get marry with a muslim partner because he/she is (islamically) religious.
- I think it is the third publication in the groups.
"e't-tekraru ahsan velev kane yüz seksen."
"the repeating is good even if it becomes 180 times."
note: the word of "yüzseksen" is not arabic, but it is
turkish; however, the previous words are of course
my reply to a muslim sister in the forum of
www.islam.com is mentioned below.
get marry with a muslim partner because he/she is
age difference is no matter in islam. if the age
difference would be around 25 years; i would kindly
advise you to think before marriage.
however, your age difference is 17 years. this
shouldn't be problem among you. your parents, friends,
family and all of your environment (and of course you)
should first of all take into considiration the
islamic counciousness of the future partner.
Actually, the partner who is intended to get married
should know islam very well and should live islam as
well. you should prefer such a person.
our prophet says one of his holy words that all
marriages are done according to the below reasons:
"people get marry with a girl/woman because of her
following four features;
1-because she is beatiful.
2-because she is rich.
3-because she is from a noble family.
4-because she is (islamically) religious."
our prophet muhammad peace be upon him advises us to
choose the girl who has the fourth feature of the
this doesn't mean that you do not take into
considiration other three features. immam gazzali
(died at the year of 1111) rahimehullah indicates that
if a girl has the four of above features together, of
course, it is better to choose her.
the above four features are valid not only for muslim
girls but also for muslim boys as well. this means,
muslim girls should also try to find the muslim
partner who has fistly the above fourth feature.
let me please explain the above hadees of our prophet
a little bit:
suppose there are four muslim partner with whom you
intend to get married.
-first muslim partner is handsome/beatiful; but he/she
is not so (islamically) religious.
-second muslim partner is rich; but he/she is not so
-third muslim partner is from a noble family; but
he/she is not so (islamically) religious.
-forth muslim partner is (islamically) religious; but
he/she is not so handsome/beatiful, he/she is not so
rich and he/she is from a normal family.
If you want to be happy both here in this world and in
the hereafter you should prefer the fourth muslim
If you choose the fourth partner, Allah subhanahu wa
taala may give both to you and to your partner the
other three features before you die.
However, if you do not take into considiration the
religiousness of the partner and if you prefer one (or
three) of the above three features only, both of you
may become, one day, ugly, poor and from a normal
May Allah subhanahu taala help all of us (being as
muslims all over the world) to get married with those
partners who are really living Islam as much as they
Fi amanillah. (may Allah protect all of us.)
Istanbul / Turkiye
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