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      A Free-Reprint Article Written by: Lance Metzger

      Article Title:
      How To Avoid The Pitfalls, Wrong Turns, Broken Hearts Of Online Dating

      See TERMS OF REPRINT to the end of the article.

      Article Description:
      As an experienced online dater, I feel qualified to help you avoid
      pitfalls, wrong turns, broken hearts, and the general
      catastrophes associated with internet wooing. Read on as I
      examine many of the pitfalls of online dating and how to avoid
      them...


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      Copyright (c) 2009-2011 Lance Metzger
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      As an experienced online dater, I feel qualified to help you avoid
      pitfalls, wrong turns, broken hearts, and the general
      catastrophes associated with internet wooing.

      When you join your first online dating community, you will be
      required to fill in personal information. Please be honest. You
      are shorter and fatter than you think.

      However, you have to be true to yourself too. Do not embellish
      your life just because you think that is what the opposite sex
      wants to hear. If you create a fake persona, you will regret it
      and look like a liar.

      Warning: Prepare To Be Overwhelmed!

      After signing up, uploading your picture and answering personal
      questions, you will be bombarded with images of single people all
      wanting to be friends with you. It is a heady experience, but it
      isn't real.

      * Think of online dating as "an Ebay for your heart." Yeah,
      there is a lot of stuff on there, but you don't need it all.
      It's like going to the mall with unlimited credit. Take a deep
      breath and remember that these are people, not things to be
      purchased.

      * Take it slow. Don't act like the greedy kid in Willie Wonka.
      You are way better than that. Remember that the person you pick
      to correspond with is also connecting with other people. So, do
      yourself a favor and don't tell all your friends about this
      great guy/gal you met. Chances are your new "mate" might not be
      around in three days and you will look like a desperate loser.

      * Keep in mind that this is a "dating" website and some people
      are looking to date many people as possible because, after all,
      they paid for it.

      * Take your time to correspond and build up a friendship before
      you agree to meet someone in person. In the car business,
      salespeople encourage you to take a test drive to promote in you
      a feeling of "ownership." If you want a shot at more than just
      a string of one time coffee dates, you have to do the same. You
      need to become "real" to the person you are interested in.

      Write. Text. Whatever. Let your potential partner see you as a
      person. Let a friendship grow naturally so when you finally meet
      it is with a sense of anticipation, not dread. A date will be
      less likely to dump you on the spot if they are eager to meet you
      despite your shortcomings, and you will be more likely to
      overlook their receding hairline or less-than-perfect abs.

      Follow All The Safety Rules

      Meet in a public place, let a friend know where you will be, and
      don't give out personal contact information until you are sure
      that your date is reasonably trustworthy. Bad things don't
      happen very often, but they do happen.

      Don't believe everything your date tells you. Caveat Emptor -
      Buyer Beware.

      Be financially savvy. Dating sites are in this for the money.
      They offer you the "convenience" of debiting your checking
      account or credit card every month. Stay aware of when this
      deduction will occur, or even keep a calendar specifically for
      this purpose. Cancel your membership if you feel like you have
      met someone special and no longer need the service, or if you
      feel like this just isn't working out for you.

      Do not let your naysaying friends talk you out of this. In the
      past, "computer dating" had a negative connotation; happily, I
      believe that is changing. Users now realize that people on a
      dating site are busy professionals who don't like meeting
      potential partners in a more traditional way (i.e., bars). The
      men aren't creepy weirdos and the women aren't chubby
      introverts....well, at least, not all of us.

      Finally, be realistic. You will never meet the perfect person and
      you will never be the perfect person. Relax. Readjust your
      expectations and you and your date will have much more fun.
      That's what its all about, isn't it?




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      dating. Our no-strings-attached dating site has become a popular
      online adult dating destination, due to its large membership
      base of people looking for relationships of all kinds. Learn
      more at: http://www.nsadatingsite.com/


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        A Free-Reprint Article Written by: Lance Metzger

        Article Title:
        How To Avoid The Pitfalls, Wrong Turns, Broken Hearts Of Online Dating

        See TERMS OF REPRINT to the end of the article.

