- Hello Gary, <br>as November 18 is coming up fast,
so a wedding blessing to you and your new bride to
be.<br>May God bless you both on your upcoming marriage, I
know if I don't do it now I will forget to , so may
the Lord bless you guys very much and many happy
years to come.<br>It's not always easy but keep him
first when things are busy, I know how busy it must be
for you right now.I remember 15 years ago how busy it
was for my wife and I. Brings back good memories for
me looking back and how fast 15 years have gone and
two wonderful children that I have to cherish, and a
great wife that has stood by me through the good times
and the hard ones.<br>If I had to do it all over
again, I would in a heart beat.<br>So keep your eyes on
Christ and he will lead.<br> God bless you Gary very
much.<br>I hope you have your wedding pipe pick by
now.<br><br>Your friend in Canada.<br>Phil
While I have Christian friends who are cigar/pipe smokers, I don't worry
about my non-smoking brothers and sisters finding out or knowing. Smoking a
pipe is a very personal and individual activity (though it can be very
stimulating when done in the presence of those who appreciate it and
participate). I am no more concerned about people detecting that I've been
smoking a pipe than I am if they know I had garlic for lunch (though a
breath mint in both cases would be a common courtesy).
Most people today will either judge you and talk about you behind your back,
or blow it off and go on with life. The rare bird that wants to know why and
how often you smoke, and what you find appealling in it will most likely end
up in one of these categories any way. If you are worried about people
rejecting you because you smoke a pipe, then you are either fellowshipping
with people who don't understand the Gospel in its entirety, or you live
your life to gain the approval of others - or maybe both.
Unless you are dealing with a compulsive tobacco addiction (i.e., it has
control of you and not the other way around), I would encourage you to deal
with the issue in humility. Yes, I smoke a pipe. It is very relaxing and
meditative. Yes, I understand the risks of tobacco abuse, and so I'm
disciplined in its use. Would you like to see my pipe? Would you like to try
my pipe? I find the hobby very enjoyable. What are your hobbies? etc.
In my experience, the less of a big deal you make of it, the more clear it
is to your critics that you are not some nicotine addict staunchly defending
a pack a day habit. I approach alcohol in much the same way, and I've had
many very good conversations about the wine bottle on my kitchen counter
using the same strategy.
Don't know if this helps, but there you go.
The Woodlands, TX
[mailto:firstname.lastname@example.org] On Behalf Of Randy Warren
Sent: Monday, October 15, 2007 3:20 PM
Subject: [Christian Pipe Smokers] Re: Christian Friends
I was looking at some of the older postings and saw this topic. I
haven't revealed to any of the members of our church about my smoking a
pipe, though I know when I attend services or other activities, I must
smell like a tobacco shop. Old spice can only cover up so much, so I'm
sure somebody must suspect, but no-one's ever said anything to me.
--- In christianpipesmoker <mailto:christianpipesmokers%40yahoogroups.com>
email@example.com, puffingpresby wrote:
Do you enjoy a pipe around your Christian friends?
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