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  • Anthony Venn-Brown
    Aug 14, 2004
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      HI Norm

      An ex gay Diploma eh? Now that would be worth hanging on your wall ;-) Hehe.

      I guess you received it after finishing a particular program not for proving
      your had turned heterosexual.

      About the tone of our group……….I think our group reflects, inquiry,
      positivity, love, resolution etc.

      This is very different to the couple of ex gay groups I joined to see what
      was going on. The tone was very sad. I really felt for the guys but couldn’t
      of course post. Almost all of them were talking about their daily struggles,
      asking for constant prayer to overcome temptation, and minor
      victories…..like holding a girls hand. If it was so sad it would be

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      forgiven. My sexual orientation is a gift from my Creator to be accepted,
      celebrated, and lived with integrity.

      -----Original Message-----
      From: Norm [mailto:nojam75@...]
      Sent: Friday, 13 August 2004 14:32
      To: exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com
      Subject: [ExExGayMinistry] Re: Greetings!

      Hi Kurt and everyone! Thanks for joining our group and sharing your
      stories. Wow, Kurt, what a lousy day to pick to move cross

      I'm a rare native Portlander and, similar to you, I "came out" at a
      college ministry about nine years ago when I was 19. I participated
      in the local ex-gay group, The Portland Fellowship, for almost two
      years (I also earned an "ex-gay diploma"). However, I realized that
      I was worse off than I when I started and decided to re-think the ex-
      gay and fundamentalist Christian ideas. Also similar to your
      journey, I started a Yahoo! group, this one, to hopefully share
      experiences with other former ex-gay participants.

      I haven't participated in this group lately, but I am glad that
      nyguy has continued the group.

      Norm! aka nojam75

      --- In exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com, "Kurt" <koenbear@y...> wrote:
      > Hello all,
      > I just joined the group and thought I would put out a quick
      > introduction.
      > My name is Kurt and I live with my partner in Portland, OR. I am
      > now 33 but was a part of the ex-gay movement for about 10 years.
      > came out at 18, but quickly went back in the closet at 19 when I
      > a conversion experience and started going to a conservative
      > Christian church. My involvement in a local ex-gay ministry in
      > San Jose, CA area started at about the same time. I spent 2 years
      > in that program and even got a diploma showing that I had
      > A few years later, in my mid-20's, I went back to school in
      > Minnesota to study for the ministry in the Wisconsin Evangelical
      > Lutheran Synod. In school, I was told not to tell people even
      > I "had been" gay, so I was completely closeted, both as gay and ex-
      > gay. Wanting someone to talk to I created a Yahoo group called
      > (from 1 Corinthians 6:11). That list was grew to about 100 people
      > and was around for a few years.
      > In my ministry life, I had been assigned as a minister in San
      > Antonio, TX. While I was there, I was told that I was being
      > considered for a ministry position at a small congregation in
      > Brazil. The catch: they don't normally send single guys on
      > missions. So, thinking it was what God wanted for my life, I got
      > married, was assigned to Brazil and moved there in November.
      > Brazil is where the shit hit the fan. Our marriage did not go
      > well. On a trip back to the U.S. issues about my sexuality came
      > out. Long story short: I was told that I wasn't fit for ministry
      > because I might molest a teenager (never mind that I had no
      > of that or anything that might indicate I would).
      > On September 10th of 2001 I left my wife, my career, and my
      > I stayed overnight in a motel in San Antonio, TX intending to fly
      > Portland, OR the next day. That never happened because of the
      > terrorist attacks in New York and at the Pentagon. Instead I
      > the 2,4000 miles and attmepted to start my life over.
      > The good news is that there is a happy ending: I met my partner 2
      > weeks after I got here. That was 3 years ago. We just bought a
      > home together. I am back in school pursuing a Masters of
      > and I am a candidate for ordination in the United Church of Christ.
      > Sorry for the long post. I just wanted to make a quick
      > and let y'all know that I'm here.
      > You can read about stuff I write about here:
      > http://outsidethebox.blogs.com
      > Any Livejournal users out there?
      > Blessings!
      > Kurt

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