        Article Description:
        As an experienced online dater, I feel qualified to help you avoid
        pitfalls, wrong turns, broken hearts, and the general
        catastrophes associated with internet wooing. Read on as I
        examine many of the pitfalls of online dating and how to avoid
        them...


        Additional Article Information:
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        Distribution Date and Time: 2012-05-17 14:30:00

        Written By: Lance Metzger
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        Copyright (c) 2009-2012 Lance Metzger
        NSA Dating Site
        http://www.nsadatingsite.com



        As an experienced online dater, I feel qualified to help you avoid
        pitfalls, wrong turns, broken hearts, and the general
        catastrophes associated with internet wooing.

        When you join your first online dating community, you will be
        required to fill in personal information. Please be honest. You
        are shorter and fatter than you think.

        However, you have to be true to yourself too. Do not embellish
        your life just because you think that is what the opposite sex
        wants to hear. If you create a fake persona, you will regret it
        and look like a liar.

        Warning: Prepare To Be Overwhelmed!

        After signing up, uploading your picture and answering personal
        questions, you will be bombarded with images of single people all
        wanting to be friends with you. It is a heady experience, but it
        isn't real.

        * Think of online dating as "an Ebay for your heart." Yeah,
        there is a lot of stuff on there, but you don't need it all.
        It's like going to the mall with unlimited credit. Take a deep
        breath and remember that these are people, not things to be
        purchased.

        * Take it slow. Don't act like the greedy kid in Willie Wonka.
        You are way better than that. Remember that the person you pick
        to correspond with is also connecting with other people. So, do
        yourself a favor and don't tell all your friends about this
        great guy/gal you met. Chances are your new "mate" might not be
        around in three days and you will look like a desperate loser.

        * Keep in mind that this is a "dating" website and some people
        are looking to date many people as possible because, after all,
        they paid for it.

        * Take your time to correspond and build up a friendship before
        you agree to meet someone in person. In the car business,
        salespeople encourage you to take a test drive to promote in you
        a feeling of "ownership." If you want a shot at more than just
        a string of one time coffee dates, you have to do the same. You
        need to become "real" to the person you are interested in.

        Write. Text. Whatever. Let your potential partner see you as a
        person. Let a friendship grow naturally so when you finally meet
        it is with a sense of anticipation, not dread. A date will be
        less likely to dump you on the spot if they are eager to meet you
        despite your shortcomings, and you will be more likely to
        overlook their receding hairline or less-than-perfect abs.

        Follow All The Safety Rules

        Meet in a public place, let a friend know where you will be, and
        don't give out personal contact information until you are sure
        that your date is reasonably trustworthy. Bad things don't
        happen very often, but they do happen.

        Don't believe everything your date tells you. Caveat Emptor -
        Buyer Beware.

        Be financially savvy. Dating sites are in this for the money.
        They offer you the "convenience" of debiting your checking
        account or credit card every month. Stay aware of when this
        deduction will occur, or even keep a calendar specifically for
        this purpose. Cancel your membership if you feel like you have
        met someone special and no longer need the service, or if you
        feel like this just isn't working out for you.

        Do not let your naysaying friends talk you out of this. In the
        past, "computer dating" had a negative connotation; happily, I
        believe that is changing. Users now realize that people on a
        dating site are busy professionals who don't like meeting
        potential partners in a more traditional way (i.e., bars). The
        men aren't creepy weirdos and the women aren't chubby
        introverts....well, at least, not all of us.

        Finally, be realistic. You will never meet the perfect person and
        you will never be the perfect person. Relax. Readjust your
        expectations and you and your date will have much more fun.
        That's what its all about, isn't it?




