Holy Rule for May 17
Prayers for the spiritual, mental and physical health of the following, for all their loved ones and all who take care of them:
Deo gratias: Joe is doing well in treatment, continued prayers for his progress.
Bev, Caz and Brie who lost their beloved pet, Loch.
Cindy suffering great depression and physical health problems because of her inability to find work.
Fred suffering depression and isolation over an impending divorce.
Brother Paschal, on his feastday and Bill, whose Oblate patron is St. Paschal Baylon, too.
Lord, help us all as You know and will. God's will is best. All is mercy and
grace. God is never absent, praise Him! Thanks so much. JL
January 16, May 17, September 16
Chapter 3: On Calling the Brethren for Counsel
Whenever any important business has to be done
in the monastery,
let the Abbot call together the whole community
and state the matter to be acted upon.
Then, having heard the brethren's advice,
let him turn the matter over in his own mind
and do what he shall judge to be most expedient.
The reason we have said that all should be called for counsel
is that the Lord often reveals to the younger what is best.
Let the brethren give their advice
with all the deference required by humility,
and not presume stubbornly to defend their opinions;
but let the decision rather depend on the Abbot's judgment,
and all submit to whatever he shall decide for their welfare.
However, just as it is proper
for the disciples to obey their master,
so also it is his function
to dispose all things with prudence and justice.
This whole reflection and chapter has many, many applications to
family life. (Except that parents are not elected!) Otherwise, it all is very
appropriate for a family!
We elect our abbots, which may make obedience a bit easier for us
than living under an appointed superior, but we are not a pure
democracy. This is so hard for Americans in particular to learn, let
alone value!! In terms of civil government comparisons, we may not be
an absolute autocracy, but we are far from a constitutionally diluted
monarchy! The abbot has a lot of power In fact, in most cases, he
has, as this chapter indicates, the last word.
St. Benedict was far too wise to leave all power to an elective
community. That would frustrate any abbot's efforts to upgrade the
life of his flock. Monastics tend to resist change, let alone reform.
They'd simply vote him down and be done with it. Communities, like
St. Peter, must sometimes be girded by another and led where they
would not go! Pure democracy would make that impossible.
There is a great reminder in this chapter that either the community
or the abbot can be wrong. That is so important for both to remember.
Indeed, if either forgets that fact, the danger to humility is
extreme and we are nothing if not humble. There is also the lesson
here of mutual respect. Even though the abbot actually has the
authority to ignore the community's suggestions, he is bidden to ask
for input. He is asked to receive it with prudence and justice, neither
terrified by every passing whim of the group nor terrifying them with every
passing whim of his own!
So, if you will, the concept of mutual obedience and fraternal love
and respect is writ large over the whole of this chapter. Letting
anyone have that much power is scary if the group as a whole is not
constrained to virtue, but we are. Sure, the ideal can be failed, we
are human, but the ideal is there and it is under the conditions of
that ideal that so much is entrusted with faith to the abbot.
Though St. Benedict states we should never obey commands against God's law,
every other instance demands our obedience and respect. We may think the
Abbot is wrong and, humanly speaking, he might be, but we can never lose by
obedience. Indeed, quite the reverse: we harm ourselves terribly by obstinately
clinging to our own will and resisting.
Love and prayers,
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- I have no idea why this didn't go through yesterday. Catching up. BJL+PAXPrayers for the grace-filled success of our Oblate Day and our Sisters' Monastic Experience weekend at Petersham and for all participating.Urgent prayers needed for Brian's brother-in-law, Paul. He is a diabetic, and now has been diagnosed with inoperable lung cancer. It is stage 3, and a biopsy this coming Tuesday will check to see if he is stage 4. He will be starting chemo & radiation. His wife is devastated. Brian has known Paul since they were very young, loves him like a brother and is crushed. Please pray for Paul, his wife, Brian and all their family and friends.Deo gratias, the twin's fluid build up is gone.
Prayer for Brian T.,( another Brian,) who is being viciously harrassed.
Prayers for JS, discernment and assistance in making an important life decision.
Prayers for Beverly, special intention plus dicernment regarding another of perplexing issues..
Deo gratias for all prayers and graces of the past.Lord, help us all as You know and will. God's will is best. All is mercy and
grace. God is never absent, praise Him! Thanks so much. JL
March 14, July 14, November 13
Chapter 35: On the Weekly Servers in the Kitchen
An hour before the meal let the weekly servers each receive a drink
and some bread over and above the appointed allowance, in order
that at the meal time they may serve their brethren without
murmuring and without excessive fatigue. On solemn days, however,
let them wait until after Mass.
Immediately after the Morning Office on Sunday, the incoming and
outgoing servers shall prostrate themselves before all the brethren
in the oratory and ask their prayers. Let the server who is ending
his week say this verse: "Blessed are You, O Lord God, who have
helped me and consoled me." When this has been said three times and
the outgoing server has received his blessing, then let the
incoming server follow and say, "Incline unto my aid, O God; O
Lord, make haste to help me." Let this also be repeated three times
by all, and having received his blessing let him enter his service.
Families, and parents and caregivers, listen up! There's an
important lesson here. No task is too small to be blessed by
prayer. More than that, no task is so easy that it can be done
without God's help, so remember to thank Him. Of ourselves, we can
do nothing, literally nothing. All our strength and power comes from God.
Making dinner or washing the dishes? Take a quiet moment in the
midst of either to say "Help!" and "Thanks!" Two simple, one word
prayers. No matter how chaotic your household, everyone will find
time for at least that. God knows the details, knows your heart and
can readily fill in the blanks! We may think God needs essay-length
prayers, but He doesn't. He may enjoy hearing from us, but trust
me, we NEVER tell Him anything that's news to Him.
This chapter is not simply the humility and charity of service, it
is also the honest acknowledgment of complete helplessness without
God. For most folks, only sickness or debility will teach them
that. It may seem like nothing to bend down and pick up a pin off
the floor until a bad back makes that impossible. Handicaps hone
our perceptions of being in charge very, very well.
Of course, there is another side to simple things like serving
table, picking up pins and the like. One could not have done
anything without God's help, but ah, if one does them out of love
and care! Bingo! Double coupons, so to speak! If that pin got
carefully picked up because of a barefoot and running child, or a
beloved pet who is prone to "tasting" whatever she can find on the
floor, simplicity becomes a very much greater matter, indeed. Now
it is very close to the heart of God, and that is a wonderful place
By the way, though some might think me daft for saying this, it is
not at all that crazy. There is no reason why families could not
bless whomever is assigned to a domestic task for a week or month
or whatever. A simple prayer asking God to help them serve us all
and get over any rough times could be tastefully done without a lot
of fuss. This could really help drive home the message of the worthwhile
merit to be had in doing small things with love!
Love and prayers,