Re: Marriage Advice from A Master Recluse
- Hello Non eckster and All,
There're several things
that cause relationship
problems for EKists... one
is the karma belief. Thus,
there's always that escape
clause... that past life karma
has been resolved and, now,
it's time to move on and
resolve, more, remaining
karma with the next person.
However, since ECKists
practice detachment why
should they be getting upset
and require a relationship
technique to resolve problems?
And, don't they have the
"Inner Guidance" of the
Mahanta? Why, then, do
they need the LEM's Outer
advice? If one believed the
PR H.I.s should be more
advanced than their outer
behavior which should be
balanced with that of Soul.
This is why they're so confused.
Klemp keeps them off balance
in order to control them!
On one hand EKists are told
they're advanced spiritual
beings who are capable of
inner communication with
"masters" and travel to other
planes with their Mahanta.
And, on the other hand,
their fake Mahanta needs
to communicate with then
via seminar talks and publications.
If HK was a true Master he
could communicate with
any and all of his H.I.s
ECKists must believe in the
lie and deny the truth. That's
the problem and it keeps them
from growing, being free, and
becoming responsible for their
"Non" eckster wrote:
Klemp should be called THE LIVING LAME MASTER. His advise for communication in
marriage would just cause more frustration and problems. In fact, the main
problem may be that eckists don't really practice good communication skills
anyway. They are taught to follow advise through authoritarian hierarchical
channels. Also, they don't have that much experience with the experience of what
it means to be genuine and to accept that a certain amount of conflict is normal
in even the most loving of relationships. Their idea of love is more of a
The only good thing about this stupid advise, is that a few eckists may wake up
and begin a life that is more genuine and free from clut like dictums and dogma.
noneckster ; )
>From Spiritual Wisdom on Relationships, by Harold Klemp
> It seems Klemp can't help
> but show his inadequacies
> as a pseudo-expert of both
> "spiritual" and marriage
> counseling techniques.
> Q: Can you help me with any
> advice on how to keep the love
> flowing in my marriage? It's
> been strained lately.
> A: (HK) Communication is
> a difficult thing to keep open
> in any marriage.
> ME: Not true! I don't have that
> problem. If you're married to the
> right person, your Soulmate or
> Twin Soul, there's no work or
> maintenance involved. It's natural
> and effortless because both are
> like minded. Apparently Klemp
> has never had the Soulmate/
> Twin Soul experience and, thus,
> has no clue as to what he's talking
> HK: One useful technique when
> things get strained is for one
> person to interview the other
> for twenty minutes, with notes.
> ME: Is this what Harry and Joan
> do? That's both funny and sad!
> What's sadder is that EKists will
> emulate him and follow this really
> stupid advice.
> HK: The interviewer is free to
> ask whatever he wants. The
> only limitation is no question
> can be phrased so that it can
> be answered with a simple yes
> or no. That doesn't open communication.
> ME: The "Interviewer?" "He?"
> How about he and she?
> HK: The interviewer is not able
> to defend himself against any
> accusations but must sit there
> and take it. Of course, the roles
> change in twenty minutes. The
> other spouse then becomes the
> interviewer of hopes and dashed
> ME: You must sit there and
> take it? How about having a
> rule of not saying something
> you can't take back. And then
> the roles are switched around
> so that the other spouse can
> talk about "hopes and dashed
> dreams." That's ridiculous!
> HK: It is surprising what marriage
> partners learn about their companions
> that make them truly interesting
> people with goals too.
> ME: One learns that via daily
> sharing. Klemp is really comical.
> If one read all of his writings
> it would become apparent that
> he is incapable of showing empathy.
> He'll give Lip Service to the same
> things that Christians do, but
> he's too aloof because he actually
> believes that he's God like. This
> delusion has perpetuated his
> arrested development and has
> placed him more out of touch
> with his H.I.s and chelas. This
> is why he needs his RESAs and
> those snail mail letters in order
> to "know" what's happening.
> There is no "Inner" communication!