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19 Tammuz

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  • Ora K
    In the merit of this learning may Hadassa Raizel bat Sorel be blessed with an immediate refuah shleima bitoch she ar cholei yisrael.  I  People strive hard
    Message 1 of 5 , Jun 26, 2013
      In the merit of this learning may Hadassa Raizel bat Sorel be blessed with an immediate refuah shleima bitoch she'ar cholei yisrael. 

      I
       People strive hard to please a critical person, whether it is a parent, a teacher, a boss or a friend. The critic may believe that they are actually performing a great service, driving others to reach for higher standards. Even without the use of blunt, negative labels, if a person's efforts are constantly met with criticism, the cumulative message is, "you are a failure."

      II
      The great leaders, teachers and parents are masters of encouragement. They seek out the smallest shred of talent in others and nurture it with encouragement. In such an environment, people are inspired to conceive of their most creative ideas, their most idealistic plans, knowing that they will never be knocked down for trying and failing. 

      (Positive Word Power by Chafetz Chaim Heritage Foundation)

      Create a meaningful day!
      - Ora
    • Ora K
      In the merit of this learning may Yehudis Batya bat Rachel Chaya be blessed with an immediate refuah shleima bitoch she ar cholei yisrael.  I  People strive
      Message 2 of 5 , Jul 16, 2014
        In the merit of this learning may Yehudis Batya bat Rachel Chaya be blessed with an immediate refuah shleima bitoch she'ar cholei yisrael. 

        I
         People strive hard to please a critical person, whether it is a parent, a teacher, a boss or a friend. The critic may believe that they are actually performing a great service, driving others to reach for higher standards. Even without the use of blunt, negative labels, if a person's efforts are constantly met with criticism, the cumulative message is, "you are a failure."

        II
        The great leaders, teachers and parents are masters of encouragement. They seek out the smallest shred of talent in others and nurture it with encouragement. In such an environment, people are inspired to conceive of their most creative ideas, their most idealistic plans, knowing that they will never be knocked down for trying and failing. 

        (Positive Word Power by Chafetz Chaim Heritage Foundation)

        Create a meaningful day!
        - Ora
         
      • Ora K
        In the merit of this learning may Devorah Chaya bat Tila be blessed with an immediate refuah shleima bitoch she ar cholei yisrael.  Rules of speaking negative
        Message 3 of 5 , Jul 5, 2015
          In the merit of this learning may Devorah Chaya bat Tila be blessed with an immediate refuah shleima bitoch she'ar cholei yisrael. 

          Rules of speaking negative truths for a constructive purpose:

          I
          If one complaint against the person would be enough to persuade your friend, then you may not reveal any more negative information. Stick with the bare minimum. Remember you are doing this to prevent your friend from harm, not to get out your frustration. 

          II
          Your intention in disclosing this negative information must be for a constructive purpose and not as a way of venting your personal issues. 

          (Purity of Speech by C.T. Friedman)

          Create a wonderful day!
          - Ora

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