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RE: [Covenanted Reformation] Re: "the rpna(gm)" Scandal

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  • Salaam Alaykoum
    Hi Susan, As some have already stated, we (the excommunicated ) were never told exactly what the charges were that the court had on file against us, which
    Message 1 of 47 , Apr 6, 2007
      Hi Susan,

      As some have already stated, we (the "excommunicated") were never told exactly what the charges were that the "court" had on file against us, which resulted in our being "excommunicated". 

      If I recall correctly, Edgar's recent post mentioned the fact that there were those in the Effort who had been "excommunicated" BEFORE the CI was released.  Others of us were "excommunicated" afterward.  For those of us who were "excommunicated" after the release of the CI, we can only guess, based on a letter that us non-excommunicated members (at the time) received from Greg Price, that the charges had something to do with having familiar fellowship with "excommunicated" brethren.  In other words, the fact that we signed our names to a letter with "excommunicated" brethren meant that we were having familiar fellowship.  It didn't matter that they had participated and contributed to the CI BEFORE their excommunication.  Either the "excommunicated" were to sign the letter only or we, the non-excommunicated, were to sign the letter only - not both parties.  Yet, to have only one party or the other sign would have been a misrepresentation of who all was involved and who all shared the Common Concerns.

      Not too long after receiving Greg Price's letter, the non-excommunicated were issued the oath, by the "Session of the RPNA(GM)", which we all refused to sign.  This was followed by fifteen (15) Announcements of Excommunication.  I should state that not all fifteen were related to the Effort, but at least ten were. 

      If you want to read any of the documents that I have mentioned here, you can find them in the public testimony that I sent out 2 Lord's Days ago (they would be in one of the attached files that I sent that day).


      Susan Wilkinson <gpyp@...> wrote:
      Hi, Ben.
      I’m sorry I wasn’t clear. Maybe it would be easier for me to explain by asking you a question. What exactly does The Effort have to do with the excommunications of those individuals involved in it? From what I’ve read no one was excommunicated for anything having to do with The Effort or the product of it, the Charitable Inquiry, so I’m having a hard time seeing the connection you’re trying to make.

      From: covenantedreformati onclub@yahoogrou ps.com [mailto: covenantedreformati onclub@yahoogrou ps.com ] On Behalf Of Ben Hart
      Sent: Friday, April 06, 2007 8:12 AM
      To: covenantedreformati onclub@yahoogrou ps.com
      Subject: [Covenanted Reformation] Re: "the rpna(gm)" Scandal
      Hi Susan,
      As the author of the 'expose' of the Effort, I'd like to respond to what you said below but I'm not quite sure yet what you're getting at...
      You said:
      A side note on the matter of The Effort. I read the paper that was supposed
      to "expose" The Effort and the author said in that paper, "I believe that
      once the facts come out regarding the drafting of the paper, and the
      attitude with which it was truly presented, people will be able to support
      the excommunications with an eased conscience." I thought that was a very
      odd statement since even IF everyone in The Effort was completely wrong and
      deserved some sort of discipline for their actions that does not therefore
      make their excommunications valid when they were ex'd for other reasons and
      in a highly irregular manner to say the absolute least
      Now, what I intended was this: many people in the church may be a little uneasy about upholding the excommunicatins because so many of those being cast out were--for all they knew--their friends and otherwise upstanding Christians.  They may be asking 'How in the world did my good friend so-and-so get excommunicated for something that seemed so trifling?  In fact, they seemed like they were just asking questions.'  I thought that giving the context in which that paper was written would help to answer these (and other) pressing questions people may have had. 
      With that in mind, would you mind explaining why my comment was so odd? 

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    • Salaam Alaykoum
      Thank you Mr. Cunningham and Mr. Gianello. ~Samantha ... From: Gus Gianello To: covenantedreformationclub@yahoogroups.com Sent:
      Message 47 of 47 , Apr 29, 2007
        Thank you Mr. Cunningham and Mr. Gianello.


        ----- Original Message ----
        From: Gus Gianello <dr.gus.gianello@...>
        To: covenantedreformationclub@yahoogroups.com
        Sent: Monday, April 23, 2007 11:48:41 PM
        Subject: RE: [Covenanted Reformation] Resource for those grieved by recent events

        A very useful review of this book is inserted below
        The Barnabas Ministry
        Book Review

        Healing Spiritual Abuse: How to Break Free from Bad Church Experiences
        Ken Blue (Intervarsity Press, Downers Grove, IL. 1993.) 166 pages.

