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Holy Rule for Dec.16

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  • Brjeromeleo@aol.com
    +PAX Prayers for the happy death and eternal rest of Jimmy, on what would have been his 67th birthday. Prayers, please, for Joanne, mid fifties, with a small
    Message 1 of 1 , Dec 15, 2006

      Prayers for the happy death and eternal rest of Jimmy, on what would have
      been his 67th birthday. Prayers, please, for Joanne, mid fifties, with a small
      brain tumor who will have it removed very soon, and for all her family.
      Prayers for Michelle, hepatitis C, beginning 24 week treatment program after
      Christmas. Prayers for Carolyn's cousin, who had heart failure last Saturday and
      has been in an induced coma ever since. Their family accepts God's Will, but
      need all the prayers they can get. Prayers for Margaret, test shows a spot on
      her lung, and both her mother & grandmother died of cancer of the lung.
      Prayers for Jeff, unable to sleep, for William for a religious vocation, for
      Marlene on chemo for cancer and for Bob, healing of his eyes. Prayers, too, for
      John & Esther and healing of their marriage. Prayers for all who take their
      own lives, for them to fully embrace the Divine Mercy offered them at that
      last instant. Lord, help us all as You know and will. God's will is best. All
      is mercy and grace. God is never absent, praise Him! Thanks so much. JL

      ++A note on the gender in this excerpt of the Holy Rule. I don't switch the
      genders, that's the way it comes from St. John's daily reading which I cut
      paste. It is rarely problematic, but today it often gets me posts from Roman
      Catholics asking me what gives...

      April 16, August 16, December 16
      Chapter 61: How Pilgrim Monks Are To Be Received

      But if as a guest she was found exacting or prone to vice,
      not only should she be denied membership in the community,
      but she should even be politely requested to leave,
      lest others be corrupted by her evil life.

      If, however, she has not proved to be the kind
      who deserves to be put out,
      she should not only on her own application be received
      as a member of the community,
      but she should even be persuaded to stay,
      that the others may be instructed by her example,
      and because in every place it is the same Lord who is served,
      the same King for whom the battle is fought.

      Moreover, if the Abbess perceives that she is worthy,
      she may put her in a somewhat higher rank.
      [And not only with regard to a nun
      but also with regard to those in priestly or clerical orders
      previously mentioned,]*
      the Abbess may establish them in a higher rank
      than would be theirs by date of entrance
      if she perceives that their life is deserving.

      Let the Abbess take care, however,
      never to receive a nun from another known monastery
      as a member of her community
      without the consent of her Abbess or a letter of recommendation;
      for it is written,
      "Do not to another what you would not want done to yourself" (Tob.

      *[Applicable only to women of some contemporary monastic communities
      in the Anglican Communion.]


      The flip side of a visitor having a few good things to point out is
      one who has very little good to say at all, carping about everything.
      Just as the monastic family is to listen carefully at first to see
      which brand of critic they have, here they are warned that the one
      who is happy with nothing should be politely asked to leave. It is,
      as always, balance. We should fall into neither extreme.

      Monasteries and families are very much alike in their innate sense of
      being more or less OK. Like families, they can sometimes be mistaken
      about this and St. Benedict knows that. However, he also points out
      that there are times when that instinctive feeling of being all right
      IS right, and a visiting malcontent ought not to disrupt it.

      There is a specific application here for single Oblates who may be
      dating. Virtually all of us could use some improvements in our lives,
      especially if we have fallen into some of the peculiar habits that
      seem to thrive among those who live alone. An outside observer, one
      who sees the side of our life previously hidden, can offer some real

      However, someone who wants to overhaul us or our lives wholesale, is
      not a "suitable suitor" or friend! We must learn to live with and
      adapt to others, but I'll bet that any of us who have dated have
      known at least one of those who wanted to remake us from the ground
      up. Not a good idea!

      Religious people can actually be too passive in this respect, quite
      easily. All kinds of things might enter into that judgement, but self-
      emptying and self-destruction are two different things! A human
      relationship is the union of two people, not the total absorption of

      Love and prayers,
      Jerome, OSB
      _http://www.stmarysmonastery.org_ (http://www.stmarysmonastery.org/)
      _brjeromeleo@..._ (mailto:brjeromeleo@...)
      Petersham, MA

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