        ---------------------------------------------------------------------
        Lance Metzger writes about relationships, offline and online
        dating. Our no-strings-attached dating site has become a popular
        online adult dating destination, due to its large membership
        base of people looking for relationships of all kinds. Learn
        more at: http://www.nsadatingsite.com/
        Consider Lance's new Kindle book, "Making Memories: Creative
        Dating Ideas": http://raintreepublishing.com/creative-dating-ideas/


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          A Free-Reprint Article Written by: Lance Metzger

          Article Title:
          How To Avoid The Pitfalls, Wrong Turns, Broken Hearts Of Online Dating

          See TERMS OF REPRINT to the end of the article.

          Article Description:
          As an experienced online dater, I feel qualified to help you avoid
          pitfalls, wrong turns, broken hearts, and the general
          catastrophes associated with internet wooing. Read on as I
          examine many of the pitfalls of online dating and how to avoid
          them...


          Additional Article Information:
          ===============================

          657 Words; formatted to 65 Characters per Line
          Distribution Date and Time: 2012-12-05 11:00:00

          Written By: Lance Metzger
          Copyright: 2009-2012
          Contact Email: mailto:lance.metzger@...



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          Copyright (c) 2009-2012 Lance Metzger
          NSA Dating Site
          http://www.nsadatingsite.com



          As an experienced online dater, I feel qualified to help you avoid
          pitfalls, wrong turns, broken hearts, and the general
          catastrophes associated with internet wooing.

          When you join your first online dating community, you will be
          required to fill in personal information. Please be honest. You
          are shorter and fatter than you think.

          However, you have to be true to yourself too. Do not embellish
          your life just because you think that is what the opposite sex
          wants to hear. If you create a fake persona, you will regret it
          and look like a liar.

          Warning: Prepare To Be Overwhelmed!

          After signing up, uploading your picture and answering personal
          questions, you will be bombarded with images of single people all
          wanting to be friends with you. It is a heady experience, but it
          isn't real.

          * Think of online dating as "an Ebay for your heart." Yeah,
          there is a lot of stuff on there, but you don't need it all.
          It's like going to the mall with unlimited credit. Take a deep
          breath and remember that these are people, not things to be
          purchased.

          * Take it slow. Don't act like the greedy kid in Willie Wonka.
          You are way better than that. Remember that the person you pick
          to correspond with is also connecting with other people. So, do
          yourself a favor and don't tell all your friends about this
          great guy/gal you met. Chances are your new "mate" might not be
          around in three days and you will look like a desperate loser.

          * Keep in mind that this is a "dating" website and some people
          are looking to date many people as possible because, after all,
          they paid for it.

          * Take your time to correspond and build up a friendship before
          you agree to meet someone in person. In the car business,
          salespeople encourage you to take a test drive to promote in you
          a feeling of "ownership." If you want a shot at more than just
          a string of one time coffee dates, you have to do the same. You
          need to become "real" to the person you are interested in.

          Write. Text. Whatever. Let your potential partner see you as a
          person. Let a friendship grow naturally so when you finally meet
          it is with a sense of anticipation, not dread. A date will be
          less likely to dump you on the spot if they are eager to meet you
          despite your shortcomings, and you will be more likely to
          overlook their receding hairline or less-than-perfect abs.

          Follow All The Safety Rules

          Meet in a public place, let a friend know where you will be, and
          don't give out personal contact information until you are sure
          that your date is reasonably trustworthy. Bad things don't
          happen very often, but they do happen.

          Don't believe everything your date tells you. Caveat Emptor -
          Buyer Beware.

          Be financially savvy. Dating sites are in this for the money.
          They offer you the "convenience" of debiting your checking
          account or credit card every month. Stay aware of when this
          deduction will occur, or even keep a calendar specifically for
          this purpose. Cancel your membership if you feel like you have
          met someone special and no longer need the service, or if you
          feel like this just isn't working out for you.

          Do not let your naysaying friends talk you out of this. In the
          past, "computer dating" had a negative connotation; happily, I
          believe that is changing. Users now realize that people on a
          dating site are busy professionals who don't like meeting
          potential partners in a more traditional way (i.e., bars). The
          men aren't creepy weirdos and the women aren't chubby
          introverts....well, at least, not all of us.

