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  • tallulahbell1
    ...or rather I had him out to sleep . He respiration went up after he had passed a 2 inch stool. I was able to stabilize him pretty good with lasix, but he
    Message 1 of 26 , Sep 30, 2006
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      ...or rather I had him 'out to sleep'. He respiration went up after
      he had passed a 2 inch stool. I was able to stabilize him pretty
      good with lasix, but he got into the box which put on the bed and
      strained to pass another small 3/4 inch stool. then his breathing
      became very labored.
      I had already pretty much decided that I wasn't going to let him go
      through repeated heart failure episodes. all the emergencies clinic
      are at least a 20-35 min. drive and so there is a chance of him
      having what his reg. vet has described as 'the worst death possible.

      so I rushed him to the university veterinarian emergency dept. and
      things only got worse....much worse. it was a very bad scene which I
      won't even go into. they couldn't get the IV in, and they didn't
      think he was going to make it even through that process. meanwhile
      I'm still trying to decide if I should really 'let him go.' they put
      him in oxygen while the vet (who was very young...like a kid)
      reviewed Max's ultrasound CDs. they might have been able
      to 'stabilize him, but the best I could have hoped for was a few
      more weeks. And it would have meant more of these frightening (for
      max and me)scenes. I hope I made the right choice.

      I wish someone-- especially me-- had been more pro-active about his
      constipation. I had tried pumpkin (he hated it), always put bran,
      pysillium in his food and was finally trying to do mineral
      oil/petroleum products which I posted about yesterday. I wish I'd
      been more aggressive with the latter as most cats with max condition
      don't have to think of long-term consequences.

      a huge thank you to everyone on this list: belle's mom, cinnamon and
      skylar's mom, nala, frostie's mom, susan, leah.... I know I've miss
      a lot of you who helped max and me tremendously. keep up the
      excellent work. excuse me if I'm slow to response to any
      condolences...I'm really devastated, terribly guilt ridden, and in
      the process of digging my dear boy's grave.
      tallulah and my dear, dear, Maxell Bell
    • Vickie
      I m so sorry to hear that you had to let Max go. So heard to know what to do, and if you did the right thing. You ll go over and over in your head of the
      Message 2 of 26 , Oct 1, 2006
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        I'm so sorry to hear that you had to let Max go. So heard to know what to do,
        and if you did the right thing. You'll go over and over in your head of the what if's,
        and the should haves. I think those of that have been down this road before all
        go through this.

        Know that you did what you truly thought was right, and Max is at peace.

        Vickie J



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      • pharosmommy
        Dear Tallulah, I am so sorry you lost Max. I know you two fought a tough battle and I guess Max just got tired. It was his time to go to Rainbow Bridge with
        Message 3 of 26 , Oct 1, 2006
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          Dear Tallulah, I am so sorry you lost Max. I know you two fought a
          tough battle and I guess Max just got tired. It was his time to go to
          Rainbow Bridge with the other furbabies. Please don't beat yourself
          up over doing the right thing. You did do the right thing for Max.
          He was suffering greatly and you allowed him to have peace. Wouldn't
          it be nice if we had the same respect for humans? I think so.
          Anyway, it's not a nice feeling when you can't breathe and it sounded
          like they couldn't stablize Max. I know you did everything in your
          power for him and I'm sure he is looking down from kitty heaven
          smiling at his Mommy. He loved you and always will. He knows you
          will never forget him. Just know you will see each other again
          someday and he will be waiting to pounce in your arms. Take care of
          yourself, Tallulah and know your little boy is at peace. He is in a
          better place now and I'm sure he isn't having any fluid in his lungs,
          or difficulty breathing...he is playing with the other furbabies who
          have passed. Check this website out...
          http://p103.ezboard.com/fpetlossfrm1
          Ok, please email me if you need to talk and just remember, it's ok to
          cry and cry and cry, and get pissed & depressed, and cry some
          more...we are all here for you.
          (((Hugs)))
          Andrea & Pharo
        • Janie
          I m so sorry about Max. Yes he has a lot of playmates now and imagine him running again and chasing and it will help. Take care . Janie
          Message 4 of 26 , Oct 2, 2006
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            I'm so sorry about Max. Yes he has a lot of playmates now and imagine
            him running again and chasing and it will help. Take care . Janie
          • maxlevensmom
            We had a wonderful day together today, but he was extremely weak. We had arranged for the doctor to come at 4:30, but I told him I would rather he passed on
            Message 5 of 26 , Feb 11, 2011
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              We had a wonderful day together today, but he was extremely weak. We had arranged for the doctor to come at 4:30, but I told him I would rather he passed on his own...just as the doctor arrived Max passed. The passing was not nice, but the day was special...quiet and peaceful, we had our hands on him the whole time. No meds! But we did give him some buprenex thinking it would quiet him and make him peaceful and sleepy, but it didn't work quiet that way...I wouldn't do that again.
              I will always be frustrated knowing there was something more going on with Max, but in the end I think he had complete system failure as a result of heart disease and all the meds it requires. I know that the loss will be overwhelming when I'm looking for my best friend (other than John) and he's not here, but he's been sick for a while, and that helps me come to grips with it. Right now...we're just kind of dazed. We are having him creamated so we can bring him home to CA and bury him in his yard in his favorite spot...
              Thanks to all of you who helped so much. This has been such a stressful time knowing there was no quality veterinarian here to help, and I relied heavily on the advice of many of you on this blog. I just couldn't have done it without you...you are fabulous people.
              I'm going to light a candle for Max and start a group in his name...join me? to light his wonderful spirit on the road to the rainbow bridge where I am looking forward to seeing him again one day
              take care...Judi and John and Angel Max
            • jruthaitken
              Dear Judi, I am so sorry to hear about Max. I know what you mean about buprenex - i had the same experience with Rigsby and would never give it again either.
              Message 6 of 26 , Feb 11, 2011
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                Dear Judi,

                I am so sorry to hear about Max. I know what you mean about buprenex - i had the same experience with Rigsby and would never give it again either. it is good that he was at home with you - that is a blessing. You gave him such a lot of love and care.

                You were always such a huge support to me when I was struggling with Rigsby - lots of great advice too - having groups such as this make a massive difference.

