"How can I transform my victim mentality to one of authentic empowerment and truly succeed in all areas of my
are, by and large, born with an authentic sense of our own power; one
that is unfettered by the consciousness of our parents, family, teachers
and society. We are innately aware of our innocence and our intrinsic
capability to fulfill our soul’s mission easily and gracefully.
grow up we become unconsciously transformed to possessing a victim
mentality, especially as women, in at least some area of our life if not
in most areas. We are run by anger, fear and worry by the time we are
adults. Again, while some of this mentality is known to us, much remains
unconscious and will continue to do so until we choose otherwise.
is imperative to take responsibility for our lives and choose
empowerment through the process of loving ourselves more fully and
deeply, by accepting ourselves as we are in this moment, with all of our
strengths and weaknesses, being willing to forgive ourselves and others
completely and finally by letting go of our past ….letting go of our
pre-conceived notions of who we are and instead become unlimited in our
spiritual power and magnificence as women.
forgiveness and letting go ….these are the secrets to self-empowerment.
It becomes easier for us to develop these deeply within when we are
able to finally acknowledge that we are ultimately responsible for the
peace, happiness, and personal power that we so richly desire and
deserve. Now is the time for us to step up and be fearless in our
pursuit of expressing our inner beauty and greatness.
months ago I experienced an attempted break-in at my home …I startled
the robber as much as he startled me. Fortunately he ran away before
any harm came to me. For that one day I allowed myself to feel the
shock that comes with the invasion of our privacy and places we deem as
our sanctuaries however, the next morning I woke up and chose to not
feel like I victim in this situation. As a result I was able to see the
gift in the experience and empower myself to act on its blessings.
We will no longer be victims when we choose not to be. And we will become authentically empowered instead.
Why do we need to surrender?
we move from the victim mentality to one of empowerment we are so busy
planting seeds for the manifestation of our desires. This is a time
when we work very hard and act on all of our hunches, our intuition, to
move forward and lead fulfilling lives.
During this process we will
be challenged with certain obstacles and things may not seem to be going
according to our original plans and/or in accordance with our timing.
only solution for this is to surrender and TRUST in the divine process,
in divine timing and in the fact the universe is co-creating with us
every step of the way. And sometimes our job is to simply step back and
let the universe do its job.
If we try to force things, our results
are far from what we envisioned and likely won’t last. On the other
hand when we surrender and trust, we enter into a state of allowing
things to happen easily and gracefully, in perfect timing and with end
results that are far greater than we could have imagined.
This is how the universe works and it is a beautiful thing …if only we would let it be.
of how far down the spiritual path we are …this is a constant lesson
that will show up for us until we get it …believe me, I know! As
evolved as I am, I still get caught up in the timing of things and am
learning the art of surrender right along with you.
It may seem that
being surrendered is a lazy, inactive way to go about doing business or
creating your dreams. The truth is there is no greater act of faith and
confidence in our trusting that our divine blueprint is indeed being
fulfilled, even when we can’t see it, than when we are totally
surrendered, at peace and celebrating our accomplishments thus far.
the end, if we do surrender and enjoy the process, things actually do
come together more quickly because we have gotten out of our own way.
Solutions magically appear where none were to be found no matter where
you looked. It is that simple.
God wants you to be happy ….when you feel stuck or things aren’t happening exactly as you had hoped simply “Let go and Let God”.
You’re worth it and then some."