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  • Amanda F
    Hello there. My name is Amanda and I am pretty new to the group. I joined a week or so ago, and have just kind of lurked since then. Well, today I decided it
    Message 1 of 13 , Jan 21 4:28 PM
      Hello there. My name is Amanda and I am pretty new to the group. I joined a week or so ago, and have just kind of lurked since then. Well, today I decided it might be time to join in. I am a 25 year old mother of 1, a 3 year old little girl. I have been in 2 seperate LDD relationships, one with my soon to be exhusband, and one right now with my current boyfriend. My husband never really got into it, he never spanked me to tears, and he always thought of the whole thing as sexual. He seemed to like to actually hit you, not participate in LDD. Hence the divorce. My boyfriend on the other hand, has participated in an LDD relationship once before, and actually knows what he is doing. He actually sticks to the rules he has set, and makes sure that I follow them, or pay the consequences. He almost always spanks to tears, and does not stop as soon as I start crying. He is very protective of me, and makes sure I let him know exactly what is going on and what I am doing. Our rules are pretty basic:

      No Lying/Not Telling(my personal version of lying, where I just don't mention it at all)
      No Hurting Myself/Putting Myself in Danger
      Keep the House Picked Up
      Clean the House Every Weekend
      Off the Computer by 11pm
      In Bed by Midnight Except on Weekends

      I am looking to find other LDD wifes/girlfriends on here to talk with, and to also maybe find advice for both him and I on other rules we might need, and things we should look out for/do. I am currently in the process of trying to get him to join the group.
    • kaileera
      Welcome to the group Amanda ! Kai
      Message 2 of 13 , Jan 21 11:44 PM
        Welcome to the group Amanda !

        Kai

        --- In dd-hoh@yahoogroups.com, "Amanda F" <aemrynna@...> wrote:
        >
        > Hello there. My name is Amanda and I am pretty new to the group. I joined a week or so ago, and have just kind of lurked since then. Well, today I decided it might be time to join in. I am a 25 year old mother of 1, a 3 year old little girl. I have been in 2 seperate LDD relationships, one with my soon to be exhusband, and one right now with my current boyfriend. My husband never really got into it, he never spanked me to tears, and he always thought of the whole thing as sexual. He seemed to like to actually hit you, not participate in LDD. Hence the divorce. My boyfriend on the other hand, has participated in an LDD relationship once before, and actually knows what he is doing. He actually sticks to the rules he has set, and makes sure that I follow them, or pay the consequences. He almost always spanks to tears, and does not stop as soon as I start crying. He is very protective of me, and makes sure I let him know exactly what is going on and what I am doing. Our rules are pretty basic:
        >
        > No Lying/Not Telling(my personal version of lying, where I just don't mention it at all)
        > No Hurting Myself/Putting Myself in Danger
        > Keep the House Picked Up
        > Clean the House Every Weekend
        > Off the Computer by 11pm
        > In Bed by Midnight Except on Weekends
        >
        > I am looking to find other LDD wifes/girlfriends on here to talk with, and to also maybe find advice for both him and I on other rules we might need, and things we should look out for/do. I am currently in the process of trying to get him to join the group.
        >
      • Maria Law
        hi all i am maria 28 years old from australia i follow dd hoh just got married this month new to the group would love to chat with people of similar interest
        Message 3 of 13 , Jan 22 12:07 PM
          hi all
          i am maria 28 years old from australia
          i follow dd hoh
          just got married this month
          new to the group
          would love to chat with people of similar interest

          Hugs
          Maria

          ________________________________
          From: kaileera <tup-tim@...>
          To: dd-hoh@yahoogroups.com
          Sent: Fri, 22 January, 2010 1:14:33 PM
          Subject: [dd-hoh] Re: New Here

           
          Welcome to the group Amanda !

          Kai

          --- In dd-hoh@yahoogroups. com, "Amanda F" <aemrynna@.. .> wrote:
          >
          > Hello there. My name is Amanda and I am pretty new to the group. I joined a week or so ago, and have just kind of lurked since then. Well, today I decided it might be time to join in. I am a 25 year old mother of 1, a 3 year old little girl. I have been in 2 seperate LDD relationships, one with my soon to be exhusband, and one right now with my current boyfriend. My husband never really got into it, he never spanked me to tears, and he always thought of the whole thing as sexual. He seemed to like to actually hit you, not participate in LDD. Hence the divorce. My boyfriend on the other hand, has participated in an LDD relationship once before, and actually knows what he is doing. He actually sticks to the rules he has set, and makes sure that I follow them, or pay the consequences. He almost always spanks to tears, and does not stop as soon as I start crying. He is very protective of me, and makes sure I let him know exactly what is going on and what I
          am doing. Our rules are pretty basic:
          >
          > No Lying/Not Telling(my personal version of lying, where I just don't mention it at all)
          > No Hurting Myself/Putting Myself in Danger
          > Keep the House Picked Up
          > Clean the House Every Weekend
          > Off the Computer by 11pm
          > In Bed by Midnight Except on Weekends
          >
          > I am looking to find other LDD wifes/girlfriends on here to talk with, and to also maybe find advice for both him and I on other rules we might need, and things we should look out for/do. I am currently in the process of trying to get him to join the group.
          >





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        • kaileera
          Welcome to the group Maria! We re glad you ve joined us. Kai
          Message 4 of 13 , Jan 22 7:26 PM
            Welcome to the group Maria! We're glad you've joined us.

