Holy Rule for Apr. 1
Prayers, please, for the spiritual, mental and physical health of the following, for all their loved ones and for all who take are of them:
Del, 87, urinary tract infection and in hospital for test to determine cause of some other problems, also for Cheryl, his daughter.
Doris who is in her final weeks of passing from cancer. For her happy death and eternal est and for all who will mourn her.
Amanda and her daughter, Kia. Kia is 12 years old and missing.
Father George who was diagnosed with bone marrow lymphoma a form of cancer.
Rod who has developed a growth on his kidney.
Bill, seeing a vascular surgeon about amputation of his ulcerated leg, and for his wife Therese. He has been away from the Church for many years, so special prayers for that, too.
D. soon to be released from juvenile detention when he turns 17 and currently has no place to go, serious family problems, too.
James, Peg and Vince and the patients they treat.
Lord, help us all as You know and will. God's will is best. All is mercy and
grace. God is never absent, praise Him! Thanks so much. JL
April 1, August 1, December 1
Chapter 50: On Sisters Who are Working
Far From the Oratory or Are on a Journey
Those sisters who are working at a great distance
and cannot get to the oratory at the proper time --
the Abbess judging that such is the case --
shall perform the Work of God
in the place where they are working,
bending their knees in reverence before God.
Likewise those who have been sent on a journey
shall not let the appointed Hours pass by,
but shall say the Office by themselves as well as they can
and not neglect to render the task of their service.
Here's a chapter that speaks loud and clear to Oblates in the world.
We have all been sent on our journeys by God, so the journey is good,
but in the midst of it we must carry our monastery and, to a certain
extent, even its choir, in our hearts. It is a fact that we are away
from the monastery most of the time. We may wish it were otherwise,
God, for His own reasons, may not.
Hence, we need to study with special attention the means to carry not
just the monastery and choir, but the entire Holy Rule and all of our
Order in our hearts. There must our cloisters be built. The reins of
obedience for us come not from walls and stones, not from the
constant presence of a community to help us, but from our free will
and loving gift, from the mindful vigilance of our hearts. This
cloister of the heart, if nurtured, can become in truth a "paradisus
claustralis", a cloistered paradise! But it does take time!
A perennial concern of Oblates is how to say the Office in the world,
or how much of it to say. Actually, that concern is SO perennial that
one can easily get bogged down in it, spinning one's wheels! Satan
doesn't care whether you get caught by temptations to murder or by
temptations to liturgy, so long as you get caught! (Any who have
dealt with certain "liturgists", presumed and otherwise, will
quickly note the similarities between temptations to murder and
The answer here is loud and clear, both terribly simple and (like the
perfection of so many simple things,) not a little daunting: "as well
as they can." Now look at this precept, really look at it. That means
that you will never be able to solemnly intone the Hours in many, if
not most of the places you live and work. Which also means that God,
of all the most merciful and loving, clearly understands the limits
of your life.
I hesitate to mention depression too often, but because it is my
personal experience and I know that it has tremendous connections to
the spiritual life for good or ill, I'll risk it! Ever hear about one
of the symptoms of depression being trouble concentrating? Let me
tell you, beloveds, when I can deny any other sign, I can never deny
Twenty minutes of memorized prayers and Psalms takes an
hour or more. And certainly NOT because one is swept up into the
seventh heaven! Quite the reverse! One's mind jumps everywhere, like
an agile monkey on speed leaping from tree to tree in the canopy of
an endlessly confusing jungle. The words are just repeated, with so
little attention, feeling or meaning. And even that is a crushing
effort at times. Sigh...
If you are at all like me, you will feel badly about that: "Oh, no!
I've been distracted at prayer again..." Don't make it any worse than
it already is: God fully knows WHY we are distracted, why we are
limited by anything within or without. So long as you didn't deliberately
intend and set out to pray mindlessly, don't worry. (And few, I hope, do
God may actually permit those distractions to humble us. Just calm
down and do the best you can.
I have long since resigned myself to ruefully chuckling that
often I am no better at all than a mindless, mechanical prayer wheel,
like those spun in Tibet. I hope God accepts all our prayer wheel
days and I really think He does! So long as we are not deliberately
slovenly or careless about prayer, it delights God, and, as one of
the Fathers observed, even distracted prayer makes the devil mad!
