Re: Thorns instead of roses
- [From Bhadra]
Thank you for your response. I also struggle with criticism, both
outwardly, and also inside my head. How easy my mind seems to find
it to come up with critiques of what is wrong with almost everyone.
On Sri Chinmoy's birthday one year I found myself doing that, and I
thought to myself, in honor of Sri Chinmoy's birthday, could I just
stop this incessant stream of criticism just for today?!
Miraculously, I did stop. My mind became empty, and then my whole
being was flooded with the most beautiful feeling of overwhelming
--- In Sri_Chinmoy_Inspiration@yahoogroups.com, nayaknayaknayak
> Hi, Bhadra, I particularly like poems like the one that you have
> posted just below. I think that criticism is so destructive. I
> personally struggle with it myself, because I grew up with the
> science mind that makes points by tearing apart something false.
> There is merit in exposing untruth, but there is certainly a loving
> way to do it.
> Sri Chinmoy once told me that to encourage people in my Centre, if
> they do nine things wrong and one thing right, then appreciate the
> one right thing.
> There is also quite a long response that Guru gave on video when
> asked by the interviewer if he (the interviewer) should tell his
> mother when she cooks badly or praise her anyway. The bottom line is
> that it is not untruthful to praise the cooking, because she will be
> inspired to do something more, whereas the criticism will stop her.
> My own extension of this is that it is more truthful to supply
> loving encouragement than negative facts.
> Here is a poem that captures it all (by a poet whose mystical vision
> has been praised by our Teacher):
> "A truth that's told with bad intent beats all the lies you can
> invent." ~William Blake, "Auguries of Innocence"
> --- In Sri_Chinmoy_Inspiration@yahoogroups.com, bha15257
> <no_reply@y...> wrote:
> > [From Bhadra]
> > "Alas, countless times
> > You are bringing thorns to the Supreme
> > By criticising mercilessly
> > Those who are trying to give Him roses."
> > -Sri Chinmoy