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Holy Rule for Aug 19: I'm Baaack!

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  • Jerry Lee
    +PAX Prayers of thanks, for Pat, who kept the daily readings coming while I was away. Prayers, too, for all so dreadfully impacted by the hurricane in FL.
    Message 1 of 1 , Aug 19, 2004

      Prayers of thanks, for Pat, who kept the daily readings coming while I was away. Prayers, too, for all so dreadfully impacted by the hurricane in FL. Prayers of DEO GRATIAS for Christie, for whom we had prayed, she has passed her teaching exam. Prayers, too, for Hugh, paranoid schizophrenia, and for the family reconciliation of Jean Luc and Elizabeth, awaiting the birth of their fifth child, that they may grow in love of the Lord and His Mother. Prayers for the repose of Br. Marcel, of St. Leo who died last week.
      Continued prayers for Br. Patrick, who is slowly dying. God's will is best. All is mercy and grace. God is never absent. Thanks so much! JL

      April 19, August 19, December 19
      Chapter 63: On the Order of the Community

      The juniors, therefore, should honor their seniors,
      and the seniors love their juniors.

      In the very manner of address,
      let no one call another by the mere name;
      but let the seniors call their juniors Brothers,
      and the juniors call their seniors Fathers,
      by which is conveyed the reverence due to a father.
      But the Abbot,
      since he is believed to represent Christ,
      shall be called Lord and Abbot,
      not for any pretensions of his own
      but out of honor and love for Christ.
      Let the Abbot himself reflect on this,
      and show himself worthy of such an honor.

      And wherever the brethren meet one another
      the junior shall ask the senior for his blessing.
      When a senior passes by,
      a junior shall rise and give him a place to sit,
      nor shall the junior presume to sit with him
      unless his senior bid him,
      that it may be as was written,
      "In honor anticipating one another."

      Boys, both small and adolescent,
      shall keep strictly to their rank in oratory and at table.
      But outside of that, wherever they may be,
      let them be under supervision and discipline,
      until they come to the age of discretion.


      Relationships between seniors and juniors are a two-way street. The
      behavior of one feeds (or stokes the fires!) of the other. Hey, this
      is true of all relationships, in every area of life. Want to be
      loved? Give respect. Want to be respected? Give love. It may not work
      in every instance, but it must be the first means we try and the only
      means we never abandon totally.

      Though the Holy Rule clearly exempts (in this passage,) the Abbess,
      because she represents Christ, the express command that the Abbess
      remember why she is treated as Christ is underscored. The Rule is the
      Rule and monastics are human. I have known abbots who treated their
      subjects like fools and were rewarded accordingly! The treatment we
      give to others tends to reflect back upon as from a mirror, often
      with very good reason!

      That mirror image can be the key to a LOT of our pain and discomfort with
      others. It is not at all uncommon to see people mimic perfectly the behaviors
      they complain about most bitterly in others. How many times do we see one
      who almost exactly replicates the parent or sibling at whose hands they have
      most suffered? And usually all unawares! If one said to such an individual:
      "You are being JUST like so-and-so!" the response would probably be angry
      and not slight.

      We must all be very, very, very mindful and vigilant that the behaviors we are
      hurt by or angered by or loathe do NOT show up in our own tool kits. If they do,
      there is a double result. Not only do we fail morally at charity, but we isolate
      ourselves socially from the very people who might be able to help us. It becomes
      a vicious circle, creating the loneliness we complain of and fear.

      Try with all your might never, ever to pass pain on. It is very hard at times, but
      all of us know the unlovely examples of the many who are all too determined, even
      glad to make sure that their pain gets spread around. There is no shortage of such
      nonsense in the world. Don't duplicate services!

      Love and prayers,
      Jerome, OSB
      Petersham, MA

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