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  • medit8ionsociety
    Thanks to Meditation Society of America member Ito in Japan for forwarding this to us: Here are 10 ways cats can help their owners swat away stress inducers.
    Message 1 of 2 , Aug 10, 2004
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      Thanks to Meditation Society of America member Ito in Japan for
      forwarding this to us:

      Here are "10 ways cats can help their owners swat away stress inducers.
      Assess your situation and apply what your cat mentor is showing you."

      1. Cats are natural yoga teachers. Cats know and show us the value of
      stretching. Our tight and achy muscles welcome a good, soft stretch
      anytime, but especially in the morning before we get up. Muscles are
      warm from bed, and it's a great way to start the day. Try it.

      2. Cats know the therapeutic value of touch. So do dogs and other
      animals. They know when they need a cuddle, and usually when you need
      one as well. You may find, that although the times when they ask for
      attention may be an interruption for you, the relaxation and touch
      will be a therapeutic time-out.

      3. Cats know the value of solitude. Few of us in this world spend any
      time alone. The phone is ringing, or we are on the computer. Others
      arein need of our presence. Try finding 5 or 10 minutes a day to spend
      by yourself without interruption. We need quiet and solitude to
      recharge our batteries. Those of us who run on low energy as it is
      probably need it even more.

      4. Cats know the importance of power napping. Any of us who have pets
      know that they sleep a good part of the day. If you are tired or
      sleepy, it makes sense to nap. But we are so conditioned by society
      that it is "lazy" to sleep during the day, we do ourselves the
      disservice of struggling to stay awake even when we are exhausted.
      Could we learn from our pets?

      5. Cats know the value of eating right. Cats are picky eaters. They
      eat small amounts when they are hungry. They love fish, which is high
      in good fatty acids. There are many studies that show that humans
      would be wise to eat 5 or 6 small meals a day instead of 3 large ones.
      Yet most of us continue to follow that routine, even when it is not
      necessary.

      6. Cats walk away from irritating scenes. When faced with the option
      of sticking around or leaving screaming clients, noisy neighbors or
      loud-talking visitors, cats usually retreat to quieter places in the
      home. They aren't being rude; they recognize they don't need to
      subject themselves to an unpleasant situation.

      Cats will walk away from irritation situations rather than be
      confrontational, which requires a lot more energy, and a lot more
      stress. They go to places where there is better chemistry. We can't
      always leave unpleasant situations, but when we get the opportunities,
      we should take a lesson from our cats and walk away. It is far
      healthier on our bodies."


      7. Cats live in the present. How many of us, me included, find
      ourselves stressing about what we should do in the future, or what we
      should have done in the past. We spend time worrying about what will
      happen if a particular event occurs. All of our stress and worrying
      just decreases the amount of energy we have to do what we need and
      want to do in the present.

      8. Cats are candid. They will ask for what they need and want. We
      worry about whether we should expose our need and ask for help - or if
      that request will inconvenience another person. We don't want to be a
      burden. But if it is something we truly need, it certainly takes less
      energy to ask than to hint and hope the request will be understood. In
      addition, we save ourselves the aggravation of not having the need met.

      9. Cats practice good hygiene. For some of us, simply taking a shower
      is all of our energy for the day. But we feel better, and more relaxed
      when the shower is over. Taking care of one's self is important. I
      know I certainly feel better about the day when my face is washed and
      my hair combed. If I can get through that, I can tackle the rest of
      the day. After I rest, of course!

      10. Cats are not materialistic. Many of us have learned this by buying
      toys for our pets, which sit and do nothing, while the pet chases
      shadows, or plays with piece of lint on the carpet. Trying to `keep up
      with the neighbors' is stressful, both emotionally and financially.
      Especially for those of us on limited incomes, learning to use our
      money wisely, for our comfort, is more important than the image we
      present to others. Cats simply don't care. Why should we?
    • Nina
      ... (not so brutal snip) ... In a similar vein, I recently began working for myself out of my home. It is remarkable how rested I feel at the end of the day...
      Message 2 of 2 , Aug 10, 2004
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        --- In meditationsocietyofamerica@yahoogroups.com,
        medit8ionsociety <no_reply@y...> wrote:
        > Thanks to Meditation Society of America member Ito in Japan for
        > forwarding this to us:
        (not so brutal snip)
        > 3. Cats know the value of solitude. Few of
        > us in this world spend any time alone. The
        > phone is ringing, or we are on the computer. Others
        > arein need of our presence. Try finding 5 or 10 minutes
        > a day to spend by yourself without interruption. We need
        > quiet and solitude to recharge our batteries. Those of us
        > who run on low energy as it is probably need it even more.

        In a similar vein, I recently began working for myself
        out of my home. It is remarkable how rested I feel at the
        end of the day... when I work by myself. It dawned on me
        how most of us who work do so with groups of people we
        have not selected and probably would not choose to spend
        much time with if we weren't working with them. Everyone
        acts like it is some sort of failure if you don't work
        well with the group of people someone else has selected
        for you. What sort of nonsense is that? I like what cats
        have to say about it...

        (another not so brutal snip)
        > 6. Cats walk away from irritating scenes. When faced with the option
        > of sticking around or leaving screaming clients, noisy neighbors or
        > loud-talking visitors, cats usually retreat to quieter places in
        > the home. They aren't being rude; they recognize they don't need to
        > subject themselves to an unpleasant situation.

        Well, may we all have a modicum of autonomy,
        and, failing that, at least 10 sharp claws
        and the benefit of having learned how to kill
        our prey and not just play with it.

        goodnight...
        Nina
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