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  • satkartar7
    by David Deida As you grow spiritually, sex becomes service to others. In the midst of sex, you may occasionally choose to feel and visualize someone to whom
    Message 1 of 1 , Jul 24, 2003
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      by David Deida

      As you grow spiritually, sex becomes
      service to others. In the midst of
      sex, you may occasionally choose to
      feel and visualize someone to whom
      you want to send love and healing. Eventually, through practice, you
      feel all beings through your lover.

      You love through your lover, as a
      portal to all beings. Rather than
      having sex for your own pleasure only,
      you have sex for the sake of giving
      love to all beings. If your lover is emotionally upset, breathe his or her
      dark energy into yourself, and breath
      out only love to your lover. Over
      time, with practice, feel that you are inhaling the pain of all beings and
      exhaling to them love. Receive their suffering, their fear, their lack,
      and give them your love. Feel sex as
      a blissful ritual of sacrifice, in
      which your body and mind are surrendered
      totally for the sake of all beings,
      to receive their pain and bring them
      love.

      This doesn't mean to create some
      kind of righteous ceremony wherein
      you feel special for being so kind
      and spiritual. It is simply the case
      that, eventually, you realize sex is
      no great shakes. It is what it is. At
      the personal level, it can be very pleasurable, but so what? Sex becomes
      a means to give love to all beings,
      through your partner. This total giving
      in the midst of active embrace is the
      true form of life, as well as sex. To
      live simply for your own sake is to
      generate constant fear and tension.

      Living your life in the truth of full
      giving is bliss itself. You are always
      dissolving. Every moment you are dying
      to all that has been. Consciously participating in this death without
      resistance is love. It requires practice
      to love this fully, to receive others
      this fully, to let go this fully, and
      to give yourself entirely--especially
      in the midst of sex or suffering.
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