                I hope Rigsby is waiting for Max to show him the ropes - I had a dream about him catching mice this afternoon, so I think he must be feeling back to his old self wherever he is. he was such a friendly lovely boy - he had friends he met up with in the street! I am sure he will take good care of Max.

                Did I tell you that before Rigsby passed I was uncertain about an after life? Well, about half an hour to forty five minutes after he passed I heard him purr, twice. the same rhythmic way he did in life. I asked the specialist if she had ever heard of such a thing and she said no. she couldn't explain it. So there we are, it took a sweet little black and white cat to bring proof of an afterlife to me and I am so grateful to him. A few nights later I was woken by meowing outside the bedroom door. I got up, expecting it to be Vienna and she was asleep downstairs.....there have been other signs too. I hope this brings some comfort to you. please post the group name for Max's candles and I too will light a candle for him
                love
                Ruth and beautiful angel Rigsby
                --- In feline-heart@yahoogroups.com, "maxlevensmom" <judi_john@...> wrote:
                >
                > We had a wonderful day together today, but he was extremely weak. We had arranged for the doctor to come at 4:30, but I told him I would rather he passed on his own...just as the doctor arrived Max passed. The passing was not nice, but the day was special...quiet and peaceful, we had our hands on him the whole time. No meds! But we did give him some buprenex thinking it would quiet him and make him peaceful and sleepy, but it didn't work quiet that way...I wouldn't do that again.
                > I will always be frustrated knowing there was something more going on with Max, but in the end I think he had complete system failure as a result of heart disease and all the meds it requires. I know that the loss will be overwhelming when I'm looking for my best friend (other than John) and he's not here, but he's been sick for a while, and that helps me come to grips with it. Right now...we're just kind of dazed. We are having him creamated so we can bring him home to CA and bury him in his yard in his favorite spot...
                > Thanks to all of you who helped so much. This has been such a stressful time knowing there was no quality veterinarian here to help, and I relied heavily on the advice of many of you on this blog. I just couldn't have done it without you...you are fabulous people.
                > I'm going to light a candle for Max and start a group in his name...join me? to light his wonderful spirit on the road to the rainbow bridge where I am looking forward to seeing him again one day
                > take care...Judi and John and Angel Max
                >
              • Judi Levens
                Hi Ruth; the group name is MAX... While we spent the day today I was speculating with my husband about how such a small animal can have such a very large
                Message 7 of 26 , Feb 11, 2011
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                  Hi Ruth; the group name is MAX...
                  While we spent the day today I was speculating with my husband about how such a small animal can have such a very large presence in the house...suddenly I thought (and I am not religious) that it's not the size of the body, we are all souls and the same size...it felt real and true to me, so that's what I believe...I hope to have signs of Max...I miss him so much already...Judi and AM

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                  To: feline-heart@yahoogroups.com
                  From: jruthaitken@...
                  Date: Fri, 11 Feb 2011 23:27:51 +0000
                  Subject: [FH] Re: Max is gone







                  Dear Judi,

                  I am so sorry to hear about Max. I know what you mean about buprenex - i had the same experience with Rigsby and would never give it again either. it is good that he was at home with you - that is a blessing. You gave him such a lot of love and care.

                  You were always such a huge support to me when I was struggling with Rigsby - lots of great advice too - having groups such as this make a massive difference.

                  I hope Rigsby is waiting for Max to show him the ropes - I had a dream about him catching mice this afternoon, so I think he must be feeling back to his old self wherever he is. he was such a friendly lovely boy - he had friends he met up with in the street! I am sure he will take good care of Max.

                  Did I tell you that before Rigsby passed I was uncertain about an after life? Well, about half an hour to forty five minutes after he passed I heard him purr, twice. the same rhythmic way he did in life. I asked the specialist if she had ever heard of such a thing and she said no. she couldn't explain it. So there we are, it took a sweet little black and white cat to bring proof of an afterlife to me and I am so grateful to him. A few nights later I was woken by meowing outside the bedroom door. I got up, expecting it to be Vienna and she was asleep downstairs.....there have been other signs too. I hope this brings some comfort to you. please post the group name for Max's candles and I too will light a candle for him
                  love
                  Ruth and beautiful angel Rigsby
                  --- In feline-heart@yahoogroups.com, "maxlevensmom" <judi_john@...> wrote:
                  >
                  > We had a wonderful day together today, but he was extremely weak. We had arranged for the doctor to come at 4:30, but I told him I would rather he passed on his own...just as the doctor arrived Max passed. The passing was not nice, but the day was special...quiet and peaceful, we had our hands on him the whole time. No meds! But we did give him some buprenex thinking it would quiet him and make him peaceful and sleepy, but it didn't work quiet that way...I wouldn't do that again.
                  > I will always be frustrated knowing there was something more going on with Max, but in the end I think he had complete system failure as a result of heart disease and all the meds it requires. I know that the loss will be overwhelming when I'm looking for my best friend (other than John) and he's not here, but he's been sick for a while, and that helps me come to grips with it. Right now...we're just kind of dazed. We are having him creamated so we can bring him home to CA and bury him in his yard in his favorite spot...
                  > Thanks to all of you who helped so much. This has been such a stressful time knowing there was no quality veterinarian here to help, and I relied heavily on the advice of many of you on this blog. I just couldn't have done it without you...you are fabulous people.
                  > I'm going to light a candle for Max and start a group in his name...join me? to light his wonderful spirit on the road to the rainbow bridge where I am looking forward to seeing him again one day
                  > take care...Judi and John and Angel Max
                  >





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                • LorieAHuston@cs.com
                  Judi (and John), I m so sorry Max has passed. I will light a candle for him tonight and I ll be thinking of all of you. ... From: maxlevensmom
                  Message 8 of 26 , Feb 11, 2011
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                    Judi (and John),

                    I'm so sorry Max has passed. I will light a candle for him tonight and I'll be thinking of all of you.






