28654Re: [S-R] Re: Slovak Traditions Book
- Jan 11, 2011hi Deb - So many people told me that their immigrant ancestors are gone and
there is no one to ask questions about life long ago - a major reason why i
wrote the book.
it follows the seasons of the year with all the special celebrations and events
from Lenten celebration to hog killing and Christmas and includes life events
like birth/baptism, marriage and death. Spent many years going from village to
village and asking questions - didn't know i was going to write a book - but it
was so fascinating and people loved telling us. It's a time that has gone by but
i am so glad i was there to record it. Slovakia is such a special place as there
still are a few chances and places to see and experience life a lot like it was
long ago. So many artists agreed to using their wonderful depictions of
life back then - helps to bring it all to life. And i wanted color illustrations
and joy on every page - just like Slovakia!My book honors all those beautiful
people who opened their hearts and their homes to my mother and me for 40
years beginning in 1969. Let me know how you like it... helene
From: Deb <dremetta@...>
Sent: Mon, January 10, 2011 12:37:19 PM
Subject: [S-R] Re: Illeg
Wow, Helene, guess that would answer it! Yes, God help the girl!
BTW, I just ordered "Slovakia! Traditions Old & New". I'm hoping that can help
with understanding what life was like for my ancestors. Anyone in my family who
could have told stories of the "old country" is long gone!
Thanks for the insight!
--- In SLOVAK-ROOTS@yahoogroups.com, helene cincebeaux <helenezx@...> wrote:
> Hi Deb - i was told that when the young men were taken into military service
> 2 years at age 18 - the year before that they were denied nothing. They got new
> clothes and partied.
> They couldn't go to service married so that's why so many marriages were alter
> legitimatized - God help the poor girl whose boyfriend never came back or who
> found another.
> i recall in the 70s when i learned a good friend's mother was aÂ "free
> in other words she had the child but never married - it seemed to be OK.
> also back then it seemed like in so many cases young people didn't marry until
> the woman was pregnant.
> Â Â these were my observations from experiences traveling there.
> From: Deb <dremetta@...>
> To: SLOVAK-ROOTS@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Mon, January 10, 2011 9:40:46 AM
> Subject: [S-R] Re: Illeg
> So interesting...it's like you were reading my mind. I, too, have been going
> through the films online and have been very surprised at the number of
> illegitimate children born. Only rarely is the father noted.
> Was the family "shamed"??? Anyone know how these illeitimate births were
> viewed...seemed to be quite a few in the 1850-1890 timeframe where I've been
> focusing my search.
> Insights anyone?
> --- In SLOVAK-ROOTS@yahoogroups.com, "tom geiss" <tomfgurka@> wrote:
> > One of the stange quirks about genealogy is that, whenever an illegitimate
> >child is born, the name of the father is never mentioned.
> > I saw, in viewing films, that my great-grandmother had two children before
> >ever got married. She was listed at the same house number where my grandma and
> >her siblings were born
> > She was called "servilis" which , I presume meant that she was a housemaid?
> >Finally she got married.
> > Tom
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