[dsg] Re: About Lodewijk. Was: Off to Canada
- Hi Nina,
--- In email@example.com, Nina van Gorkom <vangorko@...> wrote:
> Dear James,
> Nice to correspond with you again.
Yes, it is nice to correspond with you also. I am sorry it has been so long on my part.
> Op 2 aug 2013, om 09:00 heeft Buddhatrue het volgende geschreven:
> > I don't want to be indelicate but is Lodewijk okay? The way you write here makes me think Lodewijk passed away.
> N: No, you are not indelicate. Thank you for your kind words about Lodewijk. Sarah explained all. He passed away last year September after a very aggressive prostate cancer.
James: Thank you for letting me know and I am sorry I asked so openly on a public list. I don't have any other way of knowing what happened. I have been gone a very long time. I am sorry I wasn't there for you Nina for the difficult experience. We all need friends in that kind of experience. I am your friend and always will be. Take care of yourself and always keep on keeping on!!
Aftrwards in January I took a trip to Thailand. Here I received many effective reminders about what is really true, not the stories. That was the best medicine.
James: Yes, that is the best medicine for becoming pure and strong again. It is hard but you should focus again on what is true; again and again.
> The recovery after my accident (I fell flat down in a tram) goes really slowly. But I hope to be able to go to Thailand again next year January.
James: Oh gosh, Nina, I am so sorry you had that terrible fall in a tram. You know, I really hate those things! I have to ride them everyday in Taiwan and they drive freaking me crazy!! But, Nina, you just have to overcome that bullsh*t. You can do it! It isn't about the tram, it is about you honey, sweetheart.
- Hi Jon,
> J: I think that's pretty much how the discussion went. Not sure if I used the word 'survival', but if I did I think I would now prefer to say 'means of subsistence'.p: Yes, I think "survival" was my rendering of what you had said, which was probably "means of subsistence".
> J: Just to supplement a little, I remember it being explained that for a monk, his livelihood is the going on his alms round.p: Yes, that makes sense.