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Why C.S. Lewis Was Wrong on Marriage (and J.R.R. Tolkien Was Right)

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    Why C.S. Lewis Was Wrong on Marriage (and J.R.R. Tolkien Was Right) Lewis surrendered his central conviction when he argued for two distinct kinds of
    Message 1 of 1 , May 31, 2013
      Why C.S. Lewis Was Wrong on Marriage (and J.R.R. Tolkien Was Right)
      Lewis surrendered his central conviction when he argued for "two distinct
      kinds of marriage."
      Jake Meador
      [ posted 12/5/2012 1:03PM ]

      Why C.S. Lewis Was Wrong on Marriage (and J.R.R. Tolkien Was Right)

      You won't find a more apt example of an excerpt that is contradictory to an
      author's broader writings than this bit from C.S. Lewis' Mere Christianity:

      Before leaving the question of divorce, I should like to distinguish two
      things which are very often confused. The Christian conception of marriage is
      one: the other is quite the different question—how far Christians, if they
      are voters or Members of Parliament, ought to try to force their views of
      marriage on the rest of the community by embodying them in the divorce laws.
      A great many people seem to think that if you are a Christian yourself you
      should try to make divorce difficult for every one. I do not think that. At
      least I know I should be very angry if the Mohammedans tried to prevent the
      rest of us from drinking wine. My own view is that the Churches should
      frankly recognize that the majority of the British people are not Christian
      and, therefore, cannot be expected to live Christian lives. There ought to be
      two distinct kinds of marriage: one governed by the State with rules enforced
      on all citizens, the other governed by the church with rules enforced by her
      on her own members. The distinction ought to be quite sharp, so that a man
      knows which couples are married in a Christian sense and which are not.

      This argument provoked a strong response from Lewis' friend and fellow
      Inkling, J.R.R. Tolkien. Tolkien drafted a response to Lewis sometime in 1943
      but never sent it. After Tolkien died, the letter was found folded up inside
      his copy of Lewis' "Christian Behavior,"which would be republished as part of
      Mere Christianity. (I've added the emphasis.)

      My dear L.,

      I have been reading your booklet 'Christian Behavior." I have never felt
      happy about your view of Christian "policy" with regard to divorce. …

      [Y]ou observe that you are really committed (with the Christian Church as
      a whole) to the view that Christian marriage—monogamous, permanent, rigidly
      "faithful"—is in fact the truth about sexual behavior for all humanity: this
      is the only road of total health (including sex in its proper place) for all
      men and women. That it is dissonant with men's present sex-psychology does
      not disprove this, as you see: "I think it is the instinct that has gone
      wrong," you say. Indeed if this were not so, it would be an intolerable
      injustice to impose permanent monogamy even on Christians. If Christian
      marriage were in the last analysis "unnatural" (of the same type as say the
      prohibition of flesh-meat in certain monastic rules) it could only be imposed
      on a special "chastity-order" of the Church, not on the universal Church. No
      item of compulsory Christian morals is valid only for Christians. … I do not
      think you can possibly support your "policy," by this argument, for by it you
      are giving away the very foundation of Christian marriage. The foundation is
      that this is the correct way of "running the human machine." Your argument
      reduces it merely to a way of (perhaps?) getting an extra mileage out of a
      few selected machines.

      The horror of the Christians with whom you disagree (the great majority
      of all practicing Christians) at legal divorce is in the ultimate analysis
      precisely that: horror at seeing good machines ruined by misuse. I could
      that, if you ever get a chance of alterations, you would make the point
      clear. Toleration of divorce—if a Christian does tolerate it—is toleration of
      a human abuse, which it requires special local and temporary circumstances to
      justify (as does the toleration of usury)—if indeed either divorce or genuine
      usury should be tolerated at all, as a matter of expedient policy.

      Under your limitations of space you have not, of course, had opportunity
      to elaborate your "policy"—toleration of abuse. … A Christian of your view
      is, as we have seen, committed to the belief that all people who practice
      "divorce"—certainly divorce as it is now legalized—are misusing the human
      machine (whatever philosophical defense they may put up), as certainly as men
      who get drunk (doubtless with a philosophic defense also). They are injuring
      themselves, other people, and society, by their behavior. And wrong behavior
      (if it is really wrong on universal principles) is progressive, always: it
      never stops at being "not very good," "second best"—it either reforms, or
      goes on to third-rate, bad, abominable.