            Kai

            --- In dd-hoh@yahoogroups.com, Maria Law <lawmaria27@...> wrote:
            >
            >
            >
            > hi all
            > i am maria 28 years old from australia
            > i follow dd hoh
            > just got married this month
            > new to the group
            > would love to chat with people of similar interest
            >
            > Hugs
            > Maria
          • janewood@y7mail.com
            Hi Maria, I ve only just joined a month or so ago (although married 25 years) and I am Australian too, you are the first Aussie I have come across in this
            Message 5 of 13 , Jan 22 8:21 PM
              Hi Maria, I've only just joined a month or so ago (although married 25 years) and I am Australian too, you are the first Aussie I have come across in this group. Congratulations on your recent marriage and choosing a DD relationship. I'm sure you will gain a lot from the forums.

              All the best.

              J.



              --- In dd-hoh@yahoogroups.com, Maria Law <lawmaria27@...> wrote:
              >
              >
              >
              > hi all
              > i am maria 28 years old from australia
              > i follow dd hoh
              > just got married this month
              > new to the group
              > would love to chat with people of similar interest
              >
              > Hugs
              > Maria
            • James C
              I am from Australia too. Does anyone know about any Australia based groups/social networks?
              Message 6 of 13 , May 18, 2010
                I am from Australia too. Does anyone know about any Australia based groups/social networks?

                --- In dd-hoh@yahoogroups.com, "janewood@..." <janewood@...> wrote:
                >
                > Hi Maria, I've only just joined a month or so ago (although married 25 years) and I am Australian too, you are the first Aussie I have come across in this group. Congratulations on your recent marriage and choosing a DD relationship. I'm sure you will gain a lot from the forums.
                >
                > All the best.
                >
                > J.
                >
                >
                >
                > --- In dd-hoh@yahoogroups.com, Maria Law <lawmaria27@> wrote:
                > >
                > >
                > >
                > > hi all
                > > i am maria 28 years old from australia
                > > i follow dd hoh
                > > just got married this month
                > > new to the group
                > > would love to chat with people of similar interest
                > >
                > > Hugs
                > > Maria
                >
              • Eryck
                hi J. The impression I get from my Australian friends, some of them are into HOH/DD relationships, is that most of the groups in Australia are more into
                Message 7 of 13 , May 19, 2010
                  hi J.
                  The impression I get from my Australian friends, some of them are into HOH/DD relationships, is that most of the groups in Australia are more into aspects of BDSM than only discipline. What I have found interesting is that there is quite an Australian private community in your country that is serious about DD/HOH.
                  All the best
                  Eryck

                  --- In dd-hoh@yahoogroups.com, "James C" <rogueactivist@...> wrote:
                  >
                  > I am from Australia too. Does anyone know about any Australia based groups/social networks?
                • James C
                  Hi Eryck, That is my impression as well. I think because we don t have the same strong Christian community which has traditional gender roles, wifely
                  Message 8 of 13 , May 19, 2010
                    Hi Eryck,

                    That is my impression as well. I think because we don't have the same strong Christian community which has traditional gender roles, wifely submission etc, DD is a bit more out of field then in the US where it can fit comfortably in some pre-existing ethos (even if all its practitioners aren't devout Christians). Because there isn't that more 'traditional' ideology such desires only manifest themselves openly in kink sexuality.

                    --- In dd-hoh@yahoogroups.com, "Eryck" <arealspanker@...> wrote:
                    >
                    > hi J.
                    > The impression I get from my Australian friends, some of them are into HOH/DD relationships, is that most of the groups in Australia are more into aspects of BDSM than only discipline. What I have found interesting is that there is quite an Australian private community in your country that is serious about DD/HOH.
                    > All the best
                    > Eryck
                  • flowerloverdd
                    Hi We are from Australia.we are new here and we are a couple that believe in DD. we are struggling to find others here in Oz who support and believe in DD. Its
                    Message 9 of 13 , May 24, 2010
                      Hi

