If You Change One Thing, You Change Everything
- If You Change One Thing, You Change
Looking back on your life, what
would you change if you could?
In the classic 1939 film It’s a Wonderful Life, the main character, a
small-town bank officer played by Jimmy Stewart, is about to commit suicide
when an angel shows him how different the lives of people in Bedford Falls
would have been if he hadn’t been born. The movie is a favorite because it
affirms how each of us touches the lives and shapes the future in unexpected
and often marvelous ways.
More modern films like Back to the Future, Sliding Door, and Frequency are built on a similar premise: If you change the past, you change the
future – often in dramatic and unpredictable ways. If you change one thing, you
Given the potential impact of every decision we make, it’s wise to think ahead.
Although few things turn out exactly as we plan, the better we understand how
our choices can start a chain reaction of events, the more likely we’ll get
what we want.
The enormous complexity of cause and effect leads to another conclusion: It’s
futile to look back at our lives with “what if” scenarios. What’s done is done.
Although changing our past would change our present, it would do so in ways
that are so unpredictable that we could never know whether it would be for
better or worse.
Accept and celebrate the fact that what you are today is a direct result of
everything that’s happened to you. It’s pointless to wish things were
different. Remember, if you change one thing, you change everything.
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