A quick suggestion as a way to bring monastery and choir into our
busy day. This is one of my favorites, one of two prayers proper to
the morning hour of Prime. It is easily memorized and therefore VERY
portable! It can sneak into the tiniest of places in a busy day and
carry the heart right to God and its cloister of peace and truth.
" O Lord God, King of heaven and earth, be pleased this day to direct
and sanctify, to rule and govern our hearts and bodies, our thoughts,
words and deeds according to Your law and in obedience to Your
commandments. Now and forever may we attain salvation and freedom by
Your help, O Savior of the world, Who lives and reigns forever and
Love and prayers,
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- I have no idea why this didn't go through yesterday. Catching up. BJL+PAXPrayers for the grace-filled success of our Oblate Day and our Sisters' Monastic Experience weekend at Petersham and for all participating.Urgent prayers needed for Brian's brother-in-law, Paul. He is a diabetic, and now has been diagnosed with inoperable lung cancer. It is stage 3, and a biopsy this coming Tuesday will check to see if he is stage 4. He will be starting chemo & radiation. His wife is devastated. Brian has known Paul since they were very young, loves him like a brother and is crushed. Please pray for Paul, his wife, Brian and all their family and friends.Deo gratias, the twin's fluid build up is gone.
Prayer for Brian T.,( another Brian,) who is being viciously harrassed.
Prayers for JS, discernment and assistance in making an important life decision.
Prayers for Beverly, special intention plus dicernment regarding another of perplexing issues..
Deo gratias for all prayers and graces of the past.Lord, help us all as You know and will. God's will is best. All is mercy and
grace. God is never absent, praise Him! Thanks so much. JL
March 14, July 14, November 13
Chapter 35: On the Weekly Servers in the Kitchen
An hour before the meal let the weekly servers each receive a drink
and some bread over and above the appointed allowance, in order
that at the meal time they may serve their brethren without
murmuring and without excessive fatigue. On solemn days, however,
let them wait until after Mass.
Immediately after the Morning Office on Sunday, the incoming and
outgoing servers shall prostrate themselves before all the brethren
in the oratory and ask their prayers. Let the server who is ending
his week say this verse: "Blessed are You, O Lord God, who have
helped me and consoled me." When this has been said three times and
the outgoing server has received his blessing, then let the
incoming server follow and say, "Incline unto my aid, O God; O
Lord, make haste to help me." Let this also be repeated three times
by all, and having received his blessing let him enter his service.
Families, and parents and caregivers, listen up! There's an
important lesson here. No task is too small to be blessed by
prayer. More than that, no task is so easy that it can be done
without God's help, so remember to thank Him. Of ourselves, we can
do nothing, literally nothing. All our strength and power comes from God.
Making dinner or washing the dishes? Take a quiet moment in the
midst of either to say "Help!" and "Thanks!" Two simple, one word
prayers. No matter how chaotic your household, everyone will find
time for at least that. God knows the details, knows your heart and
can readily fill in the blanks! We may think God needs essay-length
prayers, but He doesn't. He may enjoy hearing from us, but trust
me, we NEVER tell Him anything that's news to Him.
This chapter is not simply the humility and charity of service, it
is also the honest acknowledgment of complete helplessness without
God. For most folks, only sickness or debility will teach them
that. It may seem like nothing to bend down and pick up a pin off
the floor until a bad back makes that impossible. Handicaps hone
our perceptions of being in charge very, very well.
Of course, there is another side to simple things like serving
table, picking up pins and the like. One could not have done
anything without God's help, but ah, if one does them out of love
and care! Bingo! Double coupons, so to speak! If that pin got
carefully picked up because of a barefoot and running child, or a
beloved pet who is prone to "tasting" whatever she can find on the
floor, simplicity becomes a very much greater matter, indeed. Now
it is very close to the heart of God, and that is a wonderful place
By the way, though some might think me daft for saying this, it is
not at all that crazy. There is no reason why families could not
bless whomever is assigned to a domestic task for a week or month
or whatever. A simple prayer asking God to help them serve us all
and get over any rough times could be tastefully done without a lot
of fuss. This could really help drive home the message of the worthwhile
merit to be had in doing small things with love!
Love and prayers,