Holy Rule for Apr. 2
Prayers for the eternal rest of the soul of a distraught young man who took his life-and for his family and friends who mourn for him.
Prayers, please for the spiritual and temporal welfare of the following, for all their loved ones and all who take care of them:
Father Martin from Pluscarden Abbey, in the north of Scotland, as he travels to Kristo Buase (daughter house) in Ghana on Monday, 2 April.
Justin, young man who suffered a broken back and sever bruising of his lungs in an auto accident. Prayers for healing and financial aid as the family has no medical insurance.
Brittany, 21, who is smitten with a 38 year old man who is seperated and has been pursuing Brittany. Please pray that Brittany sees his issues and has no desire to be with him and that he never harms her.
C.A., audio hallucinations of screaming, flashing back to a trauma 20 years ago, for peace and relief and an end to mourning.
Mandy, recent passing after a lifetime of suffering-for her family who loved and provided for her and lived out The Gospel of Life
Brad, entering The Church at the Easter Vigil-may his conversion turn his family and friends toward The Lord.
John, recovering from surgery and concerned about his continuing health-bring him healing and peace.
Katherine, profuse bleeding after heart surgery required a second surgery, and for her husband, Dick and their children.
E. R. recent diagnosis of ovarian cancer. And for her husband, F, to persevere amidst this crisis.
Lord, help us all as You know and will. God's will is best. All is mercy and
grace. God is never absent, praise Him. Thanks so much. JL
April 2, August 2, December 2
Chapter 51: On Brethren Who Go Not Very Far Away
A Brother who is sent out on some business
and is expected to return to the monastery that same day
shall not presume to eat while he is out,
even if he is urgently requested to do so
by any person whomsoever,
unless he has permission from his Abbot.
And if he acts otherwise, let him be excommunicated.
Coming right on the heels of the prescription to say the Office while
away, it is easy to see that these two chapters are not just about
eating and praying. The principle involved here is that one's
monastic commitment does not switch off when one leaves the property.
It is there all the time.
Parents can identify with this readily. Children are not told to
avoid drugs only at home. The moral values that parents try to
instill are a way of life that (hopefully!) will be carried with the
child in every situation. My high school promised that students who
failed our standards AFTER school hours, on the way home, would be
punished. If they were wearing our uniform, they were expected to
reflect a certain standard of behavior.
What St. Benedict is doing is pointing out that monasticism is not
merely a job, a burden one doffs and dons. Monastic life is a
becoming, not a set of standards one only follows when one is closely
watched. The goal of monastic discipline is to make the disciple a
monk more or less by nature. In this respect, it closely resembles
any training: nursing school is designed to make people nurses, law
school to make attorneys, and so forth. The difference is that
monasticism is not a set number of hours per week, it's all the week,
all the life. Just as any nurse in a disaster instantly can shift
into nursing mode, whether on duty or not, the spiritually trained
monastic is operative everywhere, not just in the cloister.
This is a fine and consoling point for Oblates who must live abroad.
Lovely though our monasteries may be, they are not what makes
monastics. That is something deep within, a cloister of our hearts
that we must learn to carry with us everywhere. Lots of people who
must live in crowded and noisy cities actually do a better job of
this than many monastics who live in rural peace. Take heart! It is
not all about place. It is about heart, always heart. Train and fix
your heart and you will always be fine!
Love and prayers,
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A blessed Easter to all! Christ is risen, truly He is risen!!
Prayers, please, for the spiritual and temproal welfare of the following, for all their loved ones and all who take care of them:
Luke, house sale - his house has been on the market for over a year and he really needs to sell it and downsize after the end of a long-term relationship.
Deo Gratias, V. has been offered and very limited place next year on the post-graduate course of his dreams...now he needs the money to pay for it.
Funding for D. to further his studies, or inspiration for something even better.
Continued prayers for baby Grace and her family. She is stable but still on oxygen in the house 24/7, and is waiting to see a specialist.
Jual, young mother of three battling breast cancer. Nodules found in her lung. Having surgery Sunday.
Prayers for safe journey, and back, for an extended family going on a Pilgrimage to the Holy Land for almost 2 weeks, and prayers for a wonderful time.
Lord help us all
as You know and will. God's will is best. All is mercy and grace.
God is never absent, praise Him! Thanks so much. JL
April 8, August 8, December 8
Chapter 55: On the Clothes and Shoes of the Brethren
For bedding let this suffice:
a mattress, a blanket, a coverlet and a pillow.
The beds, moreover, are to be examined frequently by the Abbot,
to see if any private property be found in them.
If anyone should be found to have something
that he did not receive from the Abbot,
let him undergo the most severe discipline.
And in order that this vice of private ownership
may be cut out by the roots,
the Abbot should provide all the necessary articles:
cowl, tunic, stockings, shoes, belt,
knife, stylus, needle, handkerchief, writing tablets;
that all pretext of need may be taken away.
Yet the Abbot should always keep in mind
the sentence from the Acts of the Apostles
that "distribution was made to each according as anyone had need"
In this manner, therefore,
let the Abbot consider weaknesses of the needy
and not the ill-will of the envious.
But in all his decisions
let him think about the retribution of God.
There is a tendency, both within the cloister and without, to hunt
for dramatic ascetic practices, while ignoring the truly more
difficult matters that lack the fanfare. Lights! Camera! Action! We
must always be wary of the Nora Desmonds of our hearts, who are
always willing to say, a la Sunset Boulevard: "I'm ready for my close-
up now, Mr. DeMille." How we do love to star, even at self-
Well, there's two bad pieces of new for Ms. Desmond et al. First the
penances we choose are usually not the most effective ones. The
best ones are imposed by God or our situation of daily duty and they
become tremendous means of grace when we patiently embrace them.
Second, the ones we do choose can be terrible risks for pride, which
undoes our efforts so insidiously.
What on earth does this have to do with the current chapter? Easy-
and very, very hard, too! The great ascesis here is to aim at
limiting ourselves to "all the necessary articles." There is a
challenge here for everyone from Abbot Primate to newest Oblate
novice. It is a challenge we shall likely never meet fully in life,
so it is something we can always be profitably picking at!
Do you know anyone at all, in any vocation, who has absolutely
nothing beyond what they need? I have known a few; alas I cannot
say it of myself. I think this is an area where we can all look at a challenging
grace-filled ascetic struggle that is placed on us by the Holy Rule.
Down-sizing actually feels great, once one gets over the consumerist
terror of doing so! One will quickly find that, in this area, less
really *IS* more, (unlike poetry and art, architecture and liturgy,
alas...! Minimalism there gets old fast...) We become freer when we
let go of things which hold us more than we realize.
We can get buried in things we are saving to complete unfinalized
plans that will never come to fruition, and while we save them, we
are disheartened by our own failure to use them. Jettison, m'dears,
jettison. As the one Desert Father used to say to the brethren,"Flee,
brothers, flee!" so do I say: "Jettison!"
This has the further charm of fitting well into a depressive's sofa
paralysis, too. Recall how I told you about that resolution to make
three things, no matter how tiny, better each day? Works here, too!
And you will often find to your delight that the trip to dumpster or thrift
shop donation includes 7, 8, or more things!
Keep chipping away and the mountain of our false hearts' desires,
beloveds. And one day may all those chips be ground to sand and may
we stand together on level, smooth quartz
sand, confronted by nothing but the dazzling ocean of God's
unfathomable mercy and love!
Love and prayers,
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