      The last Christian marriage I attended was held under your system: the
      bridal pair were "married" twice. They married one another before the
      Church's witness (a priest), using one set of formulas, and making a vow of
      lifelong fidelity (and the woman of obedience); they then married again
      before the State's witness… using another set of formulas and making no vow
      of fidelity or obedience. I felt it was an abominable proceeding—and also
      ridiculous, since the first set of formulas and vows included the latter as
      the lesser. In fact it was only not ridiculous on the assumption that the
      State was in fact saying by implication: I do not recognize the existence of
      your church; you may have taken certain vows in your meeting place but they
      are just foolishness, private taboos, a burden you take on yourself: a
      limited and impermanent contract is all that is really necessary for
      citizens. In other words this "sharp division" is a piece of propaganda, a
      counter-homily delivered to young Christians fresh from the solemn words of
      the Christian minister.

      Tolkien understood the stakes. The debate strikes at the heart of what it
      means to confess that the Christian faith is "true." As Tolkien wrote, no
      article of Christian morality is intended exclusively for Christians. Rather,
      the faith teaches us that submitting to the laws of our creator is the surest
      way to live reconciled lives with his creation. This is what we ought to mean
      when we say Christianity is true. We don't simply mean that it provides
      factually accurate information about the world or that it offers an authentic
      path to spiritual fulfillment for those who choose to follow it. We mean that
      Christianity gives an accurate accounting of the world in its fullness and
      that it instructs us in how we ought to relate to the world.

      In writing to Lewis on these matters Tolkien would have been preaching to the
      choir. Which is precisely what makes this oft-quoted section of Mere
      Christianity so baffling. If it came from any other pen, the natural thing
      would be to point out that the presuppositions behind the author's analogy
      are faulty. The argument simply assumes that religious dogma is strictly
      personal and, therefore, ultimately relative. You have your practices and I
      have mine. In this view, religious teachings are not a true description of
      how to live well and justly in the world, they are just a set of suggested
      behaviors that followers of a religion should consider practicing. There is
      no necessary connection between a religious command and human flourishing.
      This is simply the modern view of religion: Religion consists of private
      devotional beliefs and (empty) public ritual.

      Of course, there was no greater debunker of that entire system of thought
      than C.S. Lewis. To read him is to come face-to-face with a man who,
      according to one friend, was "the most thoroughly converted man I ever knew."
      Few people wrestled with the absolute, pervasive nature of Christ's lordship
      more capably and intelligently than Lewis.

      Consider the social critique in That Hideous Strength as one example of this
      "thoroughly converted" mind. In that book, Lewis is not merely defending an
      article of faith or a specific political platform. He's defending an entire
      orientation toward the world. To borrow a phrase used by Doug Wilson to
      describe his debates with Christopher Hitchens, the conflict between St.
      Anne's and the NICE in Lewis' novel is not an academic exchange of mutually
      exclusive beliefs. It is a collision of lives and worlds. The world of St.
      Anne's is for Christianity. The NICE is for applied science, modernity, and

      St. Anne's Christianity is worth describing in more detail: The home is
      defined by an integrated way of life directed toward creational flourishing.
      Some of the less appreciated aspects of this life will be recognizable to
      many younger evangelicals with broader social interests. St. Anne's is an
      agrarian home where they grow most of their own food, where animals come and
      go as they please, and where the boundaries between "mine" and "yours" are
      quite a bit fuzzier than they are in our own experience. It's a place where
      the land is valued as such and is not buried under the growing burden of
      human abuse. If it calls to mind scenes from Wendell Berry's Port William,
      you are on the right track. In all these ways, That Hideous Strength is
      extremely friendly to those of us concerned by the abuses of creation
      perpetrated by industrialization.

      But we mustn't stop there in our analysis of Lewis' social imagination. If we
      reduce Lewis' critique to ecology, we have missed his point. Lewis'
      ecological views flow out of something more basic and essential. What Lewis
      is describing is an orientation toward the world. As such, it encompasses an
      ethic toward the land, but it is not limited to that.

      To discover the bedrock of the book's social vision, one need look no further
      than the book's first word: "Matrimony." At its roots, That Hideous Strength
      is a book about marriage. The book begins with Jane Studdock contemplating
      the love poems of John Donne. The story ends with a chapter titled "Venus at
      St. Anne's." In that chapter, nearly every major character is paired off,
      including Ransom, who returns to the planet Venus. More on that shortly.
      Significantly, Mark and Jane are finally reunited, this time sans
      contraception with the expectation that their child will be the Pendragon,
      the one who saves England.

