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  • Justinos Tekton called Justin
    ... Argh! I apologize for this sentence fragment! It has been a long work day here! Justin -- ()xxxx[]::::::::::::::::::
    Message 1 of 22 , Apr 4, 2012
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      On Wed, 2012-04-04 at 19:28 -0400, Justinos Tekton called Justin wrote:
      > If you have an Award of
      > Arms and wish to be addressed as Lady, or if you simply like the
      > period-ish sound of "I am Lady Gelleia. It is a pleasure to meet
      > you."

      Argh! I apologize for this sentence fragment! It has been a long work
      day here!

      Justin

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      ()xxxx[]::::::::::::::::::> <::::::::::::::::::[]xxxx()
      Maistor Justinos Tekton called Justin (Scott Courtney)
      Gules, on a bezant a fleam sable and on a chief dovetailed Or two keys
      fesswise reversed sable.

      justin@... http://4th.com/sca/justin/
    • Ian Green
      The article you are speaking of is Correct Title Usage for Addressing and Introducing.
      Message 2 of 22 , Apr 4, 2012
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        The article you are speaking of is "Correct Title Usage for Addressing and
        Introducing."

        https://sites.google.com/site/ianthegreen01/home/for-sca-newcomers/correcttitleusageandadress


        I am not the author of this article and reprinted it with permission from
        Countess Dulcia MacPherson, OL, OR.

        When writing to someone in a formal capacity in period there were many ways
        to go about it. The most common that I am familiar with is something along
        the lines of modern English's:

        "Greetings and Salutations unto you from Lord Ian the Green..." It can get
        more involved, "Greetings and Salutations unto Your Majesty Awesome Fighter
        from Lord Ian the Green, (enter awards alphabet soup here.)

        As for in person... you have received enough advice on that and need hear
        none further from me.

        Depending on what kingdom you are in there may be a protocol handbook to
        help out. Protocol is not the same in every Kingdom throughout the SCA.

        Ian

        On Wed, Apr 4, 2012 at 7:31 PM, Justinos Tekton called Justin <
        justin@...> wrote:

        > **
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        >
        > On Wed, 2012-04-04 at 19:28 -0400, Justinos Tekton called Justin wrote:
        > > If you have an Award of
        > > Arms and wish to be addressed as Lady, or if you simply like the
        > > period-ish sound of "I am Lady Gelleia. It is a pleasure to meet
        > > you."
        >
        > Argh! I apologize for this sentence fragment! It has been a long work
        > day here!
        >
        >
        > Justin
        >
        > --
        > ()xxxx[]::::::::::::::::::> <::::::::::::::::::[]xxxx()
        > Maistor Justinos Tekton called Justin (Scott Courtney)
        > Gules, on a bezant a fleam sable and on a chief dovetailed Or two keys
        > fesswise reversed sable.
        >
        > justin@... http://4th.com/sca/justin/
        >
        >
        >



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        Yours In Service,

        Lord Ian the Green

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      • Tom Hickey
        This aspect of this discussion may be off-topic, but since Nikki brought it up and I am a doctor, I feel obliged to reply. In the old days, a priest,
        Message 3 of 22 , Apr 5, 2012
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          This aspect of this discussion may be off-topic, but since Nikki brought it up and I am a doctor, I feel obliged to reply.
          In the old days, a priest, whether druid or Christian, had to spend some of the best years of their lives in study, deprivation and isolation while others their age were freer to work, party, etc.
          At the end of their training these professionals earned the right to serve their community. Little more than the respect of a title came with this privelege and rsponsibility.
          In the case of royalty, princes and future queens were raised from infancy by specialists to learn how to exercise leadership. 
          As an Irishman, I am not defending the divine rights of kings, but still... no one could go up to King James and say, "Wassup, Jimmy?!"
          In my case, after high school it was twelve more years of training, which included three years of working 110 hours a week, making life and death decisions in the middle of the night amidst sudden fear, chaos and blood. Calling me "Doc" or "Doctor" acknowledges what I've earned, and also preserves that very delicate balance between intimacy and professional distance that allows patients to confide secrets hat they can't tell anyone else, knowing that a doctor is expected to use the knowledge of that secret discretely and in the patient's best interests, according to the doctor's best knowledge, skill and insights. Medicine is supposed to be a calling rather than a racket, and as long as the doctor honors that role, patients should too.
          Tom Hickey MD


          ________________________________
          From: Nikki <sidhemaiden@...>
          To: scanewcomers@yahoogroups.com
          Sent: Wednesday, April 4, 2012 6:09 PM
          Subject: Re: [SCA Newcomers] Another question then - re: Title Usage



           

          THIS! And people don't understand why I get irritated as all get out
          when a doctor introduces themselves as Dr. So-and-So. All I want to say
          in return is "Oh, is Dr. listed as your first name on your birth
          certificate?"