        In Healing Spiritual Abuse, Ken Blue offers a well-researched and insightful analysis of the dynamics of spiritual abuse. Books of this genre often focus on practical, behavioral aspects of abuse, and Blue definitely addresses this. For example, Blue offers this list of characteristics of an abusive church:

        1. Abusive leaders base their spiritual authority on their position or office rather than on their service to the group. Their style of leadership is authoritarian.
        2. Leaders in abusive churches often say one thing but do another. Their words and deeds do not match.
        3. They manipulate people by making them feel guilty for not measuring up spiritually. They lay heavy religious loads on people and make no effort to lift those loads. You know you are in an abusive church if the loads just keep getting heavier.
        4. Abusive leaders are preoccupied with looking good. They labor to keep up appearance. They stifle any criticism that puts them in a bad light.
        5. They seek honorific titles and special privileges that elevate them above the group. They promote a class system with themselves at the top.
        6. Their communication is not straight. Their speech becomes especially vague and confusing when they are defending themselves.
        7. They major on minor issues to the neglect of the truly important ones. They are conscientious about religious details but neglect God's larger agendas.

        If your church rates high on these negative indicators, it is significantly spiritually abusive. Now something must be done. You may choose to stay and fight for change. Bear in mind, however, that most abusive religious systems are very well rationalized and well-defended. Abusive leaders are unlikely to respond well to your rational objections and constructive criticisms. Spiritual abuse is never the result of confused thinking. It is caused by a lust for power (p. 135).

        However, Blue excels at discussing the phenomenon of spiritual abuse from a theological and Scriptural point of view. The book is loaded with pastoral insights that are well founded and well expressed. A few excerpts illustrate this clearly:

        In Luke 12:42 Jesus gives a picture of true spiritual authority in the form of a parable. He asks, "Who then is the faithful and wise manager, whom the master puts in charge of his servants to give them their food allowance at the proper time?" True leaders are not necessarily profoundly gifted or conspicuously talented; they need no exalted office; they need no titles to validate their words; they need no seat of Moses to support their effectiveness. All they need to do is be faithful and wise, serving food to their followers as it is needed (p. 32).

        Both Ezekiel and Jesus condemned one fundamental error in the shepherds: they used the sheep rather than than served them. They acted as if the sheep existed to meet their needs rather than the other way around. When shepherds today look out over their congregations and see their people as church growth statistics, tithing units and workers in their programs, they follow the pastoral style that Jesus and Ezekiel prophesied against (p. 41).

        The modern "yeast of the Pharisees" is what we call legalism. The term legalism covers any variation on the notion that if we do the proper Christian disciplines well enough and long enough, God will be pleased with us and will reward us. It is the idea that if we do more and try harder, we can make a claim on God's favor so that we need not rely totally upon his mercy and grace.
        Legalism is the great weapon of spiritual abuse. Multiplying religious rules to gain control over followers is authoritarianism' s primary tool. Legalism is an expression of leaders' compulsion to seek security and predictability. If they can enforce an exhaustive list of dos and don'ts, they think, they will gain that security and predictability they crave (p. 44).

        Jesus promises rest for all who are weary of trying to please religious leaders. He offers an easy yoke to all those laboring under a load of spiritual performance. If your religion is wearisome and burdensome, God's answer is not a longer quiet time, a firmer commitment, attendance at one more conference or one more trip to the altar. God's solution for spiritual tiredness is rest-- rest in the loving acceptance of Jesus and his perfect load-carrying work for you (p. 59).

        False shepherds will always give lip service to this mercy and grace, but will then undermine it in the body of their teaching and in their actions (p. 60).

        A more common version of the same story is the pastor who berates the church, blaming them for low attendance at services or poor support for the church programs. Rather than look at the defects in his or her own leadership, the pastor focused attention on the flaws of the congregation. Such a person is more interested in keeping up appearances than in discovering what is actually wrong (p. 71)..

