I am very grateful for this group and all your opinions. They were
very informative and truely helpful. It helped me to feel I did
everything possible for him.
We tried the hemphin (sp?) but his legs went very cold and his nails
black. A very bad sign. He seems to have had massive heart failure.
And judging from everyone I have talked and emailed with a clot to
his brain probably helped him to die quickly.
Without all your information, I could have felt so much worse about
his sudden illness and death. I know he had great care, internet
friends, and will be sooooo missed by his close love ones.
All this helped us know that we should be letting go too. Reasonable
hope but truth.
I don't know if I would have know to let him die in my arms which
will be very comforting over time if it had not been for all of you.
Your posting mean so much.