          Éva

          On 4/4/2012 6:50 PM, Laurie Taylor wrote:
          >
          > Greetings once more,
          >
          > And yes, I did read the article on Correct Title Usage, which brought to
          > mind a question that I've had floating for quite some time.
          >
          > Since you referenced modern title usage in the article, I'll begin
          > with the
          > modern inspiration for this question. Many years ago, in an etiquette
          > book, I read about proper ways to address people, always useful, and also
          > proper ways to introduce one's self. My memory on this is fuzzy, but I
          > recall that is was considered inappropriate for one to introduce one's
          > self
          > by a title, even as simple a title as Mr. or Mrs. So, I would not
          > introduce
          > my mundane self as Mrs. Laurie Taylor, but just as Laurie Taylor.
          >
          > Oh how I wish I could find that book and confirm my memory of this stuff!
          >
          > But on the SCA side of things, if one has any sort of title at all,
          > does one
          > use it when introducing one's self to another? Or is it like the mundane
          > book o'manners, wherein one is told NOT to do that?
          >
          > Do I introduce myself as Gelleia de Horslaporte? Or as Lady Gelleia de
          > Horslaporte? I can introduce other people, but seldom seem to need to do
          > so. No clue on introducing myself, and that's the one that I seem to need
          > all the time!
          >
          > YIS
          >
          > Gelleia
          >
          > -----Original Message-----
          > From: scanewcomers@yahoogroups.com
          > <mailto:scanewcomers%40yahoogroups.com>
          > [mailto:scanewcomers@yahoogroups.com
          > <mailto:scanewcomers%40yahoogroups.com>] On
          > Behalf Of Ian Green
          > Sent: Wednesday, April 04, 2012 2:33 PM
          > To: scanewcomers@yahoogroups.com <mailto:scanewcomers%40yahoogroups.com>
          > Subject: Re: [SCA Newcomers] Favors
          >
          > They are favors or tokens or badges.
          >
          > For my understanding of favors and tokens:
          >
          > https://sites.google.com/site/ianthegreen01/home/for-sca-newcomers/favorsand
          > tokens
          >
          > Badges can be used as a favor or token yes, but often they are for
          > something else.
          >
          > Badges generally denote that you belong to a household or an office.
          >
          > The badge for the office of the Chatelain(e) (its french only females get
          > the "e" on the end,) for example is the seneschal key dropped hanging down
          > on a green background. that is the BADGE OF OFFICE for the Chatelain(e).
          > Some people might put them on the belt fabric. I wore mine on a necklace.
          >
          > Ian the Green__
          >

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        • D'vorah bint Da'ud
          ... More importantly, calling someone Doctor means (or, rather, SHOULD mean, but doesn t always because of PhD holders) that if there is a medical emergency,
          Message 4 of 22 , Apr 5, 2012
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            On 5 Apr 2012, at 1:16 PM, Tom Hickey wrote:

            > In the old days, a priest, whether druid or Christian, had to spend some of the best years of their lives in study, deprivation and isolation while others their age were freer to work, party, etc.
            > At the end of their training these professionals earned the right to serve their community. Little more than the respect of a title came with this privelege and responsibility…[snip] In my case, after high school it was twelve more years of training, which included three years of working 110 hours a week, making life and death decisions in the middle of the night amidst sudden fear, chaos and blood. Calling me "Doc" or "Doctor" acknowledges what I've earned…

            More importantly, calling someone Doctor means (or, rather, SHOULD mean, but doesn't always because of PhD holders) that if there is a medical emergency, someone can run to that person for help. Calling someone Doctor means that others are reminded of that person as a resource, and if that doctor is the only one who knows that he/she is a doctor, then he/she will have to be the one to make that clear during introductions.
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          • Bill Toscano
            Actor: Is there a doctor in the house? Patron: I m a doctor! Actor: Hey Doc. Enjoying the show? [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
            Message 5 of 22 , Apr 5, 2012
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              Actor: "Is there a doctor in the house?"

              Patron: "I'm a doctor!"

              Actor: "Hey Doc. Enjoying the show?"


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            • Tom Hickey
              Good one (and I welcome bit of levity after my blow-up!) ________________________________ From: Bill Toscano To:
              Message 6 of 22 , Apr 5, 2012
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                Good one (and I welcome bit of levity after my blow-up!)



                ________________________________
                From: Bill Toscano <liamstliam@...>
                To: scanewcomers@yahoogroups.com
                Sent: Thursday, April 5, 2012 1:47 PM
                Subject: Re: [SCA Newcomers] Another question then - re: Title Usage



                 

                Actor: "Is there a doctor in the house?"

