(you may left click with your mouse on the above
graphic to take you into the webpage for the Mandala on Relationships or use the
URL listed under the Mandala further down the page)
Good Morrow dear fellow travellers,
companions of and to my heart and soul
Today I'm playing with this post as a learning
experience for me. Hence the message under today's graphic as well as the
webpage I've created to go with the message today.
It resulted from the enquiry from an online mate
requesting support in a relationship matter.
Relationships are one of the biggest factors in our
lives. Family, friends, workmates all produce lessons for us which we may or may
not wish to learn. Our mother and father play a huge role in our life.
Learning to balance the Inner Child as well as let go of all the resulting
issues that brings up around parents is part of the real growing up we do as
adults. Compassion for ourselves as well as those whom we love is not always
easy. Our parents did the best they could at the time. Social and cultural
ideals have changed and are changing almost as rapidly as technological
advances. Parenting was viewed with different glasses in previous generations.
However, love doesn't change and to remember that even unspoken love still does
and will exist between parent and child is not always an easy task.
Siblings and close extended family also play a role
in creating who we are. How we reacted with siblings, grandparents, cousins,
aunts, uncles all left an imprint on the subconscious mind. We took on roles
through the subconscious of teachings and thoughts from all these people. School
mates, teachers, then workmates and bosses all play a role in forming our
opinions of self. They each contribute is some way to the way in which we view
ourselves and how we absorb that into self esteem. All these people with whom we
have interacted have also formed an opinion of who they think we are and then
project this back to us when we have further communication with them. It's like
being part of a long running play and each time we revisit the Theatre of our
Life we see a different perspective of our self.
The we come to the person we wish to be today. We
have choices of how we wish to play the game and those with whom we wish to
play. Sometimes we wish to change how our relationships work or indeed
introduce new relationships into our life. Whether it be a friendship,
companionship or a love interest the process is still the same. It's only the
result which is different.
We tend to hang onto old relationships for fear of
having too much space. Then we equate space with 'loneliness'. It's possible to
be extremely lonely in the middle of a large crowd and to be completely
fulfilled sitting by yourself in an empty room. How we view ourselves is what
creates the feeling of lonely or not.
Most people want romance and a place in their life
to fulfil their dreams. The desire for a mate is normal. Someone with whom to
laugh and chat as a companion, friend or lover is a normal feeling. How to
attract the person to meet your needs and desires is an ongoing question. The
dating games, agencies, clubs and groups can be big business.
To attract what and who you need and desire into
your life you need first to be very sure of what you want or desire. Be
comfortable with yourself and then write a list of what you would like to
What kind of relationship are you looking
What characteristics do you want this person to
How do you want to share the moments with
Where do you want the person to live? e.g same
country, town suburb
If it's improving an existing relationship then
how do you want it to change? (and remember in any relationship you CAN'T change
the other person only yourself)
The more specific your are with your list the
better chance you have of attracting the right person for you.
The Law of Attraction works in the same
way whether it be for prosperity, abundance, health or
Know what you really want. Be sure in your mind.
Each time you change your mind you activate the pause button. There is
no rewind button in this game and the fast forward button creates an illusion of
To be in the present moment and know that you are
creating the reality you need is objective.
It's time to have fun and enjoy the Game of
Us the tools available such as Rose Quartz,
peony, red rose.
Any space or position in the house is
suited to creating the relationship corner. All you need do is to include two of
the tools you choose. Two rose quartz. Two pot plants, two cushions. Carry with
you two piece of rose quartz. keep all the plants as 'live' plants, unless you
are using silk flowers. All the things create a thought process which always you
to fulfil the desire you have for the relationship which most meet
Wo Oh Ni Ai
it is in
love from my heart and soul to your heart and soul
Gaele Arnott from here in Brisbane, Australia
on Saturday the 3rd March, 2007
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Today's graphics were created by Gaele in PSP