Re: Wake-up call / Melody
- --- In firstname.lastname@example.org, "Melody"
> >I shared my perception of yourDismissive as in defensive.
> tone: dismissive=blown off.
> And that's what this all really
> comes down to, eh?
> Dismissive in what way, Freyja? In that I
> didn't have the inclination to send a response
> to every point you offered?
> That you didn't get the feedback youI did not want to respond to a defensive
> wanted.....or felt you deserved?
posture. Nothing about getting feedback
i want or deserve. I am a little more
mature than that.
> Did you feel "dismissed" and "blown off"No.....i did wonder for a moment if you had
> when I didn't respond to your offering to me
> to take out some photographs and study
> them? Would you have preferred I sent
> my true response, instead of saying nothing?
seen it. If it mattered, i would have written
and asked if you had seen it.
I never take for granted that any
one has seen or read anything that i have
written unless they respond.
> Come on , Freyja, are you more interestedWhy should i be interested in one or the other?
> here in helping melody, or are you more
> interested in having your own insights validated?
or either of them at all?
Ask yourself that.
> I keep getting the sense, quite frankly, that it's the latter.Hey, help yourself to as many beliefs as you like.
Knock yourself out.
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