Re: A note on 'Self-Definition'
- Hi Connie,
Thank you so much for you memo!!Please feel more than free to share this memo / posting with anyone
that you would like (and I do feel honored by your wanting to share it).
[The one request I would like to add is that you also include a link to
the 'Generation-Mixed' webpage (so that people can see that it is a
'copyrighted' posting ... as I have, more than once, seen my postings
re-posted all over the web with either no or the wrong 'authorship')
-- and also the 'Contact' information to my email address (just
in case anyone has any questions in regards to the topic of the
posting) -- both of which are noted at the very end of the posting.]Thanks again Connie -- you are great and we are all so
happy that you are a part of the Gen-Mixed Community !!!
Have a wonderful day -- and continue
to always 'stay true' to who you are!
-- APGifts (soaptalk@...)
--- In Generation-Mixed@yahoogroups.com,
Connie Ware-Berg <connie.wareberg@...> wrote:I would like to share this e-mail with another group I am in if I may.
But I would like to ask your permission first.
Thank you, Connie
From: multiracialbookclub <soaptalk@...>
Sent: Sunday, November 20, 2011 2:04 AM
Subject: [Generation-Mixed] A note on 'Self-Definition'On 'Self-Definition'
When finding myself speaking with Mixed-Race people
who (in reaction to intimidation by pressure from the
`One-Droppist' of all "racial" combinations that
they have encountered rather than out of some
personal choice) feel pressured to go through life
"passing as a `mono'-racial", I try to share with them of
some of the following conclusions I have made about life.
These conclusions are as follows:
***To have the 'courage to acknowledge' one's
Ethnicity or Family Lineage as being Mixed-Race
IS NOT the same as "separating oneself from" or
"denying any part" of one's "Mono"-Racial lineages.
***To have the 'fortitude to proclaim' that one's
Mixed-Race heritage IS NOT about focusing on anything
as petty or divisive as `visible' skin coloring, hair texture,
facial features, etc. NOR IS IT about any measurements
of `quantum' or `percentage' of "racial" mixtures.
***To have the `strength to hold onto' one's Mixed-Race
heritage IS actually about acknowledging the struggle that
your ancestors went through (against their volition)
and their survival -- against all odds -- made in
order to pave the way for you to exist.
***A Mixed-Race person can be so via their Culture
(such as Creoles and Latinos);via their Lineage
(such as people who are of a Multi-Generational
Multiracially-Mixed 'MGM-Mixed' lineage) ;
via their Parentage (such as people who are of
First-Generational Multiracially-Mixed 'FGM-Mixed'
parentage) and via their Ethnicity (such as Arabs and
many of the members of the group that today is generally
referred to as 'African-American ') ------- and that all
of these Mixed-Race types can easily describe the
`unique social, cultural, racial blending' of individuals
and events `whose presence tells of the struggle
and championing of proud and strong people'.
***Every single Mixed-Race person -- whether they
are Mixed-Race via their Culture; Lineage; Parentage
or Ethnicity --- has just as much a right to acknowledge
the Multi-RACIAL lineages within their heritage" as
does any Mixed-Race person" no matter their appearance;
features; experiences; upbringing or choice of `identity'.
*** Every single Mixed-Race person on earth has
the God-given right to choose their own individual
`identity' with which they feel most comfortable --
as, ones' personal acknowledgement, acceptance and
embracing of a matter is often a thousand times more
empowering than if the whole world also decided
to affirm what one already knows to be true.
Just a thought.
Have a great day.
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