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The Power of Love - Dating Smart

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  • C. K.
    http://gogo.kubera.ro/a.htm ***************************** You don’t need to depend on fate to bring “The One” to your doorstep. You might have to wait a
    Message 1 of 1 , Apr 11, 2006
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      You don’t need to depend on fate to bring “The
      One” to your doorstep. You might have to wait a
      very long time.

      You don’t have to be the prettiest girl or the
      most handsome guy to be a successful dater. You
      don’t need a huge bank account. You don’t have to
      drive a new sports car, live in a large home, have
      the best sense of humor, or the most confidence.
      These things are all desirable; but chances are,
      they won’t keep the target of your affection
      around forever.

      So what is it that you need to get and keep your
      love around? The answer is simple.


      Many people looking for relationships are
      searching for someone to complete them, to fill in
      what is lacking in their own lives. A smart dater
      pays attention to detail, determines what it is
      that the other person is lacking, and ultimately
      provides it. A smart dater knows that when you are
      a source of something another person needs to be
      happy, you have power over them.

      The first step to achieving power and becoming a
      smart dater is assessing the personality of the
      person you want to be with. You must zone in on
      the characteristic that defines the person most.
      Then, use your observations about their
      personality to determine what the person needs in
      his or her life to be happy. Finally, provide it.

      Take, for example, the aggressive personality. If
      you’re in love with The Aggressor, you know that
      he or she isn’t a bit shy. The Aggressor knows
      what he or she is after, and thrives on the
      challenge of attaining it. Love with The Aggressor
      can be compared to a sport, and The Aggressor is
      looking to win. Like in any sport, an easy victory
      can be quite boring and quick. Your task is to
      give the Aggressor a challenge. Do not let your
      heart be an easy win. If you do, the Aggressor
      will simply move on to the next person. When the
      Aggressor leaves you a voice mail to call them
      back, forget to call. When the Aggressor asks you
      out for a date, once in a while tell them that you
      are too busy. Be moody, selfish, and difficult
      from time to time. Now, don’t be completely mean –
      remember, you must give kindness and affection to
      The Aggressor as much as you take it away. This
      will drive The Aggressor insane, and cause him or
      her to lose focus of the game. In no time, you’ll
      be holding the trophy.

      Perhaps your love interest is not The Aggressor.
      Perhaps he or she is reserved and shy. This
      personality type tends to be innocent, and maybe
      lacking in solid relationship experience. You job,
      then, is to initiate The Quiet One into the realm
      of relationships and dating. Give The Quiet One
      something to get excited about. Shower The Quiet
      One with frivolous gifts and attention. Approach
      The Quiet One with zest, energy, and an
      ultra-positive attitude about life. Essentially,
      bring The Quiet One out of his or her shell,
      making them feel comfortable with you. In return,
      The Quiet One will become almost dependant on you
      for fun, activity, and love.

      There are a myriad of personality types you will
      find out in the world. Another is The Snob. This
      person needs an average Joe or Jane to bring them
      down to earth. They won’t want to stoop to the
      level of giving you a second look – but be
      persistent. The Snob’s affection is earned. The
      more affection you give, the more flattered The
      Snob will become. This is because The Snob, by
      trait, likes to be given things. Instead of
      spoiling the Snob with things he or she already
      has, provide something unique. Cook The Snob
      romantic dinners at home, and skip the fancy
      restaurants. Pick the female Snob wildflowers
      instead of buying traditional roses. The Snob can
      then brag to other Snobs that he or she has
      someone “different” than everyone else. And as you
      know, Snobs always like to have what everyone else

      There is also The Soap Opera Star. If you have the
      saintly qualities needed to love The Soap Opera
      Star, more power to you. This person eats, sleeps,
      and breathes drama. Take the normal ups and downs
      in life, and multiply them by 1000. Such is the
      life of The Soap Opera Star. The Soap Opera Star
      misplaces his golf club, and everything that
      happens from that point on in the day is
      absolutely ruined. Don’t be surprised if The Soap
      Opera Star takes his or her troubles out on you.
      If you desire to love this gem, patience,
      understanding (even if you must pretend) and the
      ability to console are qualities you have to put
      forth. The Soap Opera Star will end up completely
      in love with you. If you decide to leave The Soap
      Opera Star, he or she will stalk you.

      Another popular personality is The Complainer.
      Everything annoys The Complainer. You can tell The
      Complainer that he or she looks nice today, and
      they will respond with a very serious, “Why do you
      have to lie to me? I gained 5 pounds in the last
      week, my pants look too short, and I’m having a
      bad hair day. I definitely know I can’t trust you
      to tell me the truth.” If you truly love The
      Complainer, you will never take their words to
      heart. You will also keep providing them with more
      topics to complain about, like a drug supply to an
      addict. Bring up topics that you know they love to
      moan about. They, in turn, will provide you with
      hours of one-on-one conversation. You’d better
      have a good ear to listen, and be able to support
      them in their outlandish claims. Don’t expect to
      do too much talking yourself. The Complainer will
      love you to death. Literally.

      All in all, no matter what type of person you are
      trying to win over, you can do it with a little
      bit of common sense and consideration. Think your
      way through the situation. That’s all it takes.
      The power of love is in your hands.

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