      And if you scratch a little deeper, you find that this book actually
      dovetails marvelously with the planetary themes of Lewis' work discussed so
      marvelously in Michael Ward's Planet Narnia. St. Anne's, by the book's end,
      has come to represent the alliance of Venus and Jupiter. In fact, it isn't
      even that subtle. Jupiter's viceregent, Ransom, is whisked off to Venus. And
      that is not coincidental. Lewis didn't choose Venus based on whim. Venus, in
      Lewis' work, denotes beauty and fertility. Jove, meanwhile, signifies a
      secure and satisfied kingly joy. Their union signifies creation at its apex,
      as the beauty and fertility of creation (Venus) is brought under the wise,
      joyful lordship of its creator king (Jupiter). If you remove marriage, you
      are removing the beauty and the joviality that animate all of St. Anne's. If
      you lose the larger worldview implied by marriage's design, you lose the
      entire social vision of That Hideous Strength.

      This brings us back to the oddness of Lewis' concession in Mere Christianity.
      Certain aspects of the Christianity articulated at St. Anne's are very much
      en vogue right now. Evangelical Christians are talking about how to build
      deeper ties to our local communities by shopping local. We're attempting to
      respect and sustain creation by being less wasteful with our resources. Some
      of us have a renewed interest in agrarian communities.

      We've had many conversations at my church, a broadly reformed evangelical
      college-aged congregation, about these sorts of issues. My pastor and I
      recently attended the Prairie Festival at The Land Institute. At Grace, we're
      trying to articulate a broadly Christian social imagination that encompasses
      all of life. And we aren't alone in that pursuit. The growing number of
      evangelical publishers releasing books dealing with Christianity and ecology
      suggest a broader trend. So far as they go, these are all desires and
      ambitions that Lewis and Tolkien would warmly commend.

      But Lewis—in the majority of his work—and Tolkien would say we must look more
      closely at the underpinnings of our social ethic. The dominant metaphor for
      all those commendable activities described above is that of marriage. The
      ecological, communal, and creational (a far superior word to "environmental")
      goals are all understood through the metaphor of marriage, by which we mean a
      permanent, communally recognized, community-sanctioned relationship
      characterized by affection and fertility. That's the best description you'll
      find for Lewis' ethic toward the land, but it flows out of his ethic of
      sexuality. In much of his writing, and especially in That Hideous Strength,
      that is quite clear. So understood, we can now see that Tolkien's letter is
      simply Tolkien's attempt to help his friend see that his concession in Mere
      Christianity actually undermines his larger social vision. That's why Tolkien
      pushes so hard in the letter above. In staking out his odd position on
      divorce, Lewis was giving away much more than a single law on the books of a
      single nation. Rather, he was giving away the metaphor that shapes all
      elements of the Christian worldview.

      On a note more relevant to contemporary evangelicals, this is why we need to
      be crystal clear on what the defining themes of our social vision actually
      are. Matt is fond of saying that the problem with the culture war for
      evangelicals wasn't necessarily the "war" part, but the "culture" part. We
      were defending certain values in the absence of a culture that can sustain
      those values. Now younger evangelicals are reacting against that and are
      attempting to develop a robustly Christian social ethic that holds all of
      creation accountable to the claims of Christ. It's an undeniably positive and
      most welcome development.

      However, it is important to understand that evangelical commitments to both
      the pro-life cause and the preservation of traditional marriage are not
      contrary to those broader counter-cultural concerns. Rather, they fit into
      that social agenda quite neatly. More than that, if Lewis and Tolkien are
      correct, the heart of that social vision is not an ethic of the land or
      economics or sustainability. It's marriage, understood as both the private
      union of a man and woman and the larger social vision implied by the imagery
      of marriage; of a community united together in formally-recognized union and
      relating to one another in an affectionate, fertile way. Such an ethic is
      good for all areas of life, but it is premised on a certain understanding of
      marriage. And if we move away from that, we're moving away from far more than
      sexual norms.

      Jake Meador blogs at Notes From a Small Place. This article first appeared at
      Mere Orthodoxy and is reprinted with permission of the author.


      Steve Hayes
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