LOVING THE ONE YOU'RE WITH MAKES YOU FIT FOR POLYAMORY by Sasha
- LOVING THE ONE YOU'RE WITH MAKES YOU FIT FOR POLYAMORY by Sasha
Lessin, Ph.D. sashalessinphd@...
If you're part of a couple that's looking for, but haven't found the
poly lovers you want, don't despair. Instead, in the couple of
which you're now part, love each other more. Appreciate what you've
got, don't suffer for what you've not.
Apply non-attachment to polyamory. Celebrate you couple-
relationship and you cease suffering about polyamory. Enjoy the
present with your mate. If you and your primary don't attract other
lovers, you're okay with each other and you don't suffer. If other
lovers do come to youand they willcelebrate that too. Fully
celebrate the relationship you have and new poly possibles present
themselves plentifully. When Janet and I relate joyously to each
other, new lovers appear. Message's clear. Love your life as it
now is and it gets better.
Here's the All-Chakra Tantra approach to enjoying your present
pairing to the max and thereby promoting your poly possibilities.
Chakra 1, Encourage each other's Inner Children to play and expose
Chakra 2: Enjoy mutual sensuality.
Chakra 3, Empower each other claim what's rightfully yours.
Chakra 4: give and get romantic love.
Chakra 5: Communicate compassionately and authentically,
Chakra 6: Share thoughts, intuitions, visions,
Chakra 7: Experience your oneness with each other and the Universe.
My bet is the more you love each other at all levels, the more love
you'll attract from others.