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    Really! This is a valid spiritual technique that, unlike those HK hands out and sells, actually works: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DVdKQ0I35qo
    Message 1 of 29 , Jan 18, 2013
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      Really! This is a valid spiritual
      technique that, unlike those
      HK hands out and sells, actually
      works:

      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DVdKQ0I35qo

      --- In EckankarSurvivorsAnonymous@yahoogroups.com, "Non" wrote:
      >
      > Good points. I think what I had in the back of my mind was that there would
      > probably be less of a pull toward Cults if people were kinder to themselves and to each
      > other. Unfortunately, ours is a very competitive society and the small talk
      > doesn't get appreciated or is even ignored, but it is certainly worth the continued effort.
      >
      > Since I am not in the South, I did notice that quite often, when I was visiting
      > a friend a several years a go, driving from Atlanta, Georgia to Sarasota,
      > Florida, that people were much more willing to start a conversation, clerks,
      > strangers, women smiling and so on. I was told that is "Southern Hospitality".
      > (At the same time I was shocked to see a giant Confederate flag flying on the
      > highway.) Where I live, that friendly attitude is not so common. But I will take
      > your advise to heart and see if it makes a difference.
      >
      > Non ;)
      >
      > --- In EckankarSurvivorsAnonymous@yahoogroups.com, "prometheus_973" wrote:
      > >
      > > Hello Non and All,
      > > Actually, having good
      > > interactive relationships
      > > with other people isn't
      > > necessarily about making
      > > new friends nor having
      > > the same religious, political,
      > > and lifestyle beliefs.
      > > Trying to get others
      > > to follow or accept our
      > > beliefs isn't the goal.
      > >
      > > It's more about being
      > > "friendly" to/with/for
      > > others and, thus, to
      > > ourselves. Usually, being
      > > friendly and promoting
      > > "friendship" (versus making
      > > friends) isn't that hard
      > > to accomplish. And, if
      > > it is, we need to make
      > > more of an effort and
      > > figure out what it is that's
      > > making this difficult.
      > >
      > > Smiles, politeness, sharing
      > > some small talk, and recognizing
      > > the other person by looking
      > > directly at them goes a
      > > long way.
      > >
      > > We can have a friendship
      > > (i.e. relationship) with a
      > > clerk whose full name we
      > > might not ever know. It's
      > > fun to simply, and naturally,
      > > smile and be friendly to
      > > strangers and acquaintances
      > > without expecting anything
      > > else. It takes the pressure
      > > off everyone when we keep
      > > it light. This lightness of
      > > Being will help to improve
      > > our lives and that of others.
      > >
      > > It's true that we will never
      > > be able to be friendly with
      > > some people. And, we won't
      > > always be friends with those
      > > people we know now. Some
      > > people don't deserve our
      > > efforts and will never deserve
      > > it. They are enemies to what
      > > we believe in.
      > >
      > > And, not all relationships
      > > work out nor need to be
      > > continued for the sake of
      > > all those involved. Sometimes
      > > people just have to let go
      > > and move on even with
      > > family members. But, these
      > > are usually relationships
      > > that have become complicated
      > > via various factors and are
      > > usually more one-sided
      > > due to a lack of communication,
      > > closed mindedness and
      > > hurt feelings.
      > >
      > > Our positive relationships
      > > with nature, to animals,
      > > and to other people are
      > > connections that make our
      > > lives worth living.
      > >
      > >
      > > Prometheus
      > >
      > >
      > >
      > >
      > >
      > > "Non" wrote:
      > > Prometheus, I like what you said in a previous post on this thread that we need
      > > to focus more on caring relationships with others, sometimes easier said than
      > > done, cause a lot of people in our society are not that interested in making new
      > > friends. Finding people who aren't interested in some new or old Dogma has it's
      > > challenges as well. However, I have noticed that the demographic of unaffiliated
      > > as far as religion may be growing. :)
      > >
      > > Non ;)
      > >
      > > "Non" wrote:
      > > >
      > > > Also, IMHO, it has to do with our woeful ability to care for our children, to
      > > teach them kindness through example and compassion. Alice Miller has written a
      > > lot about some of the worst in our history, like Hitler and Stalin and some
      > > possible reasons for why they became the psychopathic leaders of what was
      > > inexhaustible destruction. Some sociopaths, given the power and opportunity to
      > > act without impunity will not stop and won't be reformed. Then again some may.
      > > In the mean time, the best approach is to continue to speak out against them,
      > > otherwise they will see their actions as unopposed and rationalized somehow as
      > > even a twisted moral imperative.
      > > >
      > > > Though they may be damaged or even genetically bent in a certain malevolent
      > > direction and they have not found in themselves a heart with empathy, at some
      > > point they simply must be opposed at every possible way, even though it may seem
      > > like a small intervention.
      > > >
      > > > Anyway, that's my one point of view for now. Recently, I've had several
      > > situations that have really cautioned me about how some will intentionally con
      > > and steal and lie in a very deliberate mix of what seems to be sincerity and
      > > outright manipulation for their own personal gain. I have felt hurt and shocked
      > > at the same time. I am learning that it is really a good idea to be vigilant,
      > > and it is a balancing act of how to do this while still not closing off your own
      > > heart and sense of kindness, which I think starts with yourself.
