Holy Rule for Mar. 28
Prayers for the happy death and eternal rest of the following, for all their families and all who mourn them:
Frank, died suddenly.
Reverend Canon Douglas Ward-Boddington.
Please pray for Ruth for a special intention.. Also pray that her hand
that had a severe strep infection heals. I go to see a specialist next
week and he will determine what can be done. The index finger on that
hand still does not work.
Prayers for a young seminarian who was forced to leave the seminary due to slander brought aganst him by another student. May the Lord see that justice is done in this case, and have mercy on the slanderer.
Prayers of Thanksgiving and Deo gratias for Carol's brother's heart surgery. It was successful, and he is back home!
Lord, help us all as You know
will. God's will is best. All is mercy and grace. God is never absent, praise
Him! Thanks so much. JL
March 28, July 28, November 27
Chapter 48: On the Daily Manual Labor
Idleness is the enemy of the soul.
Therefore the sisters should be occupied
at certain times in manual labor,
and again at fixed hours in sacred reading.
To that end
we think that the times for each may be prescribed as follows.
From Easter until the Calends of October,
when they come out from Prime in the morning
let them labor at whatever is necessary
until about the fourth hour,
and from the fourth hour until about the sixth
let them apply themselves to reading.
After the sixth hour,
having left the table,
let them rest on their beds in perfect silence;
or if anyone may perhaps want to read,
let her read to herself
in such a way as not to disturb anyone else.
Let None be said rather early,
at the middle of the eighth hour,
and let them again do what work has to be done until Vespers.
And if the circumstances of the place or their poverty
should require that they themselves
do the work of gathering the harvest,
let them not be discontented;
for then are they truly monastics
when they live by the labor of their hands,
as did our Fathers and the Apostles.
Let all things be done with moderation, however,
for the sake of the faint-hearted.
With one of our several mottos, Ora et Labora, Pray and Work,
Benedictines have developed a marvelous theology of work. Our
centuries of reflection on the relationship of prayer and work, and
on the dignity of work itself have been shared with the Church at
large and have gone a long way to flesh out the Christian theology of
There's a beautiful glimpse of St. Benedict's tenderness here,
wrapped in one of his frequent exhortations to moderation. Here we
have a very important "WHY" of moderation: it is done "for the sake
of the faint-hearted." Got that? The median road of monastic
observance is not gauged by the strong, but by the weak among us.
Herculean ascetics that might quench the smoldering ember or break
the bruised reed are not for us. In a very real way, God Himself
decides the observance of a given house by sending those whom He does
to join it.
Neither my community nor your family or workplace is an accidental
fluke. (Tempting to think so at times, but they aren't!) God sent
those other people who drive you nuts there and He then placed you in
the midst of them. Odd sense of humor He has! But He knows what He is
Some monasteries are the only place in the world a particular member
of that house could ever be a monastic. Don't scorn that, reverence
it! What a great and tender mercy of God is there! We are a huge
Order with rooms and slots for everybody on a very, very wide
spectrum. Some work more, some pray more, but all must try to balance.
We work AND pray: Ora et Labora. Carry either too far and the results
will not be pretty. Too much work can wear a community out, make them
all but useless for prayer. If this continues for too long a time, it
can kill monastic life entirely. On the other hand, pray too much and
work too little and you will wind up with a lot of spoiled, pampered
lap dogs and lounge lizards of prayer, weak and soft and not much
good for anything- INCLUDING prayer! See how important balance is?
Oblates here are at a disadvantage. They don't usually have a
superior living right with them to tell them when they have gone
around the bend, off the top and over the falls. That's why those
objective people who ARE placed around the Oblate, like spouses,
parents, friends, employers or co-workers, are voices we should
listen to carefully.
Note I said "objective." The advice of others is not always and
everywhere good, but sometimes they can very clearly
see things to which we are completely blind. That's too important a
gift to be written off or ignored. Besides, listening is a very
Benedictine act and so is respect for and attention to authority, as
well as fraternal obedience.