                Patron: "I'm a doctor!"

                Actor: "Hey Doc. Enjoying the show?"

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              • Tom Hickey
                Good point! ________________________________ From: D vorah bint Da ud To: scanewcomers@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, April 5,
                Message 7 of 22 , Apr 5, 2012
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                  Good point!



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                  From: D'vorah bint Da'ud <dvorah@...>
                  To: scanewcomers@yahoogroups.com
                  Sent: Thursday, April 5, 2012 1:21 PM
                  Subject: Re: [SCA Newcomers] Another question then - re: Title Usage


                  On 5 Apr 2012, at 1:16 PM, Tom Hickey wrote:

                  > In the old days, a priest, whether druid or Christian, had to spend some of the best years of their lives in study, deprivation and isolation while others their age were freer to work, party, etc.
                  > At the end of their training these professionals earned the right to serve their community. Little more than the respect of a title came with this privelege and responsibility…[snip] In my case, after high school it was twelve more years of training, which included three years of working 110 hours a week, making life and death decisions in the middle of the night amidst sudden fear, chaos and blood. Calling me "Doc" or "Doctor" acknowledges what I've earned…

                  More importantly, calling someone Doctor means (or, rather, SHOULD mean, but doesn't always because of PhD holders) that if there is a medical emergency, someone can run to that person for help. Calling someone Doctor means that others are reminded of that person as a resource, and if that doctor is the only one who knows that he/she is a doctor, then he/she will have to be the one to make that clear during introductions.
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                  Middle Kingdom, Midlands, Ayreton, Tree-Girt-Sea (Chicago, IL)
                  dvorah@...
                  http://www.consensualreality.net/sca
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                • Bill Toscano
                  Thought you were fine, Tom. Valid points. Liam ... [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
                  Message 8 of 22 , Apr 5, 2012
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                    Thought you were fine, Tom.

                    Valid points.

                    Liam


                    On Thu, Apr 5, 2012 at 3:21 PM, Tom Hickey <thickeymd@...> wrote:

                    > **
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                    >
                    > Good one (and I welcome bit of levity after my blow-up!)
                    >
                    > ________________________________
                    > From: Bill Toscano <liamstliam@...>
                    > To: scanewcomers@yahoogroups.com
                    > Sent: Thursday, April 5, 2012 1:47 PM
                    >
                    > Subject: Re: [SCA Newcomers] Another question then - re: Title Usage
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                    >
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                    > Actor: "Is there a doctor in the house?"
                    >
                    > Patron: "I'm a doctor!"
                    >
                    > Actor: "Hey Doc. Enjoying the show?"
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                  • Ian Green
                    My wife has her Ph.D. and she too has earned the right to be called Doctor. In fact on formal invitations and introductions my wife s name goes first because
                    Message 9 of 22 , Apr 5, 2012
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                      My wife has her Ph.D. and she too has earned the right to be called Doctor.

                      In fact on formal invitations and introductions my wife's name goes first
                      because she has the higher title as she has most certainly earned it. It
                      is not Mr and Mrs the Green. It is Mrs Jane Doe and Mr the Green. If
                      truly formal it is Dr Jane Doe and Mr Ian the Green.

                      I'm pretty sure that not everyone goes around calling the MD doc or doctor.
                      If in a medical setting they sure do and they darn well better, that title
                      has been earned. Just like my wife doesn't get introduced as Dr Jane Doe
                      in every situation.

                      Friends hanging out at a restaurant having fun and someone stops by that
                      doesn't know everyone, you don't introduce the MD or the Ph.D. as Doctor
                      anything. It's, "Hey, this is my friend John Doe." At a conference my
                      wife gets introduced as "Dr. Jane Doe." In the Hospital the MD gets
                      introduced or introduces themself as Dr. John Doe.

                      I certainly wouldn't introduce my wife in a first aid situation as Doctor
                      as that would give people the wrong impression. In fact she's not even 1st
                      aid or CPR qualified at the moment.

                      As it was said earlier. Usage of title depends entirely on the social
                      construct and situation. I had the honor of serving Her Majesty of the
                      Midrealm by being one of the retainers on site. When my shift ended I
                      happened to know the person who was replacing me. I introduced my
                      replacement to Her Majesty:

                      "You're Majesty, it is my pleasure to have the honor to introduce you to
                      Lady Jane Doe who recently moved to this Kingdom from Far Far Away where
                      she was a protocol herald and was the Kingdom Chatelaine there for a term."

                      This worked well. Her Majesty was well introduced, knew some quick
                      information about the lady and what title she had.

