106827Re: [evol-psych] News: A man with attitude
- Jul 31, 2010Hi JulianAcross nature dominance-submission behaviours have been co-opted for courtship purposes.This does not make courtship a dominance-submisssion behaviour.Co-option is a standard evolutionary process, of course.Steve Moxon [author of the book, The Woman Racket: The new science explaining how the sexes relate at work, at play and in society, 2008 Imprint Academic; and 'Dominance as adaptive stressing and ranking of males, serving to allocate reproduction by self-suppressed fertility: Towards a fully biological understanding of social system', 2009 Medical Hypotheses; and 'Culture is biology: Why we cannot 'transcend' our genes', 2010 Politics & Culture.].----- Original Message -----From: O'DeaSent: Saturday, July 31, 2010 11:44 PMSubject: RE: [evol-psych] News: A man with attitude
No, Steve and others, I meant what I said. I enjoy dominating my wife and I think she often enjoys being dominated. Have any of you been reading the manosphere and womanosphere lately, on the Internet? It is rife with women admitting how turned on they are by dominant men, by alphas. How they get wet for them. How they like being led.
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<<Resarch does show that in most couples it is the woman who 'controls' the relationship.
This 'control' is often construed as 'dominance' -- indeed, there is research purporting to show that in the great bulk of US couples it is the woman who is the 'dominant' partner -- but as I've always outlined, this is a misunderstanding.>>a
If 'control' doesn't mean 'dominance' then what does it mean?
From a common-sense perspective, a relationship involves give-and-take and most relationships I know are subject to fluctuations in the balance of power. Some relationships do have one party who generally demonstrates a consistent pattern of power over the other party, but these are the exceptions both in my own experience and in the research that I've read.
If science can demonstrate that its findings convey a picture that may be at variance with common sense for some, or indeed for many people, then it needs to be able to express that in language that will be accessible to the majority of people.
After all, the majority of people are involved in relationships, and if science can't express itself in terms that are meaningful to the subjects of its research, then we have to question the value and the relevance of that science.
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