV situation and now another person his wife helping in. My daughter has another family she has not seen in 2 years. My daughter has 3 other siblings.
You call this a Joint Custody. My ex tells everybody so far in court that he has full custody and I have nothing. I have had to change his statements with the Police, my daughter's school, the courts
when they say your husband has full custody rights and you don't have any right's at all with your daughter. This is slander that is going on behind my back by my ex and his wife.
It is only this past year in finding out all of this because i will not stop fighting to get my daughter. To get the court to hears what my ex has been doing. But my ex now knows how easy it was to report a false crime of a phone call. To report threats made on going against him and harm to my daughter.
Dupage Court is now a drive -in for Orders of Protection!!!
What everybody does not even know is I am a certified DV Advocate. My job history is working with the State of Illinois as advocate in many areas here to list.
Please pass on to who want to help me get so results now.
This is a crime right now.. This is the life of a real family that is getting hurt by lack of System and abuse of ex husband and another person involved.
There is a hell of alot more training needed for the State of illinois when you can have a person walk in and get a Order of Protection without facts or proof!!
How many Orders of Protection have been filed in Dupage?? Check it out yourself it is really sad.
I will update as soon as I can. Please pass this on and have anybody send to ncpdupage@....
Thank you so much!