          Finally, be realistic. You will never meet the perfect person and
          you will never be the perfect person. Relax. Readjust your
          expectations and you and your date will have much more fun.
          That's what its all about, isn't it?




          ---------------------------------------------------------------------
          Lance Metzger writes about relationships, offline and online
          dating. Our no-strings-attached dating site has become a popular
          online adult dating destination, due to its large membership
          base of people looking for relationships of all kinds. Learn
          more at: http://www.nsadatingsite.com/
          Consider Lance's new Kindle book, "Making Memories: Creative
          Dating Ideas": http://raintreepublishing.com/creative-dating-ideas/


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            A Free-Reprint Article Written by: Lance Metzger

            Article Title:
            How To Avoid The Pitfalls, Wrong Turns, Broken Hearts Of Online Dating

            See TERMS OF REPRINT to the end of the article.

            Article Description:
            As an experienced online dater, I feel qualified to help you avoid
            pitfalls, wrong turns, broken hearts, and the general
            catastrophes associated with internet wooing. Read on as I
            examine many of the pitfalls of online dating and how to avoid
            them...


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            657 Words; formatted to 65 Characters per Line
            Distribution Date and Time: 2013-04-02 11:00:00

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            Copyright (c) 2009-2013 Lance Metzger
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            As an experienced online dater, I feel qualified to help you avoid
            pitfalls, wrong turns, broken hearts, and the general
            catastrophes associated with internet wooing.

            When you join your first online dating community, you will be
            required to fill in personal information. Please be honest. You
            are shorter and fatter than you think.

            However, you have to be true to yourself too. Do not embellish
            your life just because you think that is what the opposite sex
            wants to hear. If you create a fake persona, you will regret it
            and look like a liar.

            Warning: Prepare To Be Overwhelmed!

            After signing up, uploading your picture and answering personal
            questions, you will be bombarded with images of single people all
            wanting to be friends with you. It is a heady experience, but it
            isn't real.

            * Think of online dating as "an Ebay for your heart." Yeah,
            there is a lot of stuff on there, but you don't need it all.
            It's like going to the mall with unlimited credit. Take a deep
            breath and remember that these are people, not things to be
            purchased.

            * Take it slow. Don't act like the greedy kid in Willie Wonka.
            You are way better than that. Remember that the person you pick
            to correspond with is also connecting with other people. So, do
            yourself a favor and don't tell all your friends about this
            great guy/gal you met. Chances are your new "mate" might not be
            around in three days and you will look like a desperate loser.

            * Keep in mind that this is a "dating" website and some people
            are looking to date many people as possible because, after all,
            they paid for it.

            * Take your time to correspond and build up a friendship before
            you agree to meet someone in person. In the car business,
            salespeople encourage you to take a test drive to promote in you
            a feeling of "ownership." If you want a shot at more than just
            a string of one time coffee dates, you have to do the same. You
            need to become "real" to the person you are interested in.

            Write. Text. Whatever. Let your potential partner see you as a
            person. Let a friendship grow naturally so when you finally meet
            it is with a sense of anticipation, not dread. A date will be
            less likely to dump you on the spot if they are eager to meet you
            despite your shortcomings, and you will be more likely to
            overlook their receding hairline or less-than-perfect abs.

            Follow All The Safety Rules

            Meet in a public place, let a friend know where you will be, and
            don't give out personal contact information until you are sure
            that your date is reasonably trustworthy. Bad things don't
            happen very often, but they do happen.

            Don't believe everything your date tells you. Caveat Emptor -
            Buyer Beware.

            Be financially savvy. Dating sites are in this for the money.
            They offer you the "convenience" of debiting your checking
            account or credit card every month. Stay aware of when this
            deduction will occur, or even keep a calendar specifically for
            this purpose. Cancel your membership if you feel like you have
            met someone special and no longer need the service, or if you
            feel like this just isn't working out for you.

