URGENT help, assistance needed !
- Group: I apologize for the long post but, even as long as it is, I
cannot explain to you how very urgent this is for my client.
I would like some advice for a client of mine as well. She has been
my client, for handwriting business, for the past 3 years so we've
gotten fairly close in some respects. My client is 34 y.o. and a
very educated woman. Her husband is 8 years YOUNGER and is
incarcerated in California for a parole violation of which he is due
to be released next month. Her husband has great character - got
caught up in teenage crap, paid his dues, and has gone to college,
etc. so the family structure is sound EXCEPT for this problem:
The problem my client faces is that she has a 15 y.o. daughter who is
sexually deviant (was seductive at 9 y.o. with a 40 y.o. man and was
also sexually molested by a stranger at age 2) and the system has
looked the other way. The mother thinks she may be sexually addicted
but this child is impulsive and then claims she does NOT remember
doing or saying things.
This child is from a previous marriage BUT calls her husband 'dad'
and he is truly the only dad she has ever known. However, she is
dangerous much like Glen Close on "Fatal Attraction" with Borderline
Personality Disorder. I cannot explain, after reading all the inches
of reports and eval's on this child, how devastating this girl can be
to my clients marriage/family in general. She has two other
children, his children, that are 4 and 5. However, last year they
had problems with the daughter trying to sexually seduce the 'dad' IN
FRONT OF the mother (my client).
The teenager has boyfriend after boyfriend and the mother estimates
she has had sex with over 70 boys in the last 2 years. BESIDES this
sexual activity she also dresses WAY BEYOND her years in VERY
provocative clothing with a very hourglass full figure; this girl is
beautiful and looks 24.
This girl told the neighbors, QUOTE, "All I have to do to f**k up my
mom's life is to say my 'dad' touched me." The man was initially
incarcerated, as a late teen, for theft (nothing violent) and was
serving a parole term. HOWEVER, because of this 'history', if she
DID say something like this, the family would be ripped apart
and 'bye bye dad' for a very long time.
The teen HATES to see the mom and dad happy because she is jealous of
none of her relationships working out.
I have read all the proof, witnessed a lot of bizarre behaviors, etc.
and my client knows her husband will be home in March and she's
scared to death. She is wondering WHAT type of hidden camera,
recorders, etc. they can install at an economical cost and without
detection so that, IF she does attempt this crap with 'dad' again,
they have proof that it DID NOT happen. Whatever equipment is used
MUST be UNdetectable by the teen.
She is smart - criminally intelligent and yes, already has a record
of stabbing her boyfriend when he realized she was 'crazy' and tried
to leave. The mother has put her through 11 years of various types
of inpatient and outpatient therapy and NOTHING has worked, including
the various medications. Basically she has NO remorse and justified
ALL of her behaviors. The ONLY time anyone gets a reaction or tears
out of her is IF she thinks she is in trouble... then it is a true
Any help, ideas, etc. you can provide would be greatly appreciated.
I did tell my client I was posting this on my group. She is NOT a
client of 'investigations' for me - she is a personnel manager of a
fortune 500 company in the Van Nuys area and I do handwriting work
(employee screening) for her. However, when we started discussing
this, and I've started seeing this, I 'felt' the urgency she is
Thank you, in advance, for your assistance. Please EMAIL me
PRIVATELY with ideas.
Ms. Treyce Benavidez