                    -----Original Message-----
                    From: maxlevensmom <judi_john@...>
                    To: feline-heart <feline-heart@yahoogroups.com>
                    Sent: Fri, Feb 11, 2011 6:10 pm
                    Subject: [FH] Max is gone




                    We had a wonderful day together today, but he was extremely weak. We had arranged for the doctor to come at 4:30, but I told him I would rather he passed on his own...just as the doctor arrived Max passed. The passing was not nice, but the day was special...quiet and peaceful, we had our hands on him the whole time. No meds! But we did give him some buprenex thinking it would quiet him and make him peaceful and sleepy, but it didn't work quiet that way...I wouldn't do that again.
                    I will always be frustrated knowing there was something more going on with Max, but in the end I think he had complete system failure as a result of heart disease and all the meds it requires. I know that the loss will be overwhelming when I'm looking for my best friend (other than John) and he's not here, but he's been sick for a while, and that helps me come to grips with it. Right now...we're just kind of dazed. We are having him creamated so we can bring him home to CA and bury him in his yard in his favorite spot...
                    Thanks to all of you who helped so much. This has been such a stressful time knowing there was no quality veterinarian here to help, and I relied heavily on the advice of many of you on this blog. I just couldn't have done it without you...you are fabulous people.
                    I'm going to light a candle for Max and start a group in his name...join me? to light his wonderful spirit on the road to the rainbow bridge where I am looking forward to seeing him again one day
                    take care...Judi and John and Angel Max







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                  • toomany_kittys
                    Judy, I am so very sorry that Max has passed away. His illness progression in the last while was much like Luigi s was towards the end. I am sure he ll let you
                    Message 9 of 26 , Feb 11, 2011
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                      Judy, I am so very sorry that Max has passed away. His illness progression in the last while was much like Luigi's was towards the end. I am sure he'll let you know in some way that he is fine.
                      He will always remain in your heart and soul and you in his.
                      Please take care of yourself.
                      El

                      --- In feline-heart@yahoogroups.com, "maxlevensmom" <judi_john@...> wrote:
                      >
                      > We had a wonderful day together today, but he was extremely weak. We had arranged for the doctor to come at 4:30, but I told him I would rather he passed on his own...just as the doctor arrived Max passed. The passing was not nice, but the day was special...quiet and peaceful, we had our hands on him the whole time. No meds! But we did give him some buprenex thinking it would quiet him and make him peaceful and sleepy, but it didn't work quiet that way...I wouldn't do that again.
                      > I will always be frustrated knowing there was something more going on with Max, but in the end I think he had complete system failure as a result of heart disease and all the meds it requires. I know that the loss will be overwhelming when I'm looking for my best friend (other than John) and he's not here, but he's been sick for a while, and that helps me come to grips with it. Right now...we're just kind of dazed. We are having him creamated so we can bring him home to CA and bury him in his yard in his favorite spot...
                      > Thanks to all of you who helped so much. This has been such a stressful time knowing there was no quality veterinarian here to help, and I relied heavily on the advice of many of you on this blog. I just couldn't have done it without you...you are fabulous people.
                      > I'm going to light a candle for Max and start a group in his name...join me? to light his wonderful spirit on the road to the rainbow bridge where I am looking forward to seeing him again one day
                      > take care...Judi and John and Angel Max
                      >
                    • Judi Levens
                      I think I have created an album of 4 photos of Max. One of his beautiful face, one of him being clever drinking from the sink, one of him streched out in
                      Message 10 of 26 , Feb 12, 2011
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                        I "think" I have created an album of 4 photos of Max. One of his beautiful face, one of him being clever drinking from the sink, one of him streched out in the sun right before he was dx with CHF and a final one of him grooming in his chair in Mexico in the sun. Miss him like crazy, but am glad to know he's no longer sick and is hopefully looking over my shoulder...Judi and Max









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                      • LorieAHuston@cs.com
                        Judi, I m sure Max is not only looking over your shoulder but also thanking you for taking such good care of him. And wherever he is now, he s not sick or
                        Message 11 of 26 , Feb 12, 2011
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                          Judi, I'm sure Max is not only looking over your shoulder but also thanking you for taking such good care of him. And wherever he is now, he's not sick or hurting anymore. He can find peace now and, though it might not seem like much at the moment, you can take solace in the fact that you did everything humanly possible for him.

                          Where can I find the photos? I'd love to see them.






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                          From: Judi Levens <casaobelisco@...>
                          To: feline-heart <feline-heart@yahoogroups.com>
                          Sent: Sat, Feb 12, 2011 1:03 pm
                          Subject: RE: [FH] Re: Max is gone




                          "think" I have created an album of 4 photos of Max. One of his beautiful
                          ace, one of him being clever drinking from the sink, one of him streched out in
                          he sun right before he was dx with CHF and a final one of him grooming in his
                          hair in Mexico in the sun. Miss him like crazy, but am glad to know he's no
                          onger sick and is hopefully looking over my shoulder...Judi and Max




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                        • Westgold
                          Oh, he s beautiful! Such a handsome boy! Thanks for posting the photos. We are all so sorry to hear about his passing. But he was very blessed to have you
                          Message 12 of 26 , Feb 12, 2011
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                            Oh, he's beautiful! Such a handsome boy! Thanks for posting the photos.
                            We are all so sorry to hear about his passing. But he was very blessed to
                            have you to take care of him, especially during his illness. Unfortunately
                            our kitties are very fragile, and we never get to keep them as long as we
                            want. But I know we will see our little ones again. In fact, as someone
                            else mentioned, there probably is a club up there for heart kitties. They
                            share stories about how awful the medicine was, and all the silly things we
                            tried to get them to take it, etc. But I'm sure they talk mostly about how
                            much we loved them and worried about them. They're anxiously waiting for us
                            to come and take them into our arms again. I know it will happen!

                            Sincerely, Michelle, Susie Q & Tigger Too in Toronto
                          • Judi Levens
                            Thank you so much Michelle...he was a very handsome boy...although he s a little bigger in those photos than he was for the last year. He was a real Teddy
                            Message 13 of 26 , Feb 12, 2011
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                              Thank you so much Michelle...he was a very handsome boy...although he's a little bigger in those photos than he was for the last year. He was a real "Teddy Bear" kind of kitty. The end was very hard, but I have been anticipating it for 3.5 years, since he was dx with CHF, so from that point of view it wasn't too bad. I think Max had a cardiac event at the end...he seemed to have sort of electrical tremors, maybe 6-8 of them, and then he passed, but the whole thing only took a few seconds and he was in my and my husbands arms with the doctor looking on! I had said to him and about him that I hoped he would pass on his own, and he passed as the doctor came in the door...stayed right till the last minute. But, he was failing terribly and visibly all day, so I wasn't conflicted about it being his time...knew we had to let him go.

