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    #3299 - Wednesday, September 24, 2008 - Editor: Gloria Lee Nonduality Highlights - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NDhighlights The state of nonduality is a
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      #3299 - Wednesday, September 24, 2008 - Editor: Gloria Lee
      Nonduality Highlights
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      http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NDhighlights 
       
       
       
      The state of nonduality is a state of intense peace and perfect balance. It is so peaceful because everything is seen as it belongs--to the eternal order of cosmic evolution; hence, all is accepted, all reconciled.
       
      — Notebooks, Paul Brunton
      posted to Wisdom-l by Mark Scorelle
       

       
      Keep the Three Inseparable
      Your actions, your speech, and your thoughts should be inseparable from this yearning to communicate from the heart. Everything you say can further polarize the situation and convince you of how separate you are. On the other hand, everything you say and do and think can support your desire to communicate, to move closer and step out of this myth of isolation and separateness that you're caught in.

      From Start Where You Are : A Guide to Compassionate Living by Pema Chodron, Copyright 1994, Shambhala Publications.


      Don't Misinterpret
      Don't impose the wrong notion of what harmony is, what compassion is, what patience is, what generosity is. Don't misinterpret what these things really are. There is compassion and there is idiot compassion; there is patience and there is idiot patience; there is generosity and there is idiot generosity. For example, trying to smooth everything out to avoid confrontation, not to rock the boat, is not what's meant by compassion or patience. It's what is meant by control. Then you are not trying to step into unknown territory, to find yourself more naked with less protection and therefore more in contact with reality. Instead, you use the idiot forms of compassion and so forth just to get ground. When you open the door and invite in all sentient beings as your guests, you have to drop your agenda. Many different people come in. Just when you think you have a little scheme that is going to work, it doesn't work. It was very beneficial to Juan, but when you tried it on Mortimer, he looked at you as if you were crazy, and when you try it on Juanita, she gets insulted.

      Coming up with a formula won't work. If you invite all sentient beings as your guests while just wanting harmony, sooner or later you'll find that one of your guests is behaving badly and that just sitting there cheerfully doing your tonglen and trying to cultivate harmony doesn't work.

      So you sit there and you say, "Okay, now I'm going to make friends with the fact that I am hurting and afraid, and this is really awful." But you are just trying to avoid conflict here; you just don't want to make things worse. Then all the guests are misbehaving; you work hard all day and they just sit around, smoking cigarettes, drinking beer, eating your food, and then beating you up. You think you're being a warrior and a Bodhisattva by doing nothing and saying nothing, but what you're being is a coward. You're just afraid of making the situation worse. Finally they kick you out of your house and you're sitting on the sidewalk. Somebody walks by and says, "What are you doing sitting out here?" You answer, "I am practicing patience and compassion." That's missing the point.

      Even though you've dropped your agenda, even though you are trying to work WITH situations instead of struggling AGAINST them, nevertheless you may have to say, "You can stay here tonight, but tomorrow you're going, and if you don't get out of here, I am calling the police." You don't really know what's going to benefit somebody, but it doesn't benefit anybody to allow someone to beat you up, eat all your food, and put you out on the street.

      So "Don't misinterpret" really gets at the notion of the big squeeze. It's saying that you don't know what's going to help, but you need to speak and act with clarity and decisiveness. Clarity and decisiveness come from the willingness to slow down, to listen to and look at what's happening. They come from opening your heart and not running away. Then the action and the speech are in accord with what needs to be done, for you and for the other person.

      We make a lot of mistakes. If you ask people whom you consider to be wise and courageous about their lives, you may find that they have hurt a lot of people and made a lot of mistakes, but that they used those occasions as opportunities to humble themselves and open their hearts. We don't get wise by staying in a room with all the doors and windows closed.

      From Start Where You Are : A Guide to Compassionate Living by Pema Chodron, Copyright 1994, Shambhala Publications


       
      See if you can catch yourself complaining,
      in either speech or thought, about a situation
      you find yourself in, what other people do or
      say, your surroundings, your life situation,
      even the weather.  To complain is always
      nonacceptance of what is.

      - Eckhart Tolle

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      "The Power of Now"
      Eckhart Tolle
      New World Library, 1999
      posted to Along The Way
       

       

      Dislocation

      by Marge Piercy

      It happens in an instant.
      My grandma used to say
      someone is walking on your grave.

      It's that moment when your life
      is suddenly strange to you
      as someone else's coat

      you have slipped on at a party
      by accident, and it is far
      too big or too tight for you.

      Your life feels awkward, ill
      fitting. You remember why you
      came into this kitchen, but you

      feel you don't belong here.
      It scares you in a remote
      numb way. You fear that you—

      whatever you means, this mind,
      this entity stuck into a name
      like mercury dropped into water—

      have lost the ability to enter your
      self, a key that no longer works.
      Perhaps you will be locked

      out here forever peering in
      at your body, if that self is really
      what you are. If you are at all.

       

      "Dislocation" by Marge Piercy from The Crooked Inheritance. © Alfred A. Knopf, 2006.

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