- Successful marriage means dating your spouse
With all the hectic lives we now live, it�s hard to
remember to take time to nurture our relationship with
our spouses. After all, there are dishes to be done,
clothes to wash, floors to be mopped, weeds to be
pulled, homework to be done, meals to be cooked, bills
to be paid, volunteer obligations to be met, and so on
and so forth. But if we don�t take a time out to
nurture our relationship with our spouse, we could
destroy that relationship.
Feel like a special night out with your sweetheart?
Then let's get started:
Pick a night and find an over-night sitter as well as
a romantic hotel and restaurant; then pack your bags.
Put an invitation on your spouse�s steering wheel or
where they will be sure to see it in the morning,
stating the time and place to meet.
Send a small balloon or flower bouquet to your love,
with a special note stating, "I can't wait to see you
Get to the hotel room early and place rose petals on
the bed and scented candles on the nightstand (or all
around the room).
Bring a small gift that holds a significant memory,
that belongs only to the two of you.
Lay your spouse's clothes out on the bed, with a small
gift-wrapped box of their favorite candy.
Call your spouse and tell him/her to hurry home after
work, then leave a note on the door stating, "honey I
have taken the kids to the sitter, please change and
meet me here, your clothes are on the bed."
Have a fun night!
Remember that you do not want to talk about the kids,
the bills, work, or anything stressful in your life;
just concentrate on getting to know one another all
over again. Have fun and relax.
Can't afford to do all of the above? Don't let that
stop you! Turn your living room into a dance floor,
your kitchen into a restaurant, and your bedroom into
the hotel room. Just spice things up a bit by using a
fancy dinner arrangement with candles and soft music.
You may also want to have dinner ready to go as he
walks in the door, as to not spoil the mood. For an
extra added twist, consider setting everything up
outside under the evening stars.
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For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord. Plans to prosper you and not harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future.