Holy Rule: Brother Jerome July 11
- Holy Rule for July 11
Prayers, please, for all those with prayer requests who were not able to
have them posted! God knows and will receive our prayers for their
intentions just the same. Prayers for all those who have, or will, this
day taken their own lives. May God in His infinite forgiveness have
mercy on them. Prayers for all Benedictines, that we may have a
grace-filled and holy celebration of the Solemnity of our holy Father
Benedict tomorrow. May his spirit fill all his sons and daughters and
inspire us to greater holiness and zeal! Prayers for vocations to our
Order, and to all Orders,
that the witness of religious life may flourish in years to come. Lord,
help them as You know and will. God's will is best. All is mercy and
grace. God is never absent, praise Him! Thanks so much. JL
Also, for Brother Jerome and a rapid solution to his computer problems.
(Until our good Brother Jerome has a new email address please bless me
with your prayer requests at:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/OblatesOfStBenedict/ or my personal email
is: mlopiccolo@... U.I.O.G.D. All my Lover And
O God, Who deigned to fill Your most blessed confessor Benedict with the
spirit of all righteousness, grant unto us, Your servants who celebrate
his solemnity, that filled with his spirit we may faithfully accomplish
by Your assistance that which we have promised. Through Christ our Lord.
March 11, July 11, November 10
Chapter 33: Whether Monks Ought to Have Anything of Their Own
This vice especially is to be cut out of the monastery by the roots. Let
no one presume to give or receive anything
without the Abbot's leave, or to have anything as his own -- anything
whatever, whether book or tablets or pen or whatever it may be -- since
they are not permitted to have even their bodies or wills at their own
but for all their necessities let them look to the Father of the
monastery. And let it be unlawful to have anything
which the Abbot has not given or allowed. Let all things be common to
all, as it is written (Acts 4:32), and let no one say or assume that
anything is his own.
But if anyone is caught indulging in this most wicked vice,
let him be admonished once and a second time. If he fails to amend, let
him undergo punishment.
Benedictine poverty is easily translatable for the lay monastic, married
or single, into terms of simplicity and detachment, a holy indifference
to non-essentials. As such, it offers a powerful opportunity for a
witness against some of the real falsehoods of modern consumerist
society. This is not (nor need it be,) a preachy attack on today's
values, just a quiet refusal to go along with them.
It involves personal practice and choice, not confrontation.
Benedictine teaching on material goods is based on needs, not desires.
We ought to have all that is necessary and if, as sometimes happens,
that is not possible, we ought not to grumble. Benedictine simplicity
insists that we live in the moment of now with gratitude.
Does your family have all that you really need today? If so, then don't
put your heart on hold till you can swing a below-ground swimming pool.
That's exactly why inordinate desires can be so harmful: they DO put our
hearts on hold, they take us out of the contented present and force us
to live in an uncertain future of "when" and "if".
That future is not real, except for our futures after death. We might
never live to see the earthly future, even the next moment. We have no
way of knowing whether or not we will live till lunch today.
The present is all we have and anything that distracts our view from it
is often a complete waste of time. Living in the now is a great reality
check! It is also the place of contemplative reality: the holiness of
now, of the present instant, standing before God in love, awe and
I always hate discussions of simplicity that are so general that they
leave people thinking: "Well, great, but how do I DO that?" Hence a few
suggestions, not at all as norms, but just as ideas. With them comes a
huge warning for Oblates who are spouses and parents. You can
make choices like this for yourself, in some cases, even for the
household, but you must never force such things on children or spouses.
That can be disastrous and produces the very same loss of serenity that
simplicity is designed to protect us from.
Clothes. Almost everyone can make do with less, male or female. Before I
became a monk, I generally had two pairs of slacks- one khaki and one
navy blue. They looked preppy. They went with everything. Yes, after a
while, people did notice I was always in one or the other, but so what?
The shirts were different and I was clean.
The shirts came from the Salvation Army: years of wear in good clothes
for less than $5 a pop, less than $2 a pop if one waited till sale day.
Recycle in your own home. Towels go down from the bath, to the kitchen,
to rags. With all the rags you will soon accumulate living this way, you
can say goodbye to paper towels, unless there is some reason you really
need them. Cloth napkins? Wow! They even seem a bit upscale and you can
stop buying one-use paper. Trust me, ordinarily
washing them once a week is fine.
This is not stinge, folks. Insofar as possible, consume stuff that is
really good for you, avoid stuff that is wasteful or harmful. We become
immune to the very high levels that our society actually encourages
waste, almost demands it.
How many people over fifty recall their first reactions to disposable
lighters, ballpoint pens and razors when they first came out? It was
like: "Huh??? You throw them away???" When was the last time you bought
a refill for a ballpoint pen? Now one hardly sees any pens BUT
disposable ones. Big, big money and profits were made by the companies
teaching us to throw away and waste the WHOLE item, not just the used
part. We got used to that, sadly.
I went back to non-disposable razors some time ago, but they cost a good
deal more than the throw away kind, which have filled who knows how many
garage dumps in 30 years. Somebody gave me a Zippo lighter for Christmas
two years ago. It is a bit of a hassle to keep it in flints and fluid,
but it means that I have spared the planet from at least a little
By the way, you don't do this because it will end over-consumption. It
won't. The world has not moved to Schick razors and Zippos, nor are they
likely to do so any time soon. What it does, and this is important, is
limit your complicity in the nonsense. That, so long as one does not
become self-righteous, can be an immensely freeing thing.
Always remember the Zen principle: the only thing that is lacking is the
sense that nothing is lacking. Modern consumerism thrives on and insists
that we ALWAYS feel something is lacking. Not so, we can be free of
that. Why be lied to any more?
Love and prayers,
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