        To sum up, I would say that if abuse is minor and rare, we should probably shrug it off. If it is significant, we should confront the perpetrator. If it is systemic, ongoing, unrelenting and well defended, we probably need to leave (p. 96).

        So when we assess the integrity of a Christian leader or group, we do not look first at its motives, its aims or its moments of kindness. We look first and last at its fruit. If leaders constantly root their authority in an office rather than in servanthood, if they do everything for show, if they demand special privilege or titles, if they use words deceitfully, if they major on minors to the neglect of real pastoral needs, and if this behavior tears people down rather than builds them up, then such leaders must be confronted and changed-- or abandoned (p. 99).

        We have to be clear that if we are to have anything like Christian fellowship with those who have hurt us, they must at some point acknowledge their sin and repent of it. No true relationship between Christians can exist without this cleansing. We can forgive without their repenting, and this will free us from the bondage of ongoing bitterness, but we will not have a reconciled relationship with them until they repent (p. 100-101).

        He (a former spiritual abuser) explained how in his first church he quickly gathered about him those parishioners who met his needs, those who supported him uncritically. "In time," he said, "I established a class system, with my supporters at the top and those who posed a threat to my leadership at the bottom. This system aided me in the delusion that I was doing the right things (p. 110)."

        The second classic type of spiritual abuser is the heroic, grandiose or messianic narcissist who is obsessed by a desire to be someone great or to do something unprecedented for God. Carrying out this fantasy requires the cooperation of others and access to their money. Like the first type, this leader may not consciously wish to hurt anyone; but other are hurt as they are used for the leader's and God's "higher purposes (p. 111)."

        In order to achieve the public support he needs, these leaders make extraordinary claims for themselves or have others make them in their behalf. Such claims may include a special anointing, unusual personal sacrifice, unprecedented encounters with God, unique training, a singular teaching or leadership gift, a revelation of truth that is not available to others, or secret knowledge of God's end-times purposes. These and other claims imply that God has a special calling on this leader, and so it is the "unspecial" people's duty to admire and follow him, which they often do in droves (p. 113).

        A most effective means of control for a messianic leader is to convince his followers that they are on an extraordinary mission with him. If a leader successfully convinces his followers that he is the unique instrument of God, that makes them unique by virtue of their support of him. This group may say or imply such things as "We are a special move of God," "We are the only group proclaiming truth," "We are the faithful remnant," "We are God's cutting edge for this generation," or "We are in training for God's end-times army."
        Once this attitude is rooted in a group, the combination of pride and fear keeps followers in formation. Everyone wants to feel special, and some get hooked on the exhilaration of being part of an elite. Others fear leaving lest they miss God's will and be accused of deserting his special calling (p. 114).

        Many Christians say they have heard, understood and believed the gospel. But when they continue to subject themselves to the legalistic manipulation of spiritual abusers, we must assume that the Good News has not yet sunk in fully. For some this takes time. So we must continually reinforce the truth that we have in fact died to the law and are no longer obligated to it. Meditating on biblical passages which assure us of the radical nature of our acceptance by God through Jesus can be helpful (p. 127).

        Healing Spiritual Abuse is recommended as an insightful and helpful resource in understanding and breaking free from unhealthy church situations.
        The book is available at Amazon.com but not at Amazon.ca



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        -----Original Message-----
        From: covenantedreformati onclub@yahoogrou ps.com [mailto:covenantedr eformationclub@ yahoogroups. com] On Behalf Of Tim Cunningham
        Sent: Tuesday, April 24, 2007 1:06 AM
        To: covenantedreformati onclub@yahoogrou ps.com
        Subject: [Covenanted Reformation] Resource for those grieved by recent events

        I commend to those who have been grieved by recent events a remarkable
        Biblical study of Christ's teaching on spiritual abuse.

        The book "Healing Spiritual Abuse" by Ken Blue and it is an exegetical
        and historical study of Matt. 23 and shows how the problems exemplified
        by the Pharisees and confronted by Christ still bedevil Christians

        While Blue is neither Presbyterian nor Covenanter, his exegesis of the
        Scriptures is good and his applications are exemplary. But he is
        especially good at helping those who have may or may not have suffered
        spiritual abuse to biblically analyze their situations and how they may
        recover from truly abusive situations.

        Tim Cunningham

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