a gust of winter blows in..
- Hello all,
How are you all doing?
I'm new to the group & I thought I'd introduce myself to you all.
I'm a 19 y.o. fulfigured femme from the new orleans westbank who is
interested in both BDSM & polyamory. I've been in a polyamorous
relationship in the past, & I think I've known for a longtime before
then that polyamory (although i didn't have a word for it back then)
was the lifestyle choice that I found most desirable for my own life.
Well, I'll probably be lurking for awhile (that is if you all start
posting :P~) & attempting to get a feel for the community.
I hope that all are well
- --- In email@example.com, "Winter
<winterconcertina@a...>" <winterconcertina@a...> wrote:
> Hello all,Welcome to the group! We have been real quiet lately, I guess people
>> I'm new to the group & I thought I'd introduce myself to you all.
> I'm a 19 y.o. fulfigured femme from the new orleans westbank who is
> interested in both BDSM & polyamory. > blessed be,
are busy with the holidays. I am a BDSM poly pagan........
You are younger than a lot of polys I've met, so let me ask you, and
everybody out there:
When did you realize you were poly? Have you always been, or was it
a conscious decision? How old were you when you realized/decided?
What brought you to this conclusion?
Ok, We have a bunch of new members...... let's get a discussion going!
With all my heart,
"Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with
whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart."
Marcus Aurelius (121-180 AD)
Roman emperor, philosopher
- well, i guess i am the first to reply, i am 21, bi and poly, engaged
to a wonderful man, and i have always had a curiosity, but never
acted upon it, i guess i was scarred of the reactions from
people...also, my first kiss was a peck from my little sisters best
friend when we were drinking, and from there, everytime we were
drinking, one of the guys would ask for the girls to kiss!!!
lol...typical men!! anyway, the curiosity came out with my fiance,
we had a 3some w/my best friend, no G/G action, but i ended up
comming out to him, and eventually we began talking about polyamorous
life, and how we would love to have a relationship w/the right
girl.....thank gawd i have someone so supportive of me, and of
course, willing to try what i want!!!! anyway, i would also love to
hear more stories from other members....WAKE UP PEOPLE!!!!!!
lmao.....lovez, C and J
> When did you realize you were poly? Have you always been, or wasit
> a conscious decision? How old were you when you realized/decided?going!
> What brought you to this conclusion?
> Ok, We have a bunch of new members...... let's get a discussion
- Welcome Winter,
While this group has indeed been quiet
lately, to quote Kelley... I think that a gust
of winter may be just what is needed to
"blow out the pipes..."... Or perhaps a better
way to say it, "To stimulate a BRISK
LOL... I crack myself up...
To answer Kelley's question, I think I
started thinking in poly terms at a VERY
early age... I recall reading a book from my
mother's extensive library at an early age,
called "EVERTHING YOU WANTED TO KNOW
ABOUT SEX". I think I was about 11...
I also recall the terrible fights that arose
and ultimately brought about my parents
divorce, because of my father's
"cheating"...(they divorced when I was 12).
My memories are that I formulated some of
my very earliest conclusions and life rules
based on those influences. I could
COMPLETELY understand why my mother
was so upset, due to the lies and deceptions.
But, I alos had a strong feeling that she
might have taken a whole different view if
she had been given the opportunity to
By the time I was 21, I had been involved in
threesomes, foursomes and moresomes and
in fact, when I turned 21, I was living with
sisters in an openly poly relationship.
It seems that as I have grown older, the type
of relationship I strive to create becomes
more about mutual enrichment rather than
purely physical gratification.
That's not to say there's no hot sex... But,
there has to be MUCH more too...
Best Wishes to All for a VERY HAPPY and
SAFE HOLIDAY SEASON!