Re: [Orthognathic Surgery Support ] Re:Please notice, BRANDI and RAY
- Thank you for saying what many of us are thinking at this point, Diane! It seems both parties continue to want the last word in this matter. Agree to disagree and put an end to it. Someone has to be the bigger better person in this situation and choose NOT to respond again!
dmd13cyto <dmd13cyto@...> wrote: Sometimes the MOST mature thing to do is NOT to respond at all. It
would be best to just move on - enough quality time has been wasted
to choke a horse. Brandi and Ray: please instruct ALL parties to
retreat and go to their perspective corners for the good and health
of this group!! Thank You! I think the very next person to continue
responding should be asked to vacate this group!!~~~ Diane--- In
> and what the heck is this???
> "You horrible old dispicablle (I'm guessing you mean despicable)
> Everybody knows Susan Fiddly is a mere ninfant! It's been
> many times... All in a goodnatured sense of humor. Try one of yourthing?
> favored archive searches on that one!
> "I hope you did not have children"??? How dare you say such a
> How dare you judge, without ever meeting, who might be a fitparent
> and who might not? That reeks of a truly, truly nasty sense of aeducated
> society to me... I'll leave out the name, but if you are as
> as some might think you believe yourself to be, you can find it inSaddam's
> your historical dictionary...
> "Go back to the hole you came from" ... This is "polite"? In what
> possible realm of your imagination? Saddam's Iraq? Or post-
> Iraq? Not any that I have ever encountered. You have here indeedagain,
> passed the Pale. (Time to take out the historical dictionary
> if you don't get that one.)I
> I could be mistaken, but I believe that the only owner with the
> power to ban members here is Brandi. I encourage you to ask her to
> look at your posts.
> NOTE TO BRANDI HERE: I suspect that you and Susan have had
> disagreements; I suspect that you have disagreed with some things
> have posted, as well. But check out the above, and see who ismaking
> vitriolic personal attacks here, irrelevant to the general subjectfrom
> of surgery, recovery or anything fit for this topic. What comes
> our nameless friend who hides behind numbers and letters iswould
> embarrassing. The people I knew in the second grade in school
> not have been so unkind, even to those they found foreign. It isfree
> damaging to both the person who makes and the person who is the
> victim of the attack, no matter how serene, helpful and humble the
> recipient may try to feel. It has no place on this site.
> As for my "raving" (I will leave Susan to defend herself; we are
> not, no matter what you think, joined at the hip), I believe that
> another of your archive searches will find it on the subject of
> popcorn and peanuts being distributed in my office on Fridayfar
> evenings between March 2001 and October 2002, all the while, bur
> mercifully short time, I wore brackets and wires and the goodies
> were forbidden.I do not remember "ranting" about anything else.
> Geesh! You must indeed be very unhappy to take something so gentle
> as Susan Fiddlesticks' posts as anything to do with a rant. I am
> quicker to anger, but equally as unlikely, as I do not visit thissuggest
> site to exercise my anger; rather, I am here for hope, and in an
> effort to offer the sort of help and humor I had when I was truly
> unlearned, starting off, and in need.
> I hope you find some help for what ails you, as I said earlier.
> Alas, you have lost your politesse. And your temper. I would
> that you might benefit from some instruction in managing those asremember
> well. Five-year-olds stand and stamp their feet and say, "I hate
> you!" You have taken this conversation to a level I cannot
> encountering before, and I myself, although I have tried to be athat
> faithful and encouraging member, am perhaps ready to depart. If
> is your goal, you may have accomplished it. I am almost eventhey
> persuaded that you are a late and unbeloved member yet again in
> disguise, so to disrupt the group with incivility.
> Please do forward whatever you choose to Brandi, and to Ray. If
> choose to ditch me, it will be no loss to my life, if this is theme,
> level to which the group has descended. When I came here, it was a
> place of love and support and humor.
> This level of acrimony, name calling and hatred is incredible to
> and intolerable.omg,
> --- In email@example.com, "in2005im"
> <in2005im@> wrote:
> > Look at you, you horrible old dispicablle woman. If in fact you
> are a
> > grown adult I hope you did not have children.
> > I've been polite with you, and now i'm telling you 'get lost'
> > Go back to the hole you came from.
> > I think with the amount of emails I have received in the last 2-3
> > days, there should be a petition started to have you banned.
> > There would be some very happy people here.
> > How dare you continue you horrible old misleading woman, I feel
> > for you and all the people that you harass on these boards -
> > the years!
> > People dont need it in their lives Susan, move on.
> > Listen kids, learn from this.
> > Mod's, you should seriously consider listening to your members
> > complaints against this person.
> > ***Thank you for the emails I have recieved (honeslty and truly)
> > everyone is saying the same thing. (anyone care to guess?) If I
> > thought I was the only one starting to feel such a resentmentthat
> > this poster, I probably wouldnt have taken the time to repost. I
> > only imagine the travisty thats taken place over the years.
> > --- In firstname.lastname@example.org,
> > <no_reply@> wrote:
> > >
> > > Dana, I realize that you are in an awful emotional state, and
> > > posting from that state of mind. I have been flamed before and
> > > what it feels like, and have posted in anger and know what
> > > feels like too. I've been on both sides of that fence. It's ain
> > > I try hard to avoid these days, which is sometimes very
> difficult. I
> > > don't feel there's any good that can come from actions taken
> > > anger, unless one's in a life-threatening situation. That'sto
> > > I'm at these days.
> > >
> > > I can also understand, from your e-mails, that you don't want
> > > read anything positive about Dr T, and I understand why youfair
> > > Cammie for her response (which doesn't mean I agree with the
> > > behaviour), and dislike reading mine. But I do not think it
> > > characterize us as ranting and cutting down others' opinions.
> > > to be fair, present a balanced viewpoint and offer suggestions
> > > our experience and knowledge to those who are receptive (and
> > > sometimes to those who aren't). I don't think we're the only
> > > who have posted positive views about our surgeons - sometimes
> > > think Diane is running the Dr Bailey fan club here :Ddon't!),
> > >
> > > Despite what you've said here, I have said before, and I
> > > that, if I had to have this surgery again (and I hope I
> > > would want the same surgeon, same ortho and same
> > > Everything came together perfectly for me. I'm deeply sorry it
> > > didn't for you.
> > >
> > > I'm also not the moderator on this site, and I have no magic
> > > over your post appearing or disappearing. I don't think it
> > > as others have pointed out. I do know that Yahoo's archive
> > > are funky at best, and I'm not surprised that you had trouble
> > > looking it up. They've improved the search function, but it
> > > doesn't work all that well, even if you know what you're
> > >
> > > Anyway, please don't go away angry. As I've said before, I'm
> > > honestly interested in hearing how things are going forward
> > > I hope you'll keep in touch, even if it's only through private
> > > correspondence.
> > >
> > > With metta,
> > > Susan
> > >
Everyone is raving about the all-new Yahoo! Mail.
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- Actually, you have echoed the exact words I used in a private e-mail
to Dana, and which I also said, in other words, in one of my replies
to her on site here - we can agree to disagree (or disagree agreeably).
--- In email@example.com, jennifer milligan
>Diane! It seems both parties continue to want the last word in this
> Thank you for saying what many of us are thinking at this point,
matter. Agree to disagree and put an end to it. Someone has to be
the bigger better person in this situation and choose NOT to respond