                      We are from Australia.we are new here and we are a couple that believe in DD. we are struggling to find others here in Oz who support and believe in DD. Its getting to a point where we are giving up the search to meet others. :( BDSM seem to be popular here but DD is not... unless someone can help?
                      thanks
                      angeldufar

                      --- In dd-hoh@yahoogroups.com, "Eryck" <arealspanker@...> wrote:
                      >
                      > hi J.
                      > The impression I get from my Australian friends, some of them are into HOH/DD relationships, is that most of the groups in Australia are more into aspects of BDSM than only discipline. What I have found interesting is that there is quite an Australian private community in your country that is serious about DD/HOH.
                      > All the best
                      > Eryck
                      >
                      > --- In dd-hoh@yahoogroups.com, "James C" <rogueactivist@> wrote:
                      > >
                      > > I am from Australia too. Does anyone know about any Australia based groups/social networks?
                      >
                    • missi9246@yahoo.com
                      Why do you need to meet others? I have online people that I share info with but I don t know if I would want to meet anyone that I live by. ... From:
                      Message 10 of 13 , May 24, 2010
                        Why do you need to meet others? I have online people that I share info with but I don't know if I would want to meet anyone that I live by.


                        -----Original Message-----
                        From: "flowerloverdd" <flowerloverdd@...>
                        Date: Mon, 24 May 2010 12:49:20
                        To: <dd-hoh@yahoogroups.com>
                        Subject: [dd-hoh] Re: New Here

                        Hi

                        We are from Australia.we are new here and we are a couple that believe in DD. we are struggling to find others here in Oz who support and believe in DD. Its getting to a point where we are giving up the search to meet others. :( BDSM seem to be popular here but DD is not... unless someone can help?
                        thanks
                        angeldufar
                      • Louise C
                        I have encountered a few DD couples from Australia on the Internet, but I don t know whether they have any social contact with other DD couples. Personally, I
                        Message 11 of 13 , May 25, 2010
                          I have encountered a few DD couples from Australia on the Internet, but I don't know whether they have any social contact with other DD couples.

                          Personally, I am not that bothered about meeting people who do DD in real life - we did meet one couple once and got along fine, but it wasn't something I had hankered for particularly. But if you have a yearning to meet other people, there are some in Australia certainly.

                          Louise
                        • Ros
                          As I understand it, the law on certain aspects of what might be said to come under the general umbrella of BDSM is rather more strict in Australia than it is
                          Message 12 of 13 , Jun 2, 2010
                            As I understand it, the law on certain aspects of what might be said to come under the general umbrella of 'BDSM' is rather more strict in Australia than it is in many countries, and serious adult domestic discipline style activity is actively discouraged. I can think of two Australian resources that had to resite to American servers because they could have got into legal trouble if they had left them where they were. One is "SPANKOZ AUSTRALIA", which does include some domestic discipline type material, and the other is "Fondly and Firmly - The Gentlemanly Art of Spanking the Woman you Love". You can find them both via Google.

                            I've encountered quite a few Australians on various DD groups, but, of course, Australia is a big country and there's no guarantee that you'd be lucky enough to find real life DD friends with whom to socialise in your own home area.

                            Regards,

                            Ros


                            --- In dd-hoh@yahoogroups.com, "flowerloverdd" <flowerloverdd@...> wrote:
                            >
                            > Hi
                            >
                            > We are from Australia.we are new here and we are a couple that believe in DD. we are struggling to find others here in Oz who support and believe in DD. Its getting to a point where we are giving up the search to meet others. :( BDSM seem to be popular here but DD is not... unless someone can help?
                            > thanks
                            > angeldufar
                            >
                            > --- In dd-hoh@yahoogroups.com, "Eryck" <arealspanker@> wrote:
                            > >
                            > > hi J.
                            > > The impression I get from my Australian friends, some of them are into HOH/DD relationships, is that most of the groups in Australia are more into aspects of BDSM than only discipline. What I have found interesting is that there is quite an Australian private community in your country that is serious about DD/HOH.
                            > > All the best
                            > > Eryck
                            > >
                            > > --- In dd-hoh@yahoogroups.com, "James C" <rogueactivist@> wrote:
                            > > >
                            > > > I am from Australia too. Does anyone know about any Australia based groups/social networks?
                            > >
                            >
                          • Louise C
                            3 hours cornertime for not clearing the table properly? I can t believe you would be able to do that. And not being allowed to go to parties or go out to
                            Message 13 of 13 , Jul 25, 2011
                              3 hours cornertime for not clearing the table properly? I can't believe you would be able to do that. And not being allowed to go to parties or go out to lunch? Honestly, I think it is time you stood up for yourself. Frankly, I think it sounds like this man is abusing his position. You need to start asserting yourself a bit. He is turning into a tyrant, and if you don't take a stand it will only get worse.

                              Louise
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