Chi Rho Reflection for the Week of March 11, 2007
- Chi Rho Reflection for the Week of March 11, 2007
As one of the on-going ministries of Chi Rho
Press, here is a selection from our book of daily
devotions, "Living as the Beloved: One Day at a
Time," by the Rev. Dr. Sandra Bochonok.
Please read the Scripture passage and Dr. Bochonok's
meditation. We hope you will be blessed.
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When blessing is denied
"Then Esau said, 'Have you not reserved a blessing
The concept of blessing is ancient and found in
many cultures. We can learn and appropriate the
Jewish tradition of blessing for our own use in
modern Western cultural contexts. If we get a
blessing from our parents, we can be a source of
blessing to others and ourselves. Families that
withhold or deny blessings are very hurtful to
Blessing is well documented in the Middle East.
In ancient Jewish culture, blessing was part of
daily and weekly life. Before children could
walk, they received blessings from their parents,
on the Sabbath, and other holy days. It was
actually the duty of parents to bless their
children. It was then the duty of the rabbis
to bless the children on Sabbath, feast, and
other holy days. A family blessing is important
to communicate a sense of identity, meaning,
love, and acceptance. Many orthodox Jewish
families give their children a weekly blessing
by candlelight. They speak special words of
love and acceptance for each child.
I have listened to many people over the years
when their families reject them. I wonder if
parents truly understand the pain caused when
a blessing is denied their children. People
are denied parental blessing for many reasons.
Perhaps a desperate woman had an abortion, or
another has taken drugs. Many parents from
abusive homes never received a blessing
themselves and pass on their destructive
behaviors to the next generation. Denied
blessing can lead to desperate and destructive
behaviors as people look for love in all the
The six most healing words in the world are "God
bless you" and "I love you." When was the last
time we spoke those words to someone in our family?
When was the last time we shared these words with
friends? Have we denied someone their blessing
through our words or actions?
God, even if others may have denied me a blessing,
help me bless them. Amen.
Grace and peace,
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