Taking a line from my experiences, I think your daughter is quite safe. My
parents allowed me to look at anything in the house including the 'adult'
books. Usually I would find them boring before I even got to the sexy
stuff, but the sex scenes were just 'yuck!!' to me. A perfectly healthy
reaction for someone who didn't understand any of it anyway. >>
OTOH there is me, who found the racy books hidden in my mom's nighttable
and read them several times, ditto for adult mags somewhere. (I don't just
mean romances, but stuff by "Anonymous" as well.) Sometimes I wonder
whether that premature exposure accounts for my continuing taste for that
stuff. When you think of the marketing and story possibilities for
various Tantric or shamanic carnal encounters, well, it is only a matter of
time before the stuff is out there, if it is not already. I didn't accept
censorship of my reading when I was younger, and I resist the idea in
general, but kids are maturing earlier, and do we really need 9-year-olds
reading, well, MIckey Spillane meets the Marquis de Sade? Or whatever.
amor vincit omnia