The world of the Oblate is full, would we only look, with checks and
balances to keep us moderate and on course.
Love and prayers,
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Many ardent prayers for Mario, substance abuse problem and getting help and treatment, may he stay clean and sober. Prayers, too, for his parents, D. and M. and all his family.
Prayers for Kristen, young wife & mother with serious cancer. Parishioners are praying to Ven. Rose Hawthorne for a miracle.
Prayers for Diana and her daughter, Diana left the Church long ago, prayers that they both may return.
Many ardent prayers for Steve, in hospice, that he may get all the Sacraments, and for his wife and family and all who will mourn him. Divine Mercy chaplets, please, from those so inclined.
Prayers for the eternal rest of Kathy, who died in her sleep, and strength for her husband, Mark and for their family. Kathy was a very devout prayer warrior.
Continued ardent prayers for Josh, drug problems and hopefully already in treatment.
Prayers for Patty, 56, who has been home battling bacterial pneumonia for over a week.
Prayers for the eternal rest of 35 girls killed in a fire at a state-run home for youth in Guatemala, and for their families and all who mourn them. Prayers, too, for the other girls at that facility, where allegations of abuse have prompted riots from those housed there.
Prayers for a man estranged from his children for many years, that they resume contact with him.
Prayers for E., that she go to Confession, also for Liz, that she go to Confession. It has been many years for both.
Lord, help us all as You know and will. God's will is best. All is mercy and
grace. God is never absent, praise Him! Thanks so much. JL
March 14, July 14, November 13
Chapter 35: On the Weekly Servers in the Kitchen
An hour before the meal let the weekly servers each receive a drink
and some bread over and above the appointed allowance, in order
that at the meal time they may serve their brethren without
murmuring and without excessive fatigue. On solemn days, however,
let them wait until after Mass.
Immediately after the Morning Office on Sunday, the incoming and
outgoing servers shall prostrate themselves before all the brethren
in the oratory and ask their prayers. Let the server who is ending
his week say this verse: "Blessed are You, O Lord God, who have
helped me and consoled me." When this has been said three times and
the outgoing server has received his blessing, then let the
incoming server follow and say, "Incline unto my aid, O God; O
Lord, make haste to help me." Let this also be repeated three times
by all, and having received his blessing let him enter his service.
Families, and parents and caregivers, listen up! There's an
important lesson here. No task is too small to be blessed by
prayer. More than that, no task is so easy that it can be done
without God's help, so remember to thank Him. Of ourselves, we can
do nothing, literally nothing. All our strength and power comes from God.
Making dinner or washing the dishes? Take a quiet moment in the
midst of either to say "Help!" and "Thanks!" Two simple, one word
prayers. No matter how chaotic your household, everyone will find
time for at least that. God knows the details, knows your heart and
can readily fill in the blanks! We may think God needs essay-length
prayers, but He doesn't. He may enjoy hearing from us, but trust
me, we NEVER tell Him anything that's news to Him.
This chapter is not simply the humility and charity of service, it
is also the honest acknowledgment of complete helplessness without
God. For most folks, only sickness or debility will teach them
that. It may seem like nothing to bend down and pick up a pin off
the floor until a bad back makes that impossible. Handicaps hone
our perceptions of being in charge very, very well.
Of course, there is another side to simple things like serving
table, picking up pins and the like. One could not have done
anything without God's help, but ah, if one does them out of love
and care! Bingo! Double coupons, so to speak! If that pin got
carefully picked up because of a barefoot and running child, or a
beloved pet who is prone to "tasting" whatever she can find on the
floor, simplicity becomes a very much greater matter, indeed. Now
it is very close to the heart of God, and that is a wonderful place
By the way, though some might think me daft for saying this, it is
not at all that crazy. There is no reason why families could not
bless whomever is assigned to a domestic task for a week or month
or whatever. A simple prayer asking God to help them serve us all
and get over any rough times could be tastefully done without a lot
of fuss. This could really help drive home the message of the worthwhile
merit to be had in doing small things with love!
Love and prayers,