Re: Why are there fewer female than male conlangers?
- Well, one could argue that a gender-typical male would show far less
interest in conlanging than those of the list, although I may be influenced
here by those males I know IRL.
I wouldn't say that women "usually" want to marry and have kids. I'd
venture to say that a good portion of women my age (college) are rather
disinterested in the whole reproductive arrangement, as I am, and there are
probably a lot more of us who conlang than even we ourselves know. As a
group we just tend to be much less vocal.
As for the comparative geekdom of males and females... I have a theory,
which involves gender analysis and so should probably not be lightly placed
on the public list. Would people like me to place it on the list, or ought
I to move it to private correspondence?
On Thu, Feb 21, 2013 at 9:56 AM, Leonardo Castro <leolucas1980@...>wrote:
> 2013/2/17 Mia. <gloriouswaffle@...>:
> > I know I am a little late to this party, but I am a female (although not
> > terribly gender-typical) and I really don't care much about what others
> > think of me at all. I don't care much about what I look like. Avoiding a
> > citation for indecent exposure is my fashion priority. I don't care if
> > people are impressed with what I do; I am doing what I want to do. I
> > try to fit in at all. I just don't have that kind of social awareness.
> And I
> > tend to be friends with women who are like me.
> > Conlanging is a pretty low priority for me, but I am a single mom, a
> > full-time student, and I work, so there's very little downtime in my
> > and there's no way for me to shift my priorities that wouldn't end up
> > costing me something I'm not willing to give up. As a result, I work on
> > languages between other things, and I hardly ever participate in the
> > communities, which renders me invisible, for the most part. It's not that
> > I'm not doing it. It's just too much extra effort to post about it
> > regularly, and I definitely don't have the time to read what's being
> When I was a Physics student, a female colleague told us that women
> usually don't think about doing scientific research as seriously as
> men do because they usually want to get married and have children
> until their early 30`s, so they can't take so many years studying.
> > I am not sure that the numbers of women with languages projects is as
> low as
> > it appears from participation in the community. It is, after all, a
> > solitary activity in the first place, so unless you make the effort to
> > out there, nobody would know you were doing it.
> > (Today is the first time I've looked at CONLANG mail in months. Most
> > people would have unsubscribed by now, but this goes to an email I use
> > exclusively for CONLANG and a couple of other lists, so it is invisible
> > me most of the time.)
> > Mia.
> > On 2/12/2013 4:43 PM, Randy Frueh wrote:
> >> My girlfriend has an interest in many 'geeky' activities: roleplaying,
> >> linguistics, ancient cultures, and other things. But she tells me that
> >> is hard to fit these less than critical activities into her life.
> >> I'd probably be more successful were I as driven as she is. But my
> >> priorities are different. I've noticed that she cares A LOT about how
> >> others see her. I couldn't care less about what others think of me.
> >> Is this a common difference? Men and women of the list; what are your
> >> impressions on this?
> >> (Sorry if this is getting away from the OP's question but I feel that
> >> comparative geekdom of men and women may be closely related to the
> >> On Feb 12, 2013 1:01 PM, "Krista D. Casada" <kcasada@...> wrote:
- On Fri, Feb 22, 2013 at 4:11 PM, DM <decadent.muffin@...> wrote:
> subconscious, and it happens really early in life. There is a book calledI'll second the recommendation. Ms. Fine reviews a number of
> Delusions of Gender by one Cordelia Fine about the process of gender
> acquisition in young children, which I can't hope to summarize in full but
> which everyone ought to read to further understand what I'm talking about.
pop-science books which have misrepresented and exaggerated the
studies on neurological and behavioral differences between males and
females, and also critiques some poorly-designed studies that don't
really prove as much as their authors claim. In short, there are very
few sex differences that are probably caused more by genetics and
neurology than by culture.