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    +PAX January 11, May 12, September 11 Chapter 2: What Kind of Person the Abbess Ought to Be Therefore, when anyone receives the name of Abbess, she ought to
    Message 1 of 1 , Sep 11, 2002

      January 11, May 12, September 11
      Chapter 2: What Kind of Person the Abbess Ought to Be

      Therefore, when anyone receives the name of Abbess,
      she ought to govern her disciples with a twofold teaching.
      That is to say,
      she should show them all that is good and holy
      by her deeds even more than by her words,
      expounding the Lord's commandments in words
      to the intelligent among her disciples,
      but demonstrating the divine precepts by her actions
      for those of harder hearts and ruder minds.
      And whatever she has taught her disciples
      to be contrary to God's law,
      let her indicate by her example that it is not to be done,
      lest, while preaching to others, she herself be found reprobate (1
      Cor. 9:27),
      and lest God one day say to her in her sin,
      "Why do you declare My statutes
      and profess My covenant with your lips,
      whereas you hate discipline
      and have cast My words behind you" (Ps. 49:16-17)?
      And again,
      "You were looking at the speck in your brother's eye,
      and did not see the beam in your own" (Matt. 7:3).


      Whether one is abbot or parent or teacher or supervisor, one of the
      dangers to be most carefully watched is the teaching by example. No
      matter how careful one is with one's words, unless one is equally
      careful with one's actions, those governed or taught will very soon
      be affected, for good or ill! If this amount of vigilance seems to be
      superhuman, it is! No one can do it without grace or prayer. Since
      sadly few ever have sufficient recourse to either grace or prayer-
      abbots included, at times- the potential for harm here is very great.

      What we think is innocent, our children will tend to believe. They
      might ignore our words, but they are astute observers of our actions,
      which are far more eloquent. If parents do not practice their faith,
      the chances of their children ever doing so are all but nil. Barring
      a miracle of grace, it ain't gonna happen. Hence, we must ask
      ourselves very careful questions about what we want to extinguish in
      those who follow us and why. We must ask ourselves if we want
      to "courageously" defend to God all that we have taught implicitly.
      These are tough questions, but they are rooted in a very healthy

      A superior or parent who is a control freak will do great harm to the
      ones in their care. A superior or parent or boss who mistakenly think
      that they are above the law will teach their subjects that they, too
      are above the law. Often such a superior will be astounded at how
      well their subjects have learned the lesson when they finally rebel.
      Of course, rebellion is only possible if a few are left healthy
      enough for it, and that often does not happen. Sad...

      Parents and superiors and employers and teachers all need to know
      when to let go. That requires a great maturity and a lot of prayer
      and grace. It is something so nearly beyond human capability that
      natural gifts alone rarely provide for it. Leave the plants in the
      hothouse too long and they will not thrive in the garden. Leave them
      there too short and they will be killed by the first stray frost.
      Seedlings have to be "hardened off" by leaving the flats out in the
      sun for a few days and bringing them in at night. Break the balance
      in the system and one courts disaster.

      The terrible, truly terrible thing about power is that insofar as it
      is related to the ego, to the self, it is likely to fail. Power
      exercised in true service and selflessness will reap a harvest of
      undreamed proportions. Unfortunately, the same may be said about
      power which is nothing but an extension of one's own neuroses or
      worse onto others.

      Love and prayers,
      Jerome, OSB
      Petersham, MA
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