Re: [dsg] Thanks for a great trip
- Dear Ann (& Nina),
I passed on your kind words to my mother who appreciated them and sends you her best wishes too.
--- In firstname.lastname@example.org, "glenjohnann" <glenjohnann@...> wrote:
>Feeling disappointed and frustrated is the dosa flowing from the attachment - all to the idea of being there. Where there are conditions one will hear the true Dhamma and participate in discussions with friends. We need to appreciate the opportunity provided here on DSG for discussion and listening to the recordings. The important thing is the listening and/or discussing leading to wise reflection now and that can occur at home or in KK. I am not dismissing the opportunity afforded when people get together to discuss and listen to true Dhamma, just reflecting on when and where opportunities may occur - anywhere, any time, by conditions.
S: Well said. One can be a discussion in Kaeng Krachan and falling asleep (as some found on the last day when we went to the restaurant by the dam for the usual lovely lunch, followed immediately by a discussion in a separate room before our trip back to Bkk), or find oneself lost in some other thoughts. It always comes back to the cittas now. As K.Sujin always reminds us, one can listen to anything, read anything, watch anything with or without wise attention, with or without understanding.
There are opportunities for dana, sila, viriya, khanti, sacca, adhittana, adhimokkha, panna, nekkhama, metta, upekkha - all the perfections, any time at all - whilst having discussion, helping a family member or friend or stranger in the street or whilst eating a meal.
Please share more of your wise reflections. Wishing you good health as well as wisdom for the Year of the Dragon.
p.s Nina, my friend Sharon's husband sent me a note to say there's a little improvement as a result of increased acupuncture. I told my mother about her but although my mother has attended to and assisted many people as they die, she has no experience of helping anyone in a coma.
- Dear Sarah,
Op 1-feb-2012, om 7:13 heeft sarah het volgende geschreven:
> Nina, my friend Sharon's husband sent me a note to say there's a------
> little improvement as a result of increased acupuncture.
N: I am glad acupuncture is helpful for Sharon.
AS you said, also helping others can be a time to develop the
perfections. As Kh Sujin said, we do not have to think of the
perfections, they are all kusala through body, speech and mind.
Now that Lodewijk cannot help me in the house I realize the amount of
little jobs which are time-consuming he used to do.
[Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
- Hallo Sarah,
> Hi Azita,Azita: I was sad not to be there and I know that comes from strong attachment to those discussions in that lovely environment with wonderful dhamma friends. However, that is now jst a story about past khandhas.......
> I hadn't realised you weren't coming to Thailand at this time, so was sorry not to see you on our visit and in KK.
thank you for the following texts. Some of it reads a bit like a horror story, but to an arahant life as puttujhana (sp?) is horror I guess! without the dosa.
Patience, courage and good cheer
> On birth, a couple of texts for you previously quoted here, the first by Matheesha and Nina and the second by Scott:
> 1. Overcoming Birth and Death, AN 10:76, transl by Nyanaponika
> "If three things were not found in the world, the Perfect One, the Holy one
> who is fully enlightened, would not appear in the world, nor would his
> teaching and discipline shed their light over the world.
> What are these three things? They are birth, old age and death. Because
> these three are found in the world, the Prefect One, the Holy One who is
> fully enlightened, has appear in the world, and his teaching and discipline
> shed their light over the world.
> It is, however, impossible to overcome birth, old age and death without
> overcoming another three things, namely: greed, hatred and delusion."
> 2. Visuddhimagga, XVI, 37 (~Naa.namoli):
> "...When this being is born in the mother's womb, he is not born
> inside a blue or red or white lotus, etc., but on the contrary, like a
> worm in rotting fish, rotting dough, cess-pools, etc., he is born in
> the belly in a position that is below the receptacle for undigested
> food (stomach), above the receptacle for digested food (rectum),
> between the belly-lining and the backbone, which is very cramped,
> quite dark, pervaded by very fetid draughts redolent of various smells
> or ordure, and exceptionally loathsome. And on being reborn there,
> for ten months he undergoes excessive suffering, being cooked like a
> pudding in a bag by heat produced in the mother's womb, and steamed
> like a dumpling of dough, with no bending, stretching, and so on..."
> S: No wonder there was a look of "total shock" following "entry out of mother and into air"!
> Born to die - but opportunities to develop understanding with words of wisdom from "nani"!