Holy Rule for Mar. 24
Prayers for the happy death and eternal rest of two young women trampled to death in Angola while trying to get into the stadium, and for the 89 others injured in that tragic stampede.
Prayers, please, for the spiritual, mental and physical health of the folloiwng, for all their loved ones and all who take care of them.
Natalie, peace of mind, employment and other concerns.
Bill, bad news for him from the vet about his dog.
Sandy, finding her way into the Catholic Church.
Lord, help us all as You know and will. God's will is best. All is mercy and
grace. God is never absent, praise Him! Thanks so much. JL
March 24, July 24, November 23
Chapter 44: How the Excommunicated Are to Make Satisfaction
One who for serious faults is excommunicated
from oratory and table
shall make satisfaction as follows.
At the hour when the celebration of the Work of God is concluded
in the oratory,
let her lie prostrate before the door of the oratory,
saying nothing, but only lying prone with her face to the ground
at the feet of all as they come out of the oratory.
And let her continue to do this
until the Abbess judges that satisfaction has been made.
Then, when she has come at the Abbess's bidding,
let her cast herself first at the Abbess's feet
and then at the feet of all,
that they may pray for her.
And next, if the Abbess so orders,
let her be received into the choir,
to the place which the Abbess appoints,
but with the provision that she shall not presume
to intone Psalm or lesson or anything else in the oratory
without a further order from the Abbess.
Moreover, at every Hour,
when the Work of God is ended,
let her cast herself on the ground in the place where she stands.
And let her continue to satisfy in this way
until the Abbess again orders her finally to cease
from this satisfaction.
But those who for slight faults are excommunicated
only from table
shall make satisfaction in the oratory,
and continue in it till an order from the Abbess,
until she blesses them and says, "It is enough."
No matter how we came by it, one nasty little of baggage that a lot
of us carry is the inability to say: "It is enough." For some of us,
forgiving ourselves or believing we have been forgiven or even
sensing that we have made all the reparation possible or necessary is
all but completely impossible. (Any other obsessive/compulsive disorders
out there reading this? Welcome to the club, I pray for us all daily!)
There is great blessing for such people to have an Abbot. Even there,
tremendous trust and obedience are required, because the Evil One
would very much prefer that our upset and lack of faith continue! An
Abbot can put and end to many matters, if only we allow that to
happen. Abbots can offer resolution to many situations and the Holy
Rule confirms them in this power again and again. The buck really
If we let it stop there.... That can be so hard. However, even though
most of us reading this do NOT live with Abbots, we all live with
God, with Christ. He and He alone is in charge of our forgiveness, of
the extent of our reparation or penance. He knows all too well the
extremes of self-damage we can go to without His intervention and He
does intervene, if only we have the faith to allow Him, to listen, trust and
believe. We all ought to seek regular confessors who can also help
us in this regard. Either confessor or Abbot can set many, many cares
I am finding lately, much to the relief of my obsessive/compulsive
heart and soul, that I really can achieve vastly greater amounts of
inner serenity and peace by putting an affair in my superior's hands
and accepting his judgement. There is the key to the value of this:
inner peace and serenity. We badly need those aids to spiritual growth.
Anything which increases their strength is a chance we ought never to
The Divine Mercy of God is His greatest attribute, linked inseparably
to His love. We could never for an instant imagine the full extent of
that Mercy's grandeur. We do Christ a terrible disservice and
discourtesy when we refuse to believe that His riches are for us,
that only others can be forgiven, but we must struggle on and "save
ourselves" with Pelagian bootstraps firmly in hand! What a sneaky
inverse pride there is in such feelings: I am so special (even so
specially wicked!) that I cannot be like the rest of them!
Mercy, mercy and always mercy! If you do not have a superior to live
with, please learn to accept that mercy from God. If you do have a
superior, learn to accept God's mercy through that channel. If you
*ARE* a superior or parent or teacher, strive to be that channel.
Mercy, mercy, always mercy!
Love and prayers,
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- I have no idea why this didn't go through yesterday. Catching up. BJL+PAXPrayers for the grace-filled success of our Oblate Day and our Sisters' Monastic Experience weekend at Petersham and for all participating.Urgent prayers needed for Brian's brother-in-law, Paul. He is a diabetic, and now has been diagnosed with inoperable lung cancer. It is stage 3, and a biopsy this coming Tuesday will check to see if he is stage 4. He will be starting chemo & radiation. His wife is devastated. Brian has known Paul since they were very young, loves him like a brother and is crushed. Please pray for Paul, his wife, Brian and all their family and friends.Deo gratias, the twin's fluid build up is gone.
Prayer for Brian T.,( another Brian,) who is being viciously harrassed.
Prayers for JS, discernment and assistance in making an important life decision.
Prayers for Beverly, special intention plus dicernment regarding another of perplexing issues..
Deo gratias for all prayers and graces of the past.Lord, help us all as You know and will. God's will is best. All is mercy and
grace. God is never absent, praise Him! Thanks so much. JL
March 14, July 14, November 13
Chapter 35: On the Weekly Servers in the Kitchen
An hour before the meal let the weekly servers each receive a drink
and some bread over and above the appointed allowance, in order
that at the meal time they may serve their brethren without
murmuring and without excessive fatigue. On solemn days, however,
let them wait until after Mass.
Immediately after the Morning Office on Sunday, the incoming and
outgoing servers shall prostrate themselves before all the brethren
in the oratory and ask their prayers. Let the server who is ending
his week say this verse: "Blessed are You, O Lord God, who have
helped me and consoled me." When this has been said three times and
the outgoing server has received his blessing, then let the
incoming server follow and say, "Incline unto my aid, O God; O
Lord, make haste to help me." Let this also be repeated three times
by all, and having received his blessing let him enter his service.
Families, and parents and caregivers, listen up! There's an
important lesson here. No task is too small to be blessed by
prayer. More than that, no task is so easy that it can be done
without God's help, so remember to thank Him. Of ourselves, we can
do nothing, literally nothing. All our strength and power comes from God.
Making dinner or washing the dishes? Take a quiet moment in the
midst of either to say "Help!" and "Thanks!" Two simple, one word
prayers. No matter how chaotic your household, everyone will find
time for at least that. God knows the details, knows your heart and
can readily fill in the blanks! We may think God needs essay-length
prayers, but He doesn't. He may enjoy hearing from us, but trust
me, we NEVER tell Him anything that's news to Him.
This chapter is not simply the humility and charity of service, it
is also the honest acknowledgment of complete helplessness without
God. For most folks, only sickness or debility will teach them
that. It may seem like nothing to bend down and pick up a pin off
the floor until a bad back makes that impossible. Handicaps hone
our perceptions of being in charge very, very well.
Of course, there is another side to simple things like serving
table, picking up pins and the like. One could not have done
anything without God's help, but ah, if one does them out of love
and care! Bingo! Double coupons, so to speak! If that pin got
carefully picked up because of a barefoot and running child, or a
beloved pet who is prone to "tasting" whatever she can find on the
floor, simplicity becomes a very much greater matter, indeed. Now
it is very close to the heart of God, and that is a wonderful place
By the way, though some might think me daft for saying this, it is
not at all that crazy. There is no reason why families could not
bless whomever is assigned to a domestic task for a week or month
or whatever. A simple prayer asking God to help them serve us all
and get over any rough times could be tastefully done without a lot
of fuss. This could really help drive home the message of the worthwhile
merit to be had in doing small things with love!
Love and prayers,