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This group is for post abortive men, women, and couples.

I have started this gorup because I am post abortive.

My child would have been ten years old in August of this year, 2008. This site is in remebereance of my child, whom I have named, M. Guarani.

I was 20 years old at the time. The father did not want anything to do with me nor our child. I was (felt) alone and helpless. I did not know what to do. I could not tell my dad, he dranked.

I told my mom because she, like her mother, have an abortion before her. My mother never told me, nor did here mother to her, of the emotional consequences and regrets that I would have nor directed me to places that could help me.

The father, did not want a mixed baby. He was a full-blooded native indian, and I am a mixed native indian-Blackfeet/Cherokee/Sioux with noticeable african-american ancestry and features....
he came with me and choose a place, etc to make sure I had the abortion. I was only a month pregnant and he refered to it as a bunch of cells. When it was over, he asked me, "Is my baby out of you?"
He did not know that I knew Spanish but after it was done, he took me to eat, on Christmas day, and the store clerk asked him in Spanish, "Oh, she's your girlfriend!"
"No, my friend."

The next day, the day after Christmas, I felt that part of me was missing. I paged him (back then pagers where like cell phones) and he never called me back. I finally recieved an email from him that told me in so many words that "...[he] is not going to do [such things like that] anymore...I have decided not to get involved [like that again]"

It has been over elven years since the father been out of our lives (yes, our, because our child is in heaven).

I have been accepted by Jesus, I am born again, and am looking forward to my journey of being healed by getting post-abortion counseling.
I have forgiven him (the father) by praying for him.

I want you all (men included) to share and heal 2gether

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  • Abortion Debate
  • Oct 29, 2008
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