                      I had introduced this same lady to friends at the event earlier as, "This
                      is Jane Doe. She's recently came here from Far Far Away where she was
                      pretty active. I met her at scribal practice night and like most scadians
                      likes a lot of activities."

                      For me, when I introduce myself in person, I generally just say, "Hi, I'm
                      Ian. Ian the (pointing to my garb,) Green." And that covers it pretty
                      well. They at least remember the color and that cues them to the name.

                      Yours in Service,

                      Ian

                      On Thu, Apr 5, 2012 at 3:22 PM, Tom Hickey <thickeymd@...> wrote:

                      > **
                      >
                      >
                      > Good point!
                      >
                      > ________________________________
                      > From: D'vorah bint Da'ud <dvorah@...>
                      > To: scanewcomers@yahoogroups.com
                      > Sent: Thursday, April 5, 2012 1:21 PM
                      >
                      > Subject: Re: [SCA Newcomers] Another question then - re: Title Usage
                      >
                      >
                      > On 5 Apr 2012, at 1:16 PM, Tom Hickey wrote:
                      >
                      > > In the old days, a priest, whether druid or Christian, had to spend some
                      > of the best years of their lives in study, deprivation and isolation while
                      > others their age were freer to work, party, etc.
                      > > At the end of their training these professionals earned the right to
                      > serve their community. Little more than the respect of a title came with
                      > this privelege and responsibility�[snip] In my case, after high school it
                      > was twelve more years of training, which included three years of working
                      > 110 hours a week, making life and death decisions in the middle of the
                      > night amidst sudden fear, chaos and blood. Calling me "Doc" or "Doctor"
                      > acknowledges what I've earned�
                      >
                      > More importantly, calling someone Doctor means (or, rather, SHOULD mean,
                      > but doesn't always because of PhD holders) that if there is a medical
                      > emergency, someone can run to that person for help. Calling someone Doctor
                      > means that others are reminded of that person as a resource, and if that
                      > doctor is the only one who knows that he/she is a doctor, then he/she will
                      > have to be the one to make that clear during introductions.
                      >
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                      > D'vorah bint Da'ud
                      > Middle Kingdom, Midlands, Ayreton, Tree-Girt-Sea (Chicago, IL)
                      > dvorah@...
                      > http://www.consensualreality.net/sca
                      > Twitter: @DvorahSCA
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                      Lord Ian the Green

                      http://sites.google.com/site/ianthegreen01/

                      Ian's Flickr account <http://www.flickr.com/photos/ianthegreen/>


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                    • Bill Toscano
                      I usually use, Hi, I m Liam. I m harmless. Works, unless I have friends around, who snicker. ;) Liam I am a peer, and I am here to help you ;) [Non-text
                      Message 10 of 22 , Apr 5, 2012
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                        I usually use, "Hi, I'm Liam. I'm harmless."

                        Works, unless I have friends around, who snicker. ;)

                        Liam
                        I am a peer, and I am here to help you ;)


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                      • Tom Hickey
                        Why do people need reassuring? Do you look like Harry Potter s friend Hagred with his crossbow? :) ________________________________ From: Bill Toscano
                        Message 11 of 22 , Apr 5, 2012
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                          Why do people need reassuring?
                          Do you look like Harry Potter's friend Hagred with his crossbow? :)


                          ________________________________
                          From: Bill Toscano <liamstliam@...>
                          To: scanewcomers@yahoogroups.com
                          Sent: Thursday, April 5, 2012 3:01 PM
                          Subject: Re: [SCA Newcomers] Another question then - re: Title Usage



                           

                          I usually use, "Hi, I'm Liam. I'm harmless."

                          Works, unless I have friends around, who snicker. ;)

                          Liam
                          I am a peer, and I am here to help you ;)

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                        • Ian Green
                          Anyone in the SCA who tells you that they are harmless... Shoot them first! :-P Generally speaking of course. (What was that about the pretty redheaded
                          Message 12 of 22 , Apr 5, 2012
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                            Anyone in the SCA who tells you that they are harmless...

                            Shoot them first! :-P

                            Generally speaking of course.

                            (What was that about the pretty redheaded royalty Liam?) :-)

                            Ian the "probably going to pay for that," Green


                            On Thu, Apr 5, 2012 at 4:01 PM, Bill Toscano <liamstliam@...> wrote:

                            > **
                            >
                            >
                            > I usually use, "Hi, I'm Liam. I'm harmless."
                            >
                            > Works, unless I have friends around, who snicker. ;)
                            >
                            > Liam
                            > I am a peer, and I am here to help you ;)
                            >
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                            Yours In Service,

                            Lord Ian the Green

                            http://sites.google.com/site/ianthegreen01/

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