            Do not let your naysaying friends talk you out of this. In the
            past, "computer dating" had a negative connotation; happily, I
            believe that is changing. Users now realize that people on a
            dating site are busy professionals who don't like meeting
            potential partners in a more traditional way (i.e., bars). The
            men aren't creepy weirdos and the women aren't chubby
            introverts....well, at least, not all of us.

            Finally, be realistic. You will never meet the perfect person and
            you will never be the perfect person. Relax. Readjust your
            expectations and you and your date will have much more fun.
            That's what its all about, isn't it?




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            online adult dating destination, due to its large membership
            base of people looking for relationships of all kinds. Learn
            more at: http://www.nsadatingsite.com/
            Consider Lance's new Kindle book, "Making Memories: Creative
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              Copyright (c) 2009-2013 Lance Metzger
              NSA Dating Site
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              As an experienced online dater, I feel qualified to help you avoid
              pitfalls, wrong turns, broken hearts, and the general
              catastrophes associated with internet wooing.

              When you join your first online dating community, you will be
              required to fill in personal information. Please be honest. You
              are shorter and fatter than you think.

              However, you have to be true to yourself too. Do not embellish
              your life just because you think that is what the opposite sex
              wants to hear. If you create a fake persona, you will regret it
              and look like a liar.

              Warning: Prepare To Be Overwhelmed!

              After signing up, uploading your picture and answering personal
              questions, you will be bombarded with images of single people all
              wanting to be friends with you. It is a heady experience, but it
              isn't real.

              * Think of online dating as "an Ebay for your heart." Yeah,
              there is a lot of stuff on there, but you don't need it all.
              It's like going to the mall with unlimited credit. Take a deep
              breath and remember that these are people, not things to be
              purchased.

              * Take it slow. Don't act like the greedy kid in Willie Wonka.
              You are way better than that. Remember that the person you pick
              to correspond with is also connecting with other people. So, do
              yourself a favor and don't tell all your friends about this
              great guy/gal you met. Chances are your new "mate" might not be
              around in three days and you will look like a desperate loser.

              * Keep in mind that this is a "dating" website and some people
              are looking to date many people as possible because, after all,
              they paid for it.

              * Take your time to correspond and build up a friendship before
              you agree to meet someone in person. In the car business,
              salespeople encourage you to take a test drive to promote in you
              a feeling of "ownership." If you want a shot at more than just
              a string of one time coffee dates, you have to do the same. You
              need to become "real" to the person you are interested in.

              Write. Text. Whatever. Let your potential partner see you as a
              person. Let a friendship grow naturally so when you finally meet
              it is with a sense of anticipation, not dread. A date will be
              less likely to dump you on the spot if they are eager to meet you
              despite your shortcomings, and you will be more likely to
              overlook their receding hairline or less-than-perfect abs.

              Follow All The Safety Rules

              Meet in a public place, let a friend know where you will be, and
              don't give out personal contact information until you are sure
              that your date is reasonably trustworthy. Bad things don't
              happen very often, but they do happen.

              Don't believe everything your date tells you. Caveat Emptor -
              Buyer Beware.

              Be financially savvy. Dating sites are in this for the money.
              They offer you the "convenience" of debiting your checking
              account or credit card every month. Stay aware of when this
              deduction will occur, or even keep a calendar specifically for
              this purpose. Cancel your membership if you feel like you have
              met someone special and no longer need the service, or if you
              feel like this just isn't working out for you.

              Do not let your naysaying friends talk you out of this. In the
              past, "computer dating" had a negative connotation; happily, I
              believe that is changing. Users now realize that people on a
              dating site are busy professionals who don't like meeting
              potential partners in a more traditional way (i.e., bars). The
              men aren't creepy weirdos and the women aren't chubby
              introverts....well, at least, not all of us.

              Finally, be realistic. You will never meet the perfect person and
              you will never be the perfect person. Relax. Readjust your
              expectations and you and your date will have much more fun.
              That's what its all about, isn't it?