      > > >
      > > > Non ;)
      > > >
      > > Janice Pfeiffer wrote:
      > > > >
      > > Hi I am,
      > > It is not that I feel tolerant of the sociopath but it seems inevitable that
      > > we deal with them. I do believe they are those who haven't learned much yet.
      > > So I feel like the best we can do is keep them from harming us as much as
      > > possible and let them go on their way.
      > > Thanks for your comments.
      > > > >
      > > I AM wrote:
      > > > >
      > > Thanks Prometheus for writing challenging angles to view life from. And
      > > regardless of our origins it still seems to come down to finding and sharing
      > > meaning, purpose, love, care etc. in our lives.
      > > > >
      > > > > Wow Janice your heart-felt expression of love for life and tolerance for the
      > > sociopathically insane really touched me. I have a lot of learning to get to the
      > > point that you expressed....very inspirational amd appreciated.
      > > > >
      > > > > I AM
      > > > >
      > > Janice Pfeiffer wrote:
      > > > > >
      > > Thank you Prometheus, I enjoyed your writing very much. The way I see
      > > it when the bad guys do bad things and the sociopaths use it for their purposes,
      > > there are always the good guys who step forth and do the right things. We
      > > talked a lot about that school shooting recently and I believe that is a
      > > happening that stunned us all. The senselessness of what happened is not
      > > something a loving heart can even begin to understand. But there where
      > > people there who gave their lives to protect helpless children. There were
      > > people from all over the country who helped in anyway they could. That town
      > > came together to support each other in an amazing way. Shared grief does
      > > appear to make a lighter burden for the individual. So for me, I think there
      > > is a kind of balance of good and evil even if it is the evil we hear the most
      > > about. We hear so much of the bad it is hard to keep believing in the
      > > good. But when people are hurt, there are always others
      > > > > > who come forward and do what they can to give comfort and love. It
      > > doesn't take the pain away but it shows those who are hurting that there is
      > > still love in the world and no number of atrocities can destroy that
      > > willingness to help others. Maybe part of growing is learning to discern the
      > > motives of others and learning not to be taken in by sociopaths. Maybe part
      > > of what we are here to do is to love against all odds when the media blasts us
      > > everyday with horrible stories and tells us how close we are to being blown away
      > > by foreign threats. Maybe what we are learning is that a loving heart is a
      > > strong heart while those who usually do these horrible things are afraid and
      > > broken inside. Maybe those sociopaths aren't the strongest either since it
      > > takes so much energy just maintaining their facades that they don't really see
      > > the precious things in life like those loving relationships you mentioned.
      > > After all, most of them are so busy hiding their
      > > > > > true selves they are obviously cowards. They don't live life, they
      > > hide from life while trying to grab all they can for themselves. You got to
      > > admit that life is full of smoke and mirrors and the real gems in life may not
      > > sparkle like diamonds but do give off a quiet beauty that only those with the
      > > knowledge to appreciate them can even see them. So I guess those sociopaths
      > > have a lot of learning to do and a lot of growing to do before they can ever
      > > even start to see a glint of beauty in life itself. When you love, your
      > > heart can break but can you really say the love wasn't worth it? I would
      > > rather know my heart will hurt than not to feel anything for others at all.
      > > Strong loving hearts will mend but those shattered beings who harm and use
      > > others haven't even begun the journey. Loving hearts can and will share the
      > > pain. Eckankar doesn't do anything for anyone but eckankar. So what does
      > > that say about the lem and the other leaders of eckankar? I'd say those they
      > > use are closer to perfection than they can even see. Bless all the loving eckist
      > > tonight.
      > > > > >
      > >
      > > prometheus wrote:
      > > > > > Hello I Am, Non, and All,
      > > > > > I'm not so sure that humans
      > > > > > will ever become like, God,
      > > > > > our imagined or possible
      > > > > > creator. And, if at all, certainly
      > > > > > not in any lifetime soon.
      > > > > >
      > > > > > But, it could be that the
      > > > > > universe(s) just happened
      > > > > > and that the remnants of
      > > > > > other life forms were spread
      > > > > > to this planet, and others,
      > > > > > via space rubble... from
      > > > > > destroyed civilizations
      > > > > > and planets. Or, was it an
      > > > > > intentional seeding by an
      > > > > > advanced race... which was,
      > > > > > itself, seeded by another
      > > > > > advanced race etc.
      > > > > >
      > > > > > Maybe the "spiritual"
      > > > > > experiences we have
      > > > > > are the result of
      > > > > > interaction with the
      > > > > > quantum mechanical
      > > > > > field?
      > > > > >
      > > > > > Anyway, it seems to me
      > > > > > that what really matters
      > > > > > are relationships. It's our
      > > > > > relationships with others,
      > > > > > even strangers, that matter
      > > > > > most. This is how we really
      > > > > > learn and grow. Loving
      > > > > > relationships are valuable.
      > > > > >
      > > > > > Klemp, and others like
      > > > > > him, are: liars; posers;
      > > > > > have arrested development;
      > > > > > are sociopathic; narcissistic;
      > > > > > and are even psychopathic.
