Re: [Hybrid] Re: Ally?
- Hey Carolyn. Thank you for your email. Thank you everyone who has emailed :)
Blaine's doing ok, he's a very strong person and he learnt a lot when my mum died when I was 21, four years ago. Both were kinda expected, so at least that's something.
Hope everyone's cool...I'll be back (hopefully with remix votes!) soon :)
On Fri, 10 Jun 2005 09:59:01 EDT, wrote:
> I'm 23 and lost my mom almost a year ago, and all I can say is that if you
> have the right support and the perfect person, friend, lover, whatever (aka,
> you), that's really all your boyfriend will need to get through the rough times
> and on to better ones with complete understanding and knowledge for the
> future. So just be there for him, it's all he needs. I was fortunate in an
> unfortunate way in the fact that Tom's mom and sister had both passed away in
> the same week a little over a year before my ordeal. And having someone that
> close to you understand every little mood swing, temper tantrum, urge to die,
> whatever you want to call it, really put things in perspective for me. Help
> from a therapist also worked out well and really helped me cope with why I
> ended up losing the best mom in the world, with the perfect marriage to
> my dad,
> who would have helped anyone in any way she could, why did it have to be so
> sudden? All these questions were realized by support from people I didn't
> know, new friends I made along the way, and of course, Tom, in addition to my
> new found faith and beliefs. And that can help too, no matter what you believe
> in, if anything. It's all a big picture that we have to study to understand.
> We'll all be put in this situation one day and all you can hope for is
> unconditional love from your best friends and family. It's the only
> reason I'm
> still alive and happy today.
> Much Love,
> "That's crazy Ally.
> Sorry to hear the bad news, must be hard."
> God, Rich.
> You sound so f***ing insensitive.