                              It's kind of interesting that since we've been doing so much caring for him I kind of was thinking that the end was all about our love for him and letting him go. After it happened and I felt the vast silence of his being gone I realized it was all about his love for us and losing that...that is very hard for both of us. He's the only "baby" we ever had (and his sister too, who passed 4 years ago.)

                              Honestly, there is a part that is freeing after all the worry and being so close to him all the time...not that I wouldn't want him to live another 5 years if he could. Also, I've been worrying about the end, and so fearful that it would be awful for him, so there's some relief in that too. I'm just saying that it's not all terrible. But we will miss Max enormously, and do already. There isn't a seond that passes that I don't have some thought of him...so used to listening for him and being hyper attentive that I forgot that he was listening for me too.

                              Again, thank you and all of you for your support...it's meant the world to me.

                              Judi and John and Angels Jolie, Cleo and Max



                              > To: casaobelisco@...; feline-heart@yahoogroups.com
                              > From: westgold@...
                              > Date: Sat, 12 Feb 2011 13:23:16 -0500
                              > Subject: Re: [FH] Re: Max is gone
                              >
                              > Oh, he's beautiful! Such a handsome boy! Thanks for posting the photos.
                              > We are all so sorry to hear about his passing. But he was very blessed to
                              > have you to take care of him, especially during his illness. Unfortunately
                              > our kitties are very fragile, and we never get to keep them as long as we
                              > want. But I know we will see our little ones again. In fact, as someone
                              > else mentioned, there probably is a club up there for heart kitties. They
                              > share stories about how awful the medicine was, and all the silly things we
                              > tried to get them to take it, etc. But I'm sure they talk mostly about how
                              > much we loved them and worried about them. They're anxiously waiting for us
                              > to come and take them into our arms again. I know it will happen!
                              >
                              > Sincerely, Michelle, Susie Q & Tigger Too in Toronto
                              >
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                            • nicholeandmilo
                              Judi, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Max was truly lucky to have such a wonderful mommy and I know he would be proud of how much effort you put forth in
                              Message 14 of 26 , Feb 12, 2011
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                                Judi,
                                I am deeply sorry for your loss. Max was truly lucky to have such a wonderful mommy and I know he would be proud of how much effort you put forth in making sure he was comfortable. I hope you can find peace in the memories you have shared together.

                                Nichole

                                --- In feline-heart@yahoogroups.com, "maxlevensmom" <judi_john@...> wrote:
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                                > We had a wonderful day together today, but he was extremely weak....Judi and John and Angel Max
                              • Westgold
                                For those who would like to see Max s photos, just go to the link at the bottom of this email, where it says Visit Your Group. If you get the message Join
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                                  For those who would like to see Max's photos, just go to the link at the bottom of this email, where it says Visit Your Group. If you get the message Join This Group at the top right, then go over to the lefthand column, and click where it says Already a member of this group, sign in here -- click, sign into Yahoo. Then you'll be on the homepage for this group. Click on the top there where is says 4 New Photos. Those are Max... what a handsome boy! There are also hundreds of other photos of our beautiful kitties, and all kinds of other information too. If you've never visited our homepage, please check it out. Especially the files. Wow, we have over 2100 members in our group......
                                  ----- Original Message -----
                                  From: LorieAHuston@...
                                  To: casaobelisco@... ; feline-heart@yahoogroups.com
                                  Sent: Saturday, February 12, 2011 1:22 PM
                                  Subject: Re: [FH] Re: Max is gone




                                  Judi, I'm sure Max is not only looking over your shoulder but also thanking you for taking such good care of him. And wherever he is now, he's not sick or hurting anymore. He can find peace now and, though it might not seem like much at the moment, you can take solace in the fact that you did everything humanly possible for him.

                                  Where can I find the photos? I'd love to see them.

                                  -----Original Message-----
                                  From: Judi Levens <casaobelisco@...>
                                  To: feline-heart <feline-heart@yahoogroups.com>
                                  Sent: Sat, Feb 12, 2011 1:03 pm
                                  Subject: RE: [FH] Re: Max is gone

                                  "think" I have created an album of 4 photos of Max. One of his beautiful
                                  ace, one of him being clever drinking from the sink, one of him streched out in
                                  he sun right before he was dx with CHF and a final one of him grooming in his
                                  hair in Mexico in the sun. Miss him like crazy, but am glad to know he's no
                                  onger sick and is hopefully looking over my shoulder...Judi and Max


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                                • Suze Winn
                                  Judi, Just viewed pictures of beautiful Max!! What an outstanding looking man he was. You captured his face so purrfectly in that one photo. Again I am so
                                  Message 16 of 26 , Feb 12, 2011
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                                    Judi,

                                    Just viewed pictures of beautiful Max!! What an outstanding looking man he was. You captured his face so purrfectly in that one photo. Again I am so sorry for your loss and the pain that you are going through. Know
                                    that Max is truly an Angel and looking after you!