      > > > > > They are incapable of learning,
      > > > > > or caring about others (are
      > > > > > unloving) and attempt to
      > > > > > impede social progress and
      > > > > > justice. They use the rest of
      > > > > > us for their own personal
      > > > > > greed and selfish desires.
      > > > > >
      > > > > > Then, again, this strife and
      > > > > > uncertainly (stress) that is
      > > > > > created can make life interesting
      > > > > > and a challenge, although,
      > > > > > it can/will also be physically
      > > > > > and emotionally painful.
      > > > > >
      > > > > > But, having a regular life
      > > > > > without additional commitments
      > > > > > and involvements can also
      > > > > > offer rewarding experiences
      > > > > > and insights. We are never
      > > > > > all that alone. However, I'm
      > > > > > not sure how peace of any
      > > > > > sort (except in one's own mind)
      > > > > > will ever happen in a world
      > > > > > controlled by sociopaths.
      > > > > >
      > > > > > One must care about everyone
      > > > > > and have caring relationships
      > > > > > with people in order for humankind
      > > > > > to advance and survive. To me,
      > > > > > this is the "spiritual" key to life.
      > > > > > I almost included animals, too,
      > > > > > but since I'm not vegan I couldn't
      > > > > > include "caring" about them (all)
      > > > > > too.
      > > > > >
      > > > > > How can one really "care" about
      > > > > > the sociopaths and psychopaths
      > > > > > except to keep them away from
      > > > > > nice, loving and kind (normal?)
      > > > > > people.
      > > > > >
      > > > > > When one thinks about it the
      > > > > > definition of what's "normal"
      > > > > > keeps changing. The extroverts
      > > > > > seem to be more pathological
      > > > > > than the introverts don't you
      > > > > > agree? Yet, the extroverts try
      > > > > > to force us introverts to become
      > > > > > extroverted. Why is that? Misery
      > > > > > loves company I suppose or is
      > > > > > it that an army of glassy-eyed
      > > > > > introverts acting, as if, extroverted
      > > > > > is more intimidating.
      > > > > >
      > > > > > In any case the idea of a "God"
      > > > > > to worship and viewed as being
      > > > > > "involved" in our lives detracts
      > > > > > from "us" being involved in our
      > > > > > lives because of the differences
      > > > > > we see in one another. This is
      > > > > > why there are so many different
      > > > > > religious dogmas of what's right
      > > > > > and wrong.
      > > > > >
      > > > > > Therefore, the differences in the
      > > > > > way in which "God" is worshipped,
      > > > > > for me, shows that "God" does not
      > > > > > exist. We don't want to be alone
      > > > > > nor take responsibility for our own
      > > > > > actions. Thus, we blame God or
      > > > > > use God as our scape goat.
      > > > > >
      > > > > > There are major flaws with all
      > > > > > of these religions and the so-called
      > > > > > "source" of their scriptures. It's
      > > > > > all hearsay and the only thing
      > > > > > that, supposedly, gives them
      > > > > > validation is that these various
      > > > > > people in history/myth that the
      > > > > > scribes wrote about are claimed
      > > > > > to have said or done some nice,
      > > > > > inspirational, brave, or insightful
      > > > > > things a very long time ago. Age/
      > > > > > time (being ancient) seems to
      > > > > > have given them credibility, because
      > > > > > it is believed and taught that
      > > > > > only Divine Intercession could
      > > > > > have been the source for their
      > > > > > Divine Inspiration.
      > > > > >
      > > > > > But, IMO, there are many people,
      > > > > > today, who are not even followers
      > > > > > of these dogmas that are as, or
      > > > > > more: honest; brave; insightful;
      > > > > > inspirational; aware; and "spiritual"
      > > > > > than the prophets, saints, and founders
      > > > > > of these major and minor religions.
      > > > > > Many of these people inspired
      > > > > > others by never giving up in time
      > > > > > of conflict because, sometimes,
      > > > > > there weren't many other choices.
      > > > > > Even those who did give up and
      > > > > > had bad things befall them, still,
      > > > > > maintained their faith and this
      > > > > > fact turned them into "prophets"
      > > > > > or saints. If this is the standard
      > > > > > for religions there are an awful
      > > > > > lot of believers and faithful, today,
      > > > > > that just as deluded and desperate.
      > > > > >
      > > > > > Prometheus
      > > > > >
      > > > > >
      > > > > > iam999freedom" wrote:
      > > > > > Yes Non, combine authoritarianism
      > > > > > with unconditional love for the
      > > > > > master and you get a submissive
      > > > > > control pattern as your reward.
      > > > > > Buyer beware!
      > > > > >
      > > > > > Prometheus, you wrote:
      > > > > > "All of this, it seems, is simply
      > > > > > an experiment to see if we
      > > > > > are all capable of evolving
      > > > > > into our "spiritual" potential.
      > > > > > Are we to become more than
      > > > > > merely a divine thought?
      > > > > > Maybe there is something
      > > > > > more to that piece of a mirror
      > > > > > analogy."
      > >
      >
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