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    CALLED OUT INFORMATION SERVICE We have received this news release from the Rev. John Auer. ... United Methodist Clergywoman Fights for Job After Coming Out as
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      CALLED OUT INFORMATION SERVICE

      We have received this news release from the Rev. John Auer.
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      United Methodist Clergywoman Fights for Job
      After Coming Out as Lesbian

      A Seattle clergywoman is pursuing an assignment within the United
      Methodist Pacific Northwest Conference of Seattle, despite coming out
      officially as a lesbian.

      Karen Dammann, a United Methodist Church clergywoman since 1991,
      declared on March 25 that she intends to pursue a church assignment
      guaranteed to pastors in good standing -- a guarantee she feels
      should not be curtailed because she is a lesbian. The Rev. Dammann,
      44, stated her desire in a letter to all 371 clergy in the UMC
      Pacific Northwest Conference, with which she is affiliated. She says
      she is now willing to drop any semblance of secret and demand a
      clergy job guaranteed to fully credentialed UMC clergy members.

      Despite the fact that many of her colleagues knew about her
      sexuality, Dammann states that after formally adopting her domestic
      partner�s baby in 1998, United Methodist Church officials advised her
      against taking the customary newborn parental leave and instead
      insisted she take a Periodical Professional Leave. She acquiesced,
      but upon returning to service several weeks later, Dammann found a
      petition being drawn up against her within her own congregation.
      Sensing the growing hostility from her own congregation and the
      Conference leadership, she left the area nearly two years ago under a
      �Family Leave" status to care for the couple's toddler.

      Dammann states that the incidents surrounding the birth of her son
      created an irreconcilable gap between her hidden personal life and
      public professional life�a gap that the Church Conference was not
      willing to bridge. "Preparing for the birth of our baby really
      brought home the craziness of attempting to live �in the closet� as a
      United Methodist clergyperson," Dammann says. "An ordinary and
      predictable experience for most couples became extraordinary and
      unpredictable for us."

      Raised a Roman Catholic, Dammann informed her parents at an early age
      of her intentions to �grow up to be a priest.� She pursued a
      religious education degree, and after nearly ten years as a
      professional �lay� coordinator in the Catholic church, Dammann left
      Catholicism for United Methodism in 1989, where a clergy path for
      women was unfettered. She enrolled at the Pacific School of Religion
      in Berkeley and graduated in 1992.

      At the age 36 Dammann hadn�t yet determined she was a lesbian
      ("apparently I was one of the last to do so," she states), but time
      in therapy following a cancer scare, along with meeting �soulmate�
      Meredith Savage, revealed the truth. When the issue of her sexuality
      became evident, Dammann began the double life of a closeted gay
      clergyperson, living with the unofficial church policy of "don't ask,
      don't tell."

      Dammann and Savage held a commitment ceremony in 1996, in the
      presence of other United Methodist clergy, while Dammann was under
      appointment at Woodland Park UMC of Seattle. It was at Woodland Park
      where the petition forced her to leave her congregation following the
      birth of their child.

      Upon taking her Leave from the Conference, Dammann followed her
      partner to San Francisco, where she took a one-month interim
      preaching assignment at Pine United Methodist Church. The �warm
      acceptance and affirmation� she received in San Francisco made it
      �impossible to ever return to the closeted secret life of a gay
      clergyperson in the UMC," she says. A few months later, she and
      Savage moved to Northeastern United States to be with her partner�s
      ailing mother as Savage pursued a Ph.D. program. Dammann willingly
      went to have a chance to sort out her career choices, and currently
      works as a security officer.

      Facilitating Dammann's petitioning process to the UMC Pacific
      Northwest Conference is the First UMC of San Rafael, Calif., a
      congregation that insists on calling itself a "reconciling
      congregation" despite the Church's Judicial Council ruling in 1999,
      which called the label "divisive" and ordered it dropped.
      �Reconciling Congregations� advocate full inclusion of gay and
      lesbian people in church life. San Rafael's pastor, the Rev. John
      Auer, has agreed to be Dammann's clergy support point-person in what
      could be an uphill fight for both an appointment and acceptance.

      Dammann states that she only wants the opportunity to serve in the
      United Methodist Church as a right to her ordained status, without
      having to disguise her sexuality or �live a lie.� The Church�s
      official response is still pending.

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      CONTACTS: Rev. John Auer, (415) 453-8716, 453-2134
      Attorney Susan Griffin, (415) 397-2600



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