Re: [Buddhism_101] Do I have to return to my family to be happy?
- I hope this doesn't sound cleche, but after years of being in a 12 step program, one of the things that has been driven into my mind is "no one can MAKE you feel anything" They might set up the conditions to set that train of thought in motion, but it's up to you to see through to the truth. It might be a good excercise to be around them, every thing that happens I can use it to learn about myself, or I can fall back into the same old traps, which is what often happens and then whoop up on myself for doing that again too. What's better, or worse anyway? More money? More children? a mortgage?More More More. It all goes south anyway, everything. The only thing there is clinging to it.
--- On Mon, 6/30/08, homerdmc <dcoufal6@...> wrote:
From: homerdmc <dcoufal6@...>
Subject: [Buddhism_101] Do I have to return to my family to be happy?
Date: Monday, June 30, 2008, 4:18 AM
I am talking about my brother, sister and their families. My parents
have passed on. I never married or had my own children. But I would
feel inferior to what I have, so I never see them-not in 4 years. I
think maybe, in some ways, this may go against the 8 fold path. But I
am afraid of being made to feel inferior again.
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