              ---------------------------------------------------------------------
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              dating. Our no-strings-attached dating site has become a popular
              online adult dating destination, due to its large membership
              base of people looking for relationships of all kinds. Learn
              more at: http://www.nsadatingsite.com/
              Consider Lance's new Kindle book, "Making Memories: Creative
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                As an experienced online dater, I feel qualified to help you avoid
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                Copyright (c) 2009-2013 Lance Metzger
                NSA Dating Site
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                As an experienced online dater, I feel qualified to help you avoid
                pitfalls, wrong turns, broken hearts, and the general
                catastrophes associated with internet wooing.

                When you join your first online dating community, you will be
                required to fill in personal information. Please be honest. You
                are shorter and fatter than you think.

                However, you have to be true to yourself too. Do not embellish
                your life just because you think that is what the opposite sex
                wants to hear. If you create a fake persona, you will regret it
                and look like a liar.

                Warning: Prepare To Be Overwhelmed!

                After signing up, uploading your picture and answering personal
                questions, you will be bombarded with images of single people all
                wanting to be friends with you. It is a heady experience, but it
                isn't real.

                * Think of online dating as "an Ebay for your heart." Yeah,
                there is a lot of stuff on there, but you don't need it all.
                It's like going to the mall with unlimited credit. Take a deep
                breath and remember that these are people, not things to be
                purchased.

                * Take it slow. Don't act like the greedy kid in Willie Wonka.
                You are way better than that. Remember that the person you pick
                to correspond with is also connecting with other people. So, do
                yourself a favor and don't tell all your friends about this
                great guy/gal you met. Chances are your new "mate" might not be
                around in three days and you will look like a desperate loser.

                * Keep in mind that this is a "dating" website and some people
                are looking to date many people as possible because, after all,
                they paid for it.

                * Take your time to correspond and build up a friendship before
                you agree to meet someone in person. In the car business,
                salespeople encourage you to take a test drive to promote in you
                a feeling of "ownership." If you want a shot at more than just
                a string of one time coffee dates, you have to do the same. You
                need to become "real" to the person you are interested in.

                Write. Text. Whatever. Let your potential partner see you as a
                person. Let a friendship grow naturally so when you finally meet
                it is with a sense of anticipation, not dread. A date will be
                less likely to dump you on the spot if they are eager to meet you
                despite your shortcomings, and you will be more likely to
                overlook their receding hairline or less-than-perfect abs.

                Follow All The Safety Rules

                Meet in a public place, let a friend know where you will be, and
                don't give out personal contact information until you are sure
                that your date is reasonably trustworthy. Bad things don't
                happen very often, but they do happen.

                Don't believe everything your date tells you. Caveat Emptor -
                Buyer Beware.

                Be financially savvy. Dating sites are in this for the money.
                They offer you the "convenience" of debiting your checking
                account or credit card every month. Stay aware of when this
                deduction will occur, or even keep a calendar specifically for
                this purpose. Cancel your membership if you feel like you have
                met someone special and no longer need the service, or if you
                feel like this just isn't working out for you.

                Do not let your naysaying friends talk you out of this. In the
                past, "computer dating" had a negative connotation; happily, I
                believe that is changing. Users now realize that people on a
                dating site are busy professionals who don't like meeting
                potential partners in a more traditional way (i.e., bars). The
                men aren't creepy weirdos and the women aren't chubby
                introverts....well, at least, not all of us.

                Finally, be realistic. You will never meet the perfect person and
                you will never be the perfect person. Relax. Readjust your
                expectations and you and your date will have much more fun.
                That's what its all about, isn't it?




                ---------------------------------------------------------------------
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                dating. Our no-strings-attached dating site has become a popular
                online adult dating destination, due to its large membership
                base of people looking for relationships of all kinds. Learn
                more at: http://www.nsadatingsite.com/
                Consider Lance's new Kindle book, "Making Memories: Creative
                Dating Ideas": http://raintreepublishing.com/creative-dating-ideas/


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