                                    Suze and the bengal gang

                                    > To: jruthaitken@...; feline-heart@yahoogroups.com
                                    > From: casaobelisco@...
                                    > Date: Fri, 11 Feb 2011 15:35:17 -0800
                                    > Subject: RE: [FH] Re: Max is gone
                                    >
                                    >
                                    > Hi Ruth; the group name is MAX...
                                    > While we spent the day today I was speculating with my husband about how such a small animal can have such a very large presence in the house...suddenly I thought (and I am not religious) that it's not the size of the body, we are all souls and the same size...it felt real and true to me, so that's what I believe...I hope to have signs of Max...I miss him so much already...Judi and AM
                                    >
                                    > Casa Obelisco
                                    > Top 10 Most Romantic Bed and Breakfast's Worldwide
                                    > ForbesTraveller.com, Feb. 2009
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                                    > To: feline-heart@yahoogroups.com
                                    > From: jruthaitken@...
                                    > Date: Fri, 11 Feb 2011 23:27:51 +0000
                                    > Subject: [FH] Re: Max is gone
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                                    > Dear Judi,
                                    >
                                    > I am so sorry to hear about Max. I know what you mean about buprenex - i had the same experience with Rigsby and would never give it again either. it is good that he was at home with you - that is a blessing. You gave him such a lot of love and care.
                                    >
                                    > You were always such a huge support to me when I was struggling with Rigsby - lots of great advice too - having groups such as this make a massive difference.
                                    >
                                    > I hope Rigsby is waiting for Max to show him the ropes - I had a dream about him catching mice this afternoon, so I think he must be feeling back to his old self wherever he is. he was such a friendly lovely boy - he had friends he met up with in the street! I am sure he will take good care of Max.
                                    >
                                    > Did I tell you that before Rigsby passed I was uncertain about an after life? Well, about half an hour to forty five minutes after he passed I heard him purr, twice. the same rhythmic way he did in life. I asked the specialist if she had ever heard of such a thing and she said no. she couldn't explain it. So there we are, it took a sweet little black and white cat to bring proof of an afterlife to me and I am so grateful to him. A few nights later I was woken by meowing outside the bedroom door. I got up, expecting it to be Vienna and she was asleep downstairs.....there have been other signs too. I hope this brings some comfort to you. please post the group name for Max's candles and I too will light a candle for him
                                    > love
                                    > Ruth and beautiful angel Rigsby
                                    > --- In feline-heart@yahoogroups.com, "maxlevensmom" <judi_john@...> wrote:
                                    > >
                                    > > We had a wonderful day together today, but he was extremely weak. We had arranged for the doctor to come at 4:30, but I told him I would rather he passed on his own...just as the doctor arrived Max passed. The passing was not nice, but the day was special...quiet and peaceful, we had our hands on him the whole time. No meds! But we did give him some buprenex thinking it would quiet him and make him peaceful and sleepy, but it didn't work quiet that way...I wouldn't do that again.
                                    > > I will always be frustrated knowing there was something more going on with Max, but in the end I think he had complete system failure as a result of heart disease and all the meds it requires. I know that the loss will be overwhelming when I'm looking for my best friend (other than John) and he's not here, but he's been sick for a while, and that helps me come to grips with it. Right now...we're just kind of dazed. We are having him creamated so we can bring him home to CA and bury him in his yard in his favorite spot...
                                    > > Thanks to all of you who helped so much. This has been such a stressful time knowing there was no quality veterinarian here to help, and I relied heavily on the advice of many of you on this blog. I just couldn't have done it without you...you are fabulous people.
                                    > > I'm going to light a candle for Max and start a group in his name...join me? to light his wonderful spirit on the road to the rainbow bridge where I am looking forward to seeing him again one day
                                    > > take care...Judi and John and Angel Max
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                                  • Mmayer11
                                    Judi, Thank you for the wonderful photos of Max. I think the photos manage to capture his wonderful spirit. I truly will miss reading about him. Marianna
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                                      Judi,
                                      Thank you for the wonderful photos of Max. I think the photos manage to capture his wonderful spirit. I truly will miss reading about him.


                                      Marianna








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                                    • Westgold
                                      Judi, I know I speak for all of us -- please stay on this list! Your experience and compassion are so valuable to us. You ll be able to help all the new
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                                        Judi, I know I speak for all of us -- please stay on this list! Your experience and compassion are so valuable to us. You'll be able to help all the new people who reluctantly join this list looking for help for their precious little ones.

                                        take care -- Michelle & Tigger Too in Toronto

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                                      • Mmayer11
                                        Judi, I agree! Please hang in there with us. Your input as a much respected veteran member is invaluable. All the best, Marianna ... From: Westgold
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                                          Judi,
                                          I agree! Please hang in there with us. Your input as a much respected veteran member is invaluable.



                                          All the best,
                                          Marianna




                                          -----Original Message-----
                                          From: Westgold <westgold@...>
                                          To: Mmayer11 <mmayer11@...>; feline-heart <feline-heart@yahoogroups.com>
                                          Sent: Sat, Feb 12, 2011 3:35 pm
                                          Subject: Re: [FH] Photos of Max


                                          Judi, I know I speak for all of us -- please stay on this list! Your experience and compassion are so valuable to us. You'll be able to help all the new people who reluctantly join this list looking for help for their precious little ones.

                                          take care -- Michelle & Tigger Too in Toronto



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                                        • Judi Levens
                                          Thank you all so much...I have no plans to withdraw from the list, but may not be quite as active while I mourn my boy...I m sure you understand that there are
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                                            Thank you all so much...I have no plans to withdraw from the list, but may not be quite as active while I mourn my boy...I'm sure you understand that there are many difficult memories right now, and we are missing our little man so much...take care...Judi and Angels Max, Cleo and Jolie









                                            To: feline-heart@yahoogroups.com
                                            From: mmayer11@...
                                            Date: Sat, 12 Feb 2011 17:20:44 -0500
                                            Subject: Re: [FH] Photos of Max







                                            Judi,
                                            I agree! Please hang in there with us. Your input as a much respected veteran member is invaluable.

                                            All the best,
                                            Marianna


                                            -----Original Message-----
                                            From: Westgold <westgold@...>
                                            To: Mmayer11 <mmayer11@...>; feline-heart <feline-heart@yahoogroups.com>
                                            Sent: Sat, Feb 12, 2011 3:35 pm
                                            Subject: Re: [FH] Photos of Max

                                            Judi, I know I speak for all of us -- please stay on this list! Your experience and compassion are so valuable to us. You'll be able to help all the new people who reluctantly join this list looking for help for their precious little ones.

                                            take care -- Michelle & Tigger Too in Toronto


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                                          • Judi Levens
                                            I have to tell you all that hearing from you is really helping me...I just don t want to let the to let the topic go...I miss him so much and this is something
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                                              I have to tell you all that hearing from you is really helping me...I just don't want to let the to let the topic go...I miss him so much and this is something concrete to hold onto...it's like as soon as I stop talking about it I wll have to really acknowledge emotionally that he's not coming back...of course I know it intellectually. Thank you all so much for keeping us in your thoughts...Judi and Angel Max









                                              To: feline-heart@yahoogroups.com
                                              From: mmayer11@...
                                              Date: Sat, 12 Feb 2011 17:20:44 -0500
                                              Subject: Re: [FH] Photos of Max







                                              Judi,
                                              I agree! Please hang in there with us. Your input as a much respected veteran member is invaluable.

                                              All the best,
                                              Marianna


                                              -----Original Message-----
                                              From: Westgold <westgold@...>
                                              To: Mmayer11 <mmayer11@...>; feline-heart <feline-heart@yahoogroups.com>
                                              Sent: Sat, Feb 12, 2011 3:35 pm
                                              Subject: Re: [FH] Photos of Max

                                              Judi, I know I speak for all of us -- please stay on this list! Your experience and compassion are so valuable to us. You'll be able to help all the new people who reluctantly join this list looking for help for their precious little ones.

                                              take care -- Michelle & Tigger Too in Toronto


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                                            • Carol
                                              Judi, You can just keep talking to us as long as you need to. We all at one time or another go through the same thing, and if you need to keep Max in the here
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                                                Judi,

                                                You can just keep talking to us as long as you need to. We all at one time or another go through the same thing, and if you need to keep Max in the here and now by talking about him...talk away.

                                                hugs,
                                                Carol and Angel Snowball *5/10/91 to 1/1/10*

                                                and the gang
                                                http://carolandsteveskitties.shutterfly.com/



                                                -----Original Message-----
                                                From: Judi Levens casaobelisco@...

                                                I have to tell you all that hearing from you is really helping me...



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                                              • Westgold
                                                Judi, we all understand. You are welcome to talk about Max as much as you want. We are here for you, just as you have been there for us in the past. Here are
                                                Message 23 of 26 , Feb 13, 2011
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                                                  Judi, we all understand. You are welcome to talk about Max as much as you
                                                  want. We are here for you, just as you have been there for us in the past.
                                                  Here are a couple sites that may help you --
                                                  http://www.petloss.com
                                                  http://www.pet-loss.net
                                                  there are a lot of resources there, and also links to pet grief groups in
                                                  all states.

                                                  Everybody told me that one day the sad memories would be replaced by the
                                                  happy memories. I lost my soul-kitty Pooh in 2004, and I am still waiting
                                                  for that to happen. But I will say that it does get a little better each
                                                  year. I don't know how I would have made it at all if I hadn't gotten
                                                  Tigger Too right away. He helped heal my heart, although for the first year
                                                  I was always wishing that he was Pooh. But we are so close now, I can't
                                                  imagine being without him.

                                                  take care -- Michelle & Tigger Too in Toronto


                                                  ----- Original Message -----
                                                  From: "Judi Levens" <casaobelisco@...>
                                                  To: <mmayer11@...>; <feline-heart@yahoogroups.com>
                                                  Sent: Sunday, February 13, 2011 10:13 AM
                                                  Subject: RE: [FH] Photos of Max


                                                  >
                                                  > I have to tell you all that hearing from you is really helping me...I just
                                                  > don't want to let the to let the topic go...I miss him so much and this is
                                                  > something concrete to hold onto...it's like as soon as I stop talking
                                                  > about it I wll have to really acknowledge emotionally that he's not coming
                                                  > back...of course I know it intellectually. Thank you all so much for
                                                  > keeping us in your thoughts...Judi and Angel Max
                                                  >
                                                • Westgold
                                                  Way back in 1988 I had to have a much-loved kitty pts, I was very sad. That very night, there was a knock on my door, and it was my friend s daughter holding
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                                                    Way back in 1988 I had to have a much-loved kitty pts, I was very sad. That very night, there was a knock on my door, and it was my friend's daughter holding a little blue stripey kitten that she found in the park across the street. The first words out of my mouth were sarcastic, "That's just what I need right now!" But it was!! I took in that kitten, and he turned out to be my soul kitty Pooh. He cuddled up on the couch with me right away, and wrapped his little stripey self all around my heart, and that was it. We had 16 1/2 fantastic years together, I was never as close to any person as I was to him. He didn't have heart disease, he developed a brain tumor. We found it when he had a series of seizures one day. Excellent medical care saved him, and I was able to bring him home for another 3 1/2 months, but eventually he had a stroke and I took him in to help him move up to heaven. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life. A couple weeks later I called a Scottish Fold breeder not far from me to see what was happening -- all my other cats are Folds, and I used to breed them -- and it turned out they had a batch of babies in the oven. 4 gorgeous red&white Foldies were born exactly one month after Pooh left. I bought one of those, and got him in Jan -- which was actually 4 1/2 months after I lost Pooh. That's my Tigger Too, who does have HCM.

                                                    The point is to be OPEN -- keep your heart open!! If I had turned Pooh away that night because of my grief over losing K.C., I would have missed out on my soul-kitty. They say the best cats find us -- keep yourself open!! Be ready!!!
                                                    ----- Original Message -----
                                                    From: Judi Levens
                                                    To: westgold@...
                                                    Sent: Sunday, February 13, 2011 2:16 PM
                                                    Subject: RE: [FH] Photos of Max


                                                    That's great to hear Michelle. We are pretty certain we are going to take some time off from having a kitty, both to honor Max and because we've been so committed (read that unavailable) for the last 3.5 years taking care of him...we'd love to travel a little, etc. BUT, I don't know if I can hold out, and the thought of easing the pain is very enticing. I will check out those sites you sent...thank you for that. I'm really glad to hear that Tigger Too healed your heart...how did you happen to get him? were you looking for a kitty?
                                                    I feel like I have to get out of the house, because that's where all the Max memories are, but I don't want to go for the same reason! very, very hard...take care...Judi






                                                    > From: westgold@...
                                                    > To: casaobelisco@...; feline-heart@yahoogroups.com
                                                    > Subject: Re: [FH] Photos of Max
                                                    > Date: Sun, 13 Feb 2011 14:04:17 -0500
                                                    >
                                                    > Judi, we all understand. You are welcome to talk about Max as much as you
                                                    > want. We are here for you, just as you have been there for us in the past.
                                                    > Here are a couple sites that may help you --
                                                    > http://www.petloss.com
                                                    > http://www.pet-loss.net
                                                    > there are a lot of resources there, and also links to pet grief groups in
                                                    > all states.
                                                    >
                                                    > Everybody told me that one day the sad memories would be replaced by the
                                                    > happy memories. I lost my soul-kitty Pooh in 2004, and I am still waiting
                                                    > for that to happen. But I will say that it does get a little better each
                                                    > year. I don't know how I would have made it at all if I hadn't gotten
                                                    > Tigger Too right away. He helped heal my heart, although for the first year
                                                    > I was always wishing that he was Pooh. But we are so close now, I can't
                                                    > imagine being without him.
                                                    >
                                                    > take care -- Michelle & Tigger Too in Toronto
                                                    >
                                                    >
                                                    > ----- Original Message -----
                                                    > From: "Judi Levens" <casaobelisco@...>
                                                    > To: <mmayer11@...>; <feline-heart@yahoogroups.com>
                                                    > Sent: Sunday, February 13, 2011 10:13 AM
                                                    > Subject: RE: [FH] Photos of Max
                                                    >
                                                    >
                                                    > >
                                                    > > I have to tell you all that hearing from you is really helping me...I just
                                                    > > don't want to let the to let the topic go...I miss him so much and this is
                                                    > > something concrete to hold onto...it's like as soon as I stop talking
                                                    > > about it I wll have to really acknowledge emotionally that he's not coming
                                                    > > back...of course I know it intellectually. Thank you all so much for
                                                    > > keeping us in your thoughts...Judi and Angel Max
                                                    > >
                                                    >


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                                                  • Judi Levens
                                                    beautiful story and great advice...thanks Michelle...Judi and Angel Max From: westgold@interlog.com To: casaobelisco@hotmail.com; feline-heart@yahoogroups.com
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                                                      beautiful story and great advice...thanks Michelle...Judi and Angel Max








                                                      From: westgold@...
                                                      To: casaobelisco@...; feline-heart@yahoogroups.com
                                                      Subject: Re: [FH] Photos of Max
                                                      Date: Sun, 13 Feb 2011 14:29:55 -0500





                                                      Way back in 1988 I had to have a much-loved kitty pts, I was very sad. That very night, there was a knock on my door, and it was my friend's daughter holding a little blue stripey kitten that she found in the park across the street. The first words out of my mouth were sarcastic, "That's just what I need right now!" But it was!! I took in that kitten, and he turned out to be my soul kitty Pooh. He cuddled up on the couch with me right away, and wrapped his little stripey self all around my heart, and that was it. We had 16 1/2 fantastic years together, I was never as close to any person as I was to him. He didn't have heart disease, he developed a brain tumor. We found it when he had a series of seizures one day. Excellent medical care saved him, and I was able to bring him home for another 3 1/2 months, but eventually he had a stroke and I took him in to help him move up to heaven. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life. A couple weeks later I called a Scottish Fold breeder not far from me to see what was happening -- all my other cats are Folds, and I used to breed them -- and it turned out they had a batch of babies in the oven. 4 gorgeous red&white Foldies were born exactly one month after Pooh left. I bought one of those, and got him in Jan -- which was actually 4 1/2 months after I lost Pooh. That's my Tigger Too, who does have HCM.

                                                      The point is to be OPEN -- keep your heart open!! If I had turned Pooh away that night because of my grief over losing K.C., I would have missed out on my soul-kitty. They say the best cats find us -- keep yourself open!! Be ready!!!

                                                      ----- Original Message -----
                                                      From: Judi Levens
                                                      To: westgold@...
                                                      Sent: Sunday, February 13, 2011 2:16 PM
                                                      Subject: RE: [FH] Photos of Max

                                                      That's great to hear Michelle. We are pretty certain we are going to take some time off from having a kitty, both to honor Max and because we've been so committed (read that unavailable) for the last 3.5 years taking care of him...we'd love to travel a little, etc. BUT, I don't know if I can hold out, and the thought of easing the pain is very enticing. I will check out those sites you sent...thank you for that. I'm really glad to hear that Tigger Too healed your heart...how did you happen to get him? were you looking for a kitty?
                                                      I feel like I have to get out of the house, because that's where all the Max memories are, but I don't want to go for the same reason! very, very hard...take care...Judi






                                                      > From: westgold@...
                                                      > To: casaobelisco@...; feline-heart@yahoogroups.com
                                                      > Subject: Re: [FH] Photos of Max
                                                      > Date: Sun, 13 Feb 2011 14:04:17 -0500
                                                      >
                                                      > Judi, we all understand. You are welcome to talk about Max as much as you
                                                      > want. We are here for you, just as you have been there for us in the past.
                                                      > Here are a couple sites that may help you --
                                                      > http://www.petloss.com
                                                      > http://www.pet-loss.net
                                                      > there are a lot of resources there, and also links to pet grief groups in
                                                      > all states.
                                                      >
                                                      > Everybody told me that one day the sad memories would be replaced by the
                                                      > happy memories. I lost my soul-kitty Pooh in 2004, and I am still waiting
                                                      > for that to happen. But I will say that it does get a little better each
                                                      > year. I don't know how I would have made it at all if I hadn't gotten
                                                      > Tigger Too right away. He helped heal my heart, although for the first year
                                                      > I was always wishing that he was Pooh. But we are so close now, I can't
                                                      > imagine being without him.
                                                      >
                                                      > take care -- Michelle & Tigger Too in Toronto
                                                      >
                                                      >
                                                      > ----- Original Message -----
                                                      > From: "Judi Levens" <casaobelisco@...>
                                                      > To: <mmayer11@...>; <feline-heart@yahoogroups.com>
                                                      > Sent: Sunday, February 13, 2011 10:13 AM
                                                      > Subject: RE: [FH] Photos of Max
                                                      >
                                                      >
                                                      > >
                                                      > > I have to tell you all that hearing from you is really helping me...I just
                                                      > > don't want to let the to let the topic go...I miss him so much and this is
                                                      > > something concrete to hold onto...it's like as soon as I stop talking
                                                      > > about it I wll have to really acknowledge emotionally that he's not coming
                                                      > > back...of course I know it intellectually. Thank you all so much for
                                                      > > keeping us in your thoughts...Judi and Angel Max
                                                      > >
                                                      >


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                                                    • Ana Gutierrez
                                                      Max was soooo handsome!!! Love his black paws in white legs!!! I can set up and maintain the web page :) Best, Ana ... [Non-text portions of this message have
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                                                        Max was soooo handsome!!! Love his black paws in white legs!!!

                                                        I can set up and maintain the web page :)

                                                        Best,
                                                        Ana


                                                        On Sun, Feb 13, 2011 at 1:32 PM, Judi Levens <casaobelisco@...>wrote:

                                                        >
                                                        >
                                                        >
                                                        > beautiful story and great advice...thanks Michelle...Judi and Angel Max
                                                        >
                                                        >
                                                        > From: westgold@...
                                                        > To: casaobelisco@...; feline-heart@yahoogroups.com
                                                        > Subject: Re: [FH] Photos of Max
                                                        > Date: Sun, 13 Feb 2011 14:29:55 -0500
                                                        >
                                                        >
                                                        > Way back in 1988 I had to have a much-loved kitty pts, I was very sad. That
                                                        > very night, there was a knock on my door, and it was my friend's daughter
                                                        > holding a little blue stripey kitten that she found in the park across the
                                                        > street. The first words out of my mouth were sarcastic, "That's just what I
                                                        > need right now!" But it was!! I took in that kitten, and he turned out to be
                                                        > my soul kitty Pooh. He cuddled up on the couch with me right away, and
                                                        > wrapped his little stripey self all around my heart, and that was it. We had
                                                        > 16 1/2 fantastic years together, I was never as close to any person as I was
                                                        > to him. He didn't have heart disease, he developed a brain tumor. We found
                                                        > it when he had a series of seizures one day. Excellent medical care saved
                                                        > him, and I was able to bring him home for another 3 1/2 months, but
                                                        > eventually he had a stroke and I took him in to help him move up to heaven.
                                                        > It was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life. A couple weeks later I
                                                        > called a Scottish Fold breeder not far from me to see what was happening --
                                                        > all my other cats are Folds, and I used to breed them -- and it turned out
                                                        > they had a batch of babies in the oven. 4 gorgeous red&white Foldies were
                                                        > born exactly one month after Pooh left. I bought one of those, and got him
                                                        > in Jan -- which was actually 4 1/2 months after I lost Pooh. That's my
                                                        > Tigger Too, who does have HCM.
                                                        >
                                                        > The point is to be OPEN -- keep your heart open!! If I had turned Pooh away
                                                        > that night because of my grief over losing K.C., I would have missed out on
                                                        > my soul-kitty. They say the best cats find us -- keep yourself open!! Be
                                                        > ready!!!
                                                        >
                                                        > ----- Original Message -----
                                                        > From: Judi Levens
                                                        > To: westgold@...
                                                        > Sent: Sunday, February 13, 2011 2:16 PM
                                                        > Subject: RE: [FH] Photos of Max
                                                        >
                                                        > That's great to hear Michelle. We are pretty certain we are going to take
                                                        > some time off from having a kitty, both to honor Max and because we've been
                                                        > so committed (read that unavailable) for the last 3.5 years taking care of
                                                        > him...we'd love to travel a little, etc. BUT, I don't know if I can hold
                                                        > out, and the thought of easing the pain is very enticing. I will check out
                                                        > those sites you sent...thank you for that. I'm really glad to hear that
                                                        > Tigger Too healed your heart...how did you happen to get him? were you
                                                        > looking for a kitty?
                                                        > I feel like I have to get out of the house, because that's where all the
                                                        > Max memories are, but I don't want to go for the same reason! very, very
                                                        > hard...take care...Judi
                                                        >
                                                        > > From: westgold@...
                                                        > > To: casaobelisco@...; feline-heart@yahoogroups.com
                                                        > > Subject: Re: [FH] Photos of Max
                                                        > > Date: Sun, 13 Feb 2011 14:04:17 -0500
                                                        > >
                                                        > > Judi, we all understand. You are welcome to talk about Max as much as you
                                                        >
                                                        > > want. We are here for you, just as you have been there for us in the
                                                        > past.
                                                        > > Here are a couple sites that may help you --
                                                        > > http://www.petloss.com
                                                        > > http://www.pet-loss.net
                                                        > > there are a lot of resources there, and also links to pet grief groups in
                                                        >
                                                        > > all states.
                                                        > >
                                                        > > Everybody told me that one day the sad memories would be replaced by the
                                                        > > happy memories. I lost my soul-kitty Pooh in 2004, and I am still waiting
                                                        >
                                                        > > for that to happen. But I will say that it does get a little better each
                                                        > > year. I don't know how I would have made it at all if I hadn't gotten
                                                        > > Tigger Too right away. He helped heal my heart, although for the first
                                                        > year
                                                        > > I was always wishing that he was Pooh. But we are so close now, I can't
                                                        > > imagine being without him.
                                                        > >
                                                        > > take care -- Michelle & Tigger Too in Toronto
                                                        > >
                                                        > >
                                                        > > ----- Original Message -----
                                                        > > From: "Judi Levens" <casaobelisco@...>
                                                        > > To: <mmayer11@...>; <feline-heart@yahoogroups.com>
                                                        > > Sent: Sunday, February 13, 2011 10:13 AM
                                                        > > Subject: RE: [FH] Photos of Max
                                                        > >
                                                        > >
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                                                        > > > I have to tell you all that hearing from you is really helping me...I
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                                                        > > > don't want to let the to let the topic go...I miss him so much and this
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                                                        > > > something concrete to hold onto...it's like as soon as I stop talking
                                                        > > > about it I wll have to really acknowledge emotionally that he's not
                                                        > coming
                                                        > > > back...of course I know it intellectually. Thank you all so much for
                                                        > > > keeping us in your thoughts...Judi and Angel Max
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