Article Title: The First Step to Real Success
Author: Wendy Hearn
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The First Step to Real Success
Do you want to have success? Do you want to feel a successful
person? Success is what many people are striving for.
Success is deemed to be the ultimate goal to strive towards.
That's fine to a degree, because we all need to head towards
something worthwhile. However, one of the problems I've
noticed is that, although many people say they want success,
they can't define it clearly. Their definition of success is
People tend to measure success in material possessions or
monetary terms. Typically by statements like, "When I'm a
millionaire I'll feel successful" or "When I have a top of
the range luxury car I'll know I've reached success." Success
is often put on a pedestal, at a distance. All too often,
before these goals are reached, they're extended. It's almost
as if the closer they get to success, the further away they
move the goal posts.
When we define success, we often compare ourselves to others.
It's too easy to look at another person's perceived success
and think if we had that as well, we would be successful.
We strive for the possessions others have in order to
experience success. If we don't get them, we feel a failure.
Or we get these material possessions and then discover that
having them isn't all it's cracked up to be, so we still
don't necessarily feel successful. When you compare yourself
to others you're likely to be left feeling a failure. When
your idea of success comes down to money or material
possessions, you often wake up and realise there's something
missing in your life. Success is about much more than that.
I'm not suggesting you forget the monetary aspect of success,
because this is certainly a part of it. But it is only a
part. True success encompasses all areas of your life and
when you measure all of them, your success will be more
balanced. The different areas of your life to consider are:
The measurement of your success goes beyond work and business.
When we get too tied up in measuring our success through what
we do for a living, we can come crashing down if we're made
redundant or the business ceases.
Success is often talked about. It's one of those things that
many people are striving for, but fear at the same time. We
talk about people and label them as successful. Yet success
as a word is often without any real meaning for most people.
Success is held up as something to aim for.
If you're chasing other people's versions of success, you're
not likely to experience it yourself. You will only feel and
be successful when you do it your own way. The first step
towards real success is to define success for yourself. The
dictionary defines 'success' as the achievement of something
desired, planned or attempted. Your definition will
different from other people's. Success isn't an end result
or a goal; it's a process and a journey to be enjoyed.
"There is only one success: to be able to spend your life in
your own way" - Christopher Morley
Success needs to be exciting and fill you with enthusiasm,
not put you under undue pressure. Let your definition of
success give you plenty of opportunities to celebrate. Your
measure of success should challenge you, to really bring our
your best rather than allow you to become complacent.
How will you know when you're successful? What is your own
definition of success?
Wendy Hearn - Personal and Professional Coach
She works with business owners, professionals, executives and
managers who are ready to enrich their lives. . . finding